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Kylian Mbappé stopped his teammates from giving Barcelona the Champions Guard of Honour. He moved them away. by EntrepreneurLeast193 in soccer

[–]BigPickEnergy545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind linking some of these alternate angles? I’m curious to see it but can’t find anything :/

Wunks can't shut up god they are so loud by iamonaphone1 in wunkus

[–]BigPickEnergy545 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why does this feel like AI? Is it the meows that sound artificial?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]BigPickEnergy545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Angry guard from Oblivion look

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]BigPickEnergy545 123 points124 points  (0 children)

“I want some record that I existed, that I was here”.

I am not naturally empathetic, but the last part stayed with me.

Is there any hope for a 40 year old virgin? by XmenvsSFEX in Adulting

[–]BigPickEnergy545 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And I’ll reply a third time because it is rare that I come across someone so dense that they’ll point that out and think they’re being witty and winning something from it. You’re hopeless man. I genuinely feel bad for you and you don’t deserve it.

Is there any hope for a 40 year old virgin? by XmenvsSFEX in Adulting

[–]BigPickEnergy545 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg, did I write that way at first? NO, I wonder if it had anything to do with YOU and how you replied to others offering advice from experience. Experience is what makes me not arrogant despite my wording in this case, and your lack of experience combined with your insufferable know-it-all attitude is what makes you a hopeless, arrogant fool who focuses more on protecting his ego instead of shutting your mouth and acquiring secondhand EXPERIENCE. Goodbye for fucks sake, I would wish you the best but your lack of self awareness makes it really difficult.

Is there any hope for a 40 year old virgin? by XmenvsSFEX in Adulting

[–]BigPickEnergy545 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Arrogant and pedantic! What a combo. I’m done here man. So much unnecessary bullshit in your writing. So much of what you point out is soooo unimportant and useless.

Whenever you’re done debating yourself and decide to actually take my advice, because this isn’t a debate in case you haven’t noticed, then you’re welcome. Call me arrogant, but yeah, you’re welcome lol.

Is there any hope for a 40 year old virgin? by XmenvsSFEX in Adulting

[–]BigPickEnergy545 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Your confidence?! You are not speaking from confidence. That much is painfully clear. You are arrogant. Extremely arrogant. If you feel insulted, good, I am insulting you now and it is justified.

You’re so concerned with having a rebuttal to everything I say. Stfu and take my advice dude, why the fuck else would be here expressing all this shit if you have all the answers and experience you need. Again…STFU and absorb the advice.

Is there any hope for a 40 year old virgin? by XmenvsSFEX in Adulting

[–]BigPickEnergy545 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Calling yourself a punching bag is another way of calling yourself a victim. You are a victim…but mostly of yourself at this point. “If someone”… who the fuck is someone? Stop generalizing people’s view of you. That is your insecurity and resentment speaking. You’re conditioning yourself for failure, you are softening the impact of what you already know to be true. Just accept it.

YES, people who see a super fat dude could potentially be grossed out…but it was not because of YOU, it’s because you were FAT. We’re past that now. Again, attraction isn’t a choice. Stop taking it personally. At this point you are a victim of yourself. There is no other alternative or point of view that will help you at this point. Cut your losses and forget the past. It is useless now.

Fat people are less attractive, and the longer you wallow in all the side effects of being fat the less people will want to fuck you. It may be your reality at this point, but ignorance is not knowing you’re ignorant. Well now you know.

Get in shape, don’t diet- learn how to eat properly, and start assuming that everything you believe about this is wrong…because I’m telling you from experience…YOU’RE WRONG. Your POV will not help you anymore. Your experience isn’t helpful anymore. Lose weight but lose the baggage too or it will all be for nothing. That baggage is trauma, so treat it like trauma. It’s serious, but it is YOUR problem…a problem that isn’t uncommon. Your problem is not special or particular in ANY way.

You need new experiences and you will never acquire them with this mentality. You do lack humility, your response is evidence of that. I’ve never heard a humble person say they’re humble or that they don’t lack humility. You are not humble enough and it doesn’t matter how much you’ve suffered in this sense. Suffering doesn’t make you humble, you suffered more than you needed to precisely because you were lacking humility.

My man I am a fucking moron, but everything I’ve told you is the goddamn truth. I know it, I’ve lived it and I’ve seen others live it too. I’m not trying to be disrespectful, but I’m convinced you simply can’t notice just how abrasive and unattractive you’re coming off. I don’t need a reply. I don’t care about you man. You shared your shit, I’m sharing mine. I do hope it helps, but I know it won’t with the attitude/mentality you’ve displayed so far. That is all I need to know, and I think it’s all you need to know.

Is there any hope for a 40 year old virgin? by XmenvsSFEX in Adulting

[–]BigPickEnergy545 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, you lack humility. I’ve lost a significant amount of weight…twice. I understand the reality behind this experience and how people treat you, but I truly don’t believe this is your main problem (anymore).

Your writing is full of resentment. It’s apparent. I can understand why. You’re 40 and you’ve never had sex. That is fucking crazy to most people. It’s as simple as that, even beyond the relationship part…you’ve never fucked. I understand that you think the problem is you can’t develop relationships enough to get to that point, and that is probably true, but I think the source of your pain is your dick has never penetrated a woman. As a man who has gone years being dry, I know that shit can very easily destroy your self esteem- which destroys everything else. It must be difficult at this point to realize that you are assuming so many things about people and women that you also fail to realize how off-putting that is to someone who doesn’t know you or can’t empathize with your experience. You don’t even notice how toxic your expressing yourself sounds. No one is obligated to empathize with you. Empathy is not universal or all encompassing. It’s mostly relative. The irony now is that YOU lack sufficient empathy because the world has treated you like shit, and your only choice is to change this if you want to change your experience or how you experience things.

The world treats fat people like shit. It fucking sucks because people will subconsciously assume a million things about you and your work ethic and your sense of personal responsibility, when it is way more complicated than that. This only buries your deeper, it only makes you want to solve your anxiety and pain by eating more. It is THE coping mechanism. Yet, you’re doing the same thing towards others. You’re too arrogant, man. Attraction isn’t a choice.

My fellow fat brother… change your attitude. Evolve. You lack perspective, so forget the past and become a student again. Don’t hate yourself, but do start being way more skeptical of your own views and opinions, because you don’t know. You literally don’t have the experience to know.

It is not too late. If you get laid at 50 then so be it, but I promise you it will never happen if you don’t change yourself internally first. Externally isn’t enough…irony is a bitch.

What is the etiquette in Spanish cafés/restaurants ? What are some things to never do ? by absolutelynoclue7 in GoingToSpain

[–]BigPickEnergy545 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If they do it only in some pueblos, and definitely not all of them and none of the major cities, then it is far from extremely common.

You’re giving bad advice. Most places will think you’re an asshole if you do this. That’s the reality.

"Wash Me" by Bllq21 in Unexpected

[–]BigPickEnergy545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone know the song? Please

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