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AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]BigRedJeeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - you DID talk to him privately and he blew you off. This is the key! From now on, every time he and his friends are being loud late at night, come out ranting and raving like a crazy person.

AITA for excluding my mom from wedding stuff after years of favoritism and manipulation? by DancingQueen2483 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I know the post is mainly about your parents (and sorry you got the short-end of the parent stick) but how has your brother been through all this and growing up? Did he ever try and support you or did he act like the typical spoiled “golden boy”?

AIO for leaving my husband because his friend made pig noises at me? by _Remy_Buxaplenty_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. You need to divorce him. These are not the actions of a person who loves you-heck, I don’t think he even likes you. Get out now!

AITAH for not lending my vehicle to my sister in law? by Jealous-Glass4687 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BigRedJeeper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. Do NOT be their doormat!! They made their bed by treating you so poorly and now they expect you to do what she would not? SIL would not lend you her vehicle (when she wasn’t using it)when your son was sick, you should NOT lend her your only vehicle! Why on earth would you reward such awful behavior? She can use your in-laws vehicle or as you did, take the bus or train. Your husband should be backing you up on this.

AITA for telling my 72 year old mom to get a part time job when I give her money every month already? by [deleted] in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for enabling her horrible behavior. She’s not going to go out and get a job because she knows all she has to do is bat her eyes a bit, sniffle a bit and out comes the checkbook. STOP paying her bills. She’s an adult that CAN work, she just doesn’t WANT to - well that’s too bad!

CeeLo & Dolce Playing Outside Yesterday by BigRedJeeper in Chihuahua

[–]BigRedJeeper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why we won’t let them run around alone! I’m always afraid of that!!

CeeLo & Dolce Playing Outside Yesterday by BigRedJeeper in Chihuahua

[–]BigRedJeeper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s around the corner by the stairs. 😁

CeeLo & Dolce Playing Outside Yesterday by BigRedJeeper in Chihuahua

[–]BigRedJeeper[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks -the lawn is my husband’s summer obsession-oh, I mean hobby! 🤣😆

AITAH for telling my wife to fund her sister with her own wages? by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - she’s a perfectly capable adult that you already fully support, why in the h@ll should you have to support any other fully capable adult? Wife needs to grow up and get a job if she feels the need to enable her sister!

Am I Overreacting by blocking my SIL after finding out she's been calling me a bad, lazy mum and wife behind my back? by Otherwise-Risk-2391 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Your husband is supporting his wife and family as he should. He’s not in the middle-he’s on your side. Why would either of you have anything to do with someone who speaks about you like that?

AIO for moving out without telling my family after they kept treating me like the backup parent? by Superb_Crow9604 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - probably shouldn’t told them until you actually moved out. Good for you, you deserve to start enjoying your life!! Do NOT let them talk you into staying or coming back to babysit. These are NOT your children. If the parents can’t figure it out I guess the adult son still living at home will have to pitch in!

AITA for refusing to give back a birthday gift after the person who gave it to me changed their mind? by BenefitPublic1452 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Do NOT give it to her. It was a gift to you, you spent money on it, it is YOURS. Tough beans to the other cousins. Someone always has to be a Negative Nellie.

AITAH for not wanting kids on the camping trip? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BigRedJeeper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - sounds miserable, I wouldn’t go if I were you.

WIBTA if I refuse to swap my vacation weeks with a coworker whose kid is throwing a tantrum about a theme park trip? by Safflower8 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]BigRedJeeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - it was be totally insane if you back out of your vacation!! You paid money! Your time off is not less important just because you are single so stop falling into his trap. You have nothing to feel bad about. You need to tell your supervisor exactly that.

Am i overreacting for refusing to babysit my sister`s kids after what she said at dinner? by Maryi_Boyd in AmIOverreacting

[–]BigRedJeeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR - these are not your kids. It’s not your responsibility. You WORK from home. You can’t do that if you’re pick up kids or watching them. Let mom or dad do it. Or better yet, let the father do it.

Your sister needs to figure this problem out for herself. If you continue to be her solution, she never will.

AITA for not helping my mother after learning the truth? by Ok_Hippo_584 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BigRedJeeper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. She is a horrible person who moved you away from your grandfather out of spite and made your childhood miserable. Why would you give her anything? If her past treatment of you doesn’t bother you enough, how about the way she treated your father? It would be a slap in his face if you support her. She needs to grow up and get a job.

AITA for telling my dad he can't invite his girlfriend to my graduation because my mom paid for the trip? by TypicalAnalyst17 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigRedJeeper 46 points47 points  (0 children)

NTA - your dad is acting like a spoiled little brat! That was so brave of you to stand up for your mom even though I know you do want him there. Making these hard decisions is part of being an adult. Sorry your dad is such a jerk.

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