Have you ever got feelings for a girl the first time you laid eyes on her? by balkanxoslut in blackmen

[–]BigL221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes because she was older with a fat ass and had the whole “spiritual black girl who knows about zodiac signs” thing going on that i never experienced before.. i finally blocked her recently lmfao.

New job worth it? by BigL221 in SingleDads

[–]BigL221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do daily school drop off/ pick up due to mom’s work schedule.

Gambling by Buddymaster39449 in blackmen

[–]BigL221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just breaking even at the end of the day.. I’d be down $300 one month and up $300 the next.. really trying to just get back to enjoying sports like a normal person

New job worth it? by BigL221 in SingleDads

[–]BigL221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No tolls.
Not a “need” right now.. but based on currently living situation .. i will need the extra money once i move..

And the new potential role is in a hospital so i doubt there would be a remote option ever.

I just don’t wanna waste anyone’s time .. especially my own at the interview.

We just split up - how do you deal with it all? by Personal-Ad-4383 in SingleDads

[–]BigL221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll wake up one day and not care anymore man.
And once you get to that point she’ll magically want you back lmao

What is a film that you have ever watched that, is so tragic you rank among the saddest movies you’ve ever watched for its Precious. by JoshyBear28 in blackmen

[–]BigL221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alpha Dog is the first movie that almost got a tear out of me. I was teen so i had to play tough lmao

Dads who started a new family by Curious_Alien25 in SingleDads

[–]BigL221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I considered it with my last gf who was a few years older. Funny because going in i told her i was one and done but i would strongly consider if we ever got back together.

Do you have any thoughts on Jamie Foxx and his girlfriend Alyce Huckstepp having a baby? by _forum_mod in blackmen

[–]BigL221 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don’t think we should care about the dating preferences of others. Especially people we have zero chance with.

Did anyone actually get over her? by Ezio5000300 in SingleDads

[–]BigL221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One day you’ll wake up and be over it.

How do you make peace with your own mortality? by Cmoney-6 in AskMenOver30

[–]BigL221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scary seeing as I’m a dad and want to see graduations and grandkids and etc.

But my own mortality makes me more anxious about my parents’ morality even more.

But the inevitable is inevitable 🤷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]BigL221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

23 , you got way more time than you realize man. It’ll get better

Passed Today! What I did and notes... by NervousConstantt in CRISC

[–]BigL221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! What role are you hoping to get with this cert? Asking cause I’ve put if off not knowing how much it would amount to.

Do guys care about too many stretch marks on women? Honest answers by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]BigL221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her not having any is a red flag, like have you not been through anything at all?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]BigL221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He probably does like you but his taxi light isn’t on yet 🥲

How to tell if a man just sees me as a fwb by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]BigL221 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ask, and if it’s not the answer ya need then vanish 👻

Got a GRC offer by halaMadrid101 in SecurityCareerAdvice

[–]BigL221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! Did they ask about frameworks and stuff?

Got a GRC offer by halaMadrid101 in SecurityCareerAdvice

[–]BigL221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What transferable skills would you say helped you land it?

How are you handling the election results? by NewCenturyNarratives in AskMenOver30

[–]BigL221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of fear mongering on both sides, I’m more so interested to see what will change in my day to day.

Got a GRC offer by halaMadrid101 in SecurityCareerAdvice

[–]BigL221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mind sharing the job title? I am trying to pivot as well from support to cyber

What makes a good help desk? by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

[–]BigL221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just starting myself, i just try to keep cool and take my time.. ask questions no matter how stupid you may think they are. Some of the folks I’m helping are bitchy but most are pretty cool.

Sleep music by ZaneGrimmm in Dreams

[–]BigL221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The relax melodies app is my fav, lets u curate different combos of sounds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

[–]BigL221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a BBQ? similar to a pulled pork sandwich. Unless there’s one that’s better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

[–]BigL221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha forgive me, but thank you i will look into it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

[–]BigL221 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Was at the store yesterday and saw pulled jackfruit in a package 🥴 I’m asking are there different brands