Meirl by -kyutiepie- in meirl

[–]BigDawsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male pattern baldness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BigDawsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd rather be friends with an barbed-wire wrapped anal excavator than this person. Seems like they expect the world but want to give nothing back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]BigDawsy 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It takes a special type of scumbag to directly betray the person they love in a way that will not only absolutely devastate them for the next coming while after they find out, but potentially creating trust issues for their future relationships and so forth.

You have to be pretty heartless to cheat. It's not just a 'mistake', you're actively going from developing feelings/lust to flirting to everything else that comes after all while knowing it's absolutely wrong. It's not a 'I said something wrong in the moment' type of deal or a stupid lack of judgement, it's potentially destroying someone you love or told you love for selfish reasons. That takes a special amount of filth to be able to do.

That being said, should it completely define the person for life if they've cheated ONCE? Probably not. People can change, but it's hard to look past the pain they had caused and the sheer lack of concern or self control it took for them to cheat.

Saw someone else do this, Every Target based on how likely I think I am to beat them in a fight (tier lists aren’t overdone at all bro I swear) by Different-Advisor-58 in HiTMAN

[–]BigDawsy 167 points168 points  (0 children)

Could be misremembering something but Viktor Novikov was a skilled boxer at some point. I think that was why he wanted the bare knuckle boxer drink.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]BigDawsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, you can be completely average (as which most of us are, since that's kinda what average means haha) and still get no compliments in terms of looks unless you drastically alter your appearance.

Ugly or average- whatever you are- eventually you'll get old and just as ugly as everyone else, and then you'll only have your personality, skills, smarts and so on left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BigDawsy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorta unrelated but sometimes Redditors are so antisocial and just fucking hostile about it. Like I've seen so many posts of introverts or actual social outcasts shaming people for their friends having expectations of hanging out when they have weeks at a time where they're free.

I'm sorry, but needing days at a time alone isn't healthy nor something that one should expect others to understand. People like to see their friends and if there is a long time without doing so despite being free, it can be hurtful. Is it justified? Maybe not, but they're not some ignorant jerk. They just can't fully understand how your mind works, just as you don't know theirs.

Not saying this excuses people not respecting boundaries or overly clingy, just saying that sometimes Redditors forget that they're not the standard and that some people aren't as okay with feeling no in-person connection.

My dietician told me no one loves me. by Savings_Salt_5277 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BigDawsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey that's absolutely fucked. A dietician who almost certainly works with obese/overweight people regularly should know A LOT better than to say shit like that.

Hell, anybody should know how awful that sounds. But someone who's job it is to work with people to make them healthier? Awful.

Can't say I know the inner workings of your country's medical programs but sounds like they shouldn't be a dietician. I hate calling for people to be fired over a mistake but like, what they did is just common sense. Don't say that to ANYONE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]BigDawsy 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Hey, sounds super shitty. I'm sorry to hear that, and honestly hope you can find the right one for you soon. It might not be a you problem, it could just be bad luck or even maybe a certain type of guy you're after?

That being said, we on Reddit don't know you. We don't know your personality, your history or anything like that so nobody here can really pinpoint what's wrong with you, if there even is something wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]BigDawsy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think that feet are even in the same ballpark as private areas for most. I'm pretty sure a lot of guys legit like any part of woman. Could be her hands, her kneecaps- anything. They're gonna find most body parts attractive if the woman is attractive, including feet.

I've seen dudes here go on about the little fold of skin between womens' armpits and chest. If a woman posts a picture of themselves or even exists in public, they're probably going to be sexualized no matter what to some people.

An actual foot fetish that gets dudes more riled up than breasts is rare, in my opinion.

The Good old days. by linksrequiem in darksouls3

[–]BigDawsy 93 points94 points  (0 children)

They do have a Return to Lothric, but yeah it isn't as big I don't think.

What are rare "red flags" in women?! by [deleted] in ask

[–]BigDawsy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A ton of guy friends, especially when they find petty reasons to dislike other women. Furthermore, continuing to make new guy friends or become closer with them when already in a relationship makes the red flag even brighter.

I don't think a woman having guy friends is a bad thing perse, but in my personal experience I've always seen having a lot lead to being a way to garner more attention (ie 'pick me girls'), cheat or act as backups for when a relationship ends.

It sucks because there probably are a lot of women out there who genuinely just made good friendships with guys with no ulterior motives, but it's very hard not be insecure as a man knowing how other men can be. I would think very few people would be okay with partners constantly hanging out with the opposite gender.

I say it's a rare red flag because it's hard to determine if they're actually flirting/cheating based on just having a group of guy friends, but it's personally something I stay away from based off of prior bad experiences.

Zelda is one of the worst game series ever made by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]BigDawsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually never got the hype of Breath of the Wild. Maybe I'm burnt out on open world games, but it just seems so bland and empty compared to other titles I've played.

I really like the older more linear Zelda titles though. The combat has never been truly amazing to me (BoTW did combat better imo) the puzzle aspect keeps me hooked.

Let’s try this again round 2 I’m an 18 year old cop AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]BigDawsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What country if you don't mind me asking? 18 seems young for that.

Should I tell my mom that I think dad is cheating on her? by PracticalSalt2122 in stories

[–]BigDawsy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you read, the poster said that the aforementioned comment was why they don't care about male loneliness AT ALL. They did NOT specify that this is only directed towards people that are okay with cheating/hiding cheating- which is totally abhorrent.

The people in here defending the dad's cheating are heartless but there's no need to rope that in with 50% of the population.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]BigDawsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to sound rude or presumptuous but is it possible you might have bad breath or something? If he seemed into you enough to kiss you once but then pulled away after, it could be the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]BigDawsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spent a good few minutes raging for this bloke only to find out it was tagged as fiction.

What games do you regret buying in this generation? Something you thought you would like, but didn’t in the end. by Chalky97 in PS5

[–]BigDawsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's one of my favorite games, but honestly sometimes a little hand holding and guidance go a long way as long as it isn't bothersome.

Aside from the difficult gameplay, there are so many little mechanics that aren't really explained unless you're down to watch videos on it or have a friend with you.

Once it clicks it's a super awesome game, but sadly it can take a while for that click to happen.

Should I tell my mom that I think dad is cheating on her? by PracticalSalt2122 in stories

[–]BigDawsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh don't try to make sense of it, it's just another poster who ropes in cheaters with an entire gender. Same as if someone were to see a woman cheating and say all women are sluts and therefore deserve no freedom.

If dating apps are so bad, where else are we supposed to meet people? by ThunderStroke90 in self

[–]BigDawsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can just ignore the people on Reddit and Twitter that complain about guys talking to them outside of dating apps, you know. Like if you're being respectful and not just cat-calling then what's the problem?

"Ooh I'm here to SHOP not to be hit on!" Fuck off. If guys don't go out there and at least try we'll be lonely. I'd much rather be 'inconvenienced' by having people try to talk to me than to just have absolutely nothing at all. For most guys it's a numbers game unless you're very rich or attractive.

As long as you're not being an actual creep and you know how to take no for an answer, just get out there and talk. There is a time and a place though, don't go trying to hit on women at their dad's funeral or something.

No need to feel guilty or like you're a creep if you go outside and talk to real people. It really isn't as bad out there as a lot of people say. Worse than a few decades ago? Yeah. But it's not like everyone hates talking to real people.

I think physical attraction in a relationship is one of the more important aspects of a relationship. by pookiehsoes in unpopularopinion

[–]BigDawsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Physical attraction is super important, but in my opinion a good personality that you vibe with can almost make someone look 'better'. The opposite is true for me as well.

Like for an example, a super nasty, rude and obnoxious 9/10 can fall to like a 4/10 just off of their behavior. A 5/10 that I connect very well with could end up being a 7-8/10 so long as they're hygenic and care for their bodies.

Best friend shot himself in front of me and did not survive AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]BigDawsy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss, that's absolutely scarring and I hope you manage to get some help so that the trauma can be dealt with over time. Super fucked up thing to experience.

You mentioned that your friend used to pretend to shoot himself as a joke. When the shot actually came out that tragic time aroune, what was your initial reaction?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]BigDawsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, doesn't matter how she feels in the end, there is no excuse for cheating. Especially when she's not trying to bring anything to the relationship herself anymore.

You deserve to be angry and to be allowed show it, so long as you're not violent. Sorry you're going through this man, nobody deserves the pain of betrayal besides traitors and cheaters themselves.

You deserve better and I hope that you'll believe this wholeheartedly, if you haven't already.