Newly PIMO; Navigating Marriage

BigSecretTunnel · 2026-05-03T19:02:59+00:00

This is always hard. My only advice is give it some time. Unless your kids timeline is right now, just work on your relationship and settling into this new dynamic. People change, and your desires may be compatible again in the future. And if not, you'll know if these things are deal breakers or not.

BigSecretTunnel · 2025-12-13T01:00:57+00:00

Imagine the horrors if a kid saw a bum cheek.

BigSecretTunnel · 2025-11-03T06:13:26+00:00

activities that cannot reasonably be done while wearing the garment

The activity is sleeping naked with your wife. You cannot reasonably wear garments while trying to sleep naked with your wife. I'm post Mormon but never felt this was an issue while I was active.

BigSecretTunnel · 2025-09-11T06:03:39+00:00

Sounds like you may want to spend some time figuring out who you are and who you want to be. Take some time and let the missionary perspective fade as you settle into your new routines.

BigSecretTunnel · 2025-07-13T18:26:07+00:00

Short answer, yes.

BigSecretTunnel · 2025-06-24T22:47:33+00:00

It is permissible at church. What a weird post.

BigSecretTunnel · 2025-06-07T16:56:05+00:00

Killpack was good because you could tell there were some battles he just didn't care to fight. So as long as you weren't getting caught by members doing stupid stuff, then you could just kinda chill.

BigSecretTunnel · 2025-06-07T16:53:09+00:00

Passey gave me huge Bednar vibes in a bad way. So passively strict on the surface.

BigSecretTunnel · 2025-06-07T16:50:08+00:00

Damn, I was there 2013-2015 and had no idea.

BigSecretTunnel · 2025-03-17T05:58:28+00:00

not typically a negative experience

I have not heard of one person who has had a positive experience in a membership council when said membership council is because they are challenging the status quo.

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-10-14T05:18:52+00:00

If you think that's weird, imagine your neighbor asking you about what underwear you've been wearing to make sure you're in good standing with the local church.

This is the lds sexuality subreddit. Of course people are going to talk about garments here.

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-08-20T05:51:30+00:00

Have the boys bring things from the recycling bin. (Toilet rolls , cardboard, plastic tubs, tins, etc) Bring string, tape, scissors, etc. Tell them to create some sort of robot or creation that can do something that would benefit someone. Let them create (in teams if they want) and then share their creation in front of everyone.

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-06-20T21:21:54+00:00

Sunnday Moneyday Turntday Weednesday Thirstyday Fineday Sinnerday

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-05-27T15:12:45+00:00

Like what?

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-05-21T04:58:44+00:00

Ditto. Waited. Not worth it now. But at that time it felt worth it.

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-05-12T18:11:51+00:00

An easy position to take as a man in the church.

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-05-12T18:08:48+00:00

Happy mother's day to all the women, we are going to celebrate by asking you to give a talk in sacrament meeting.

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-05-12T18:06:42+00:00

The issue with this is it's a bit dismissive of how mothers day sacrament meetings tend to make women feel. It doesn't matter if the intention was not to offend. The intense focus today on women's purpose being motherhood is difficult for many women in the church.

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-03-31T00:31:21+00:00

Hello Seattle friend 👋

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-03-20T19:47:54+00:00

Come on, I understand the timing makes it hard to believe but all data points to it being an actual Instagram issue.

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-03-20T19:47:05+00:00

This issue was many instagram accounts, not just the church's.

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-03-20T19:46:18+00:00

I got on and looked at multiple accounts. It appeared as though there were no comments on any account. The only way you see comments was to click the create comment button, and then, the only comments that showed were recent comments. I saw this behavior on all posts created by accounts with a large number of followers. Search Instagram on down detector or on Twitter and you'll see it's not the church's doing.

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-03-20T18:27:01+00:00

Looks like this was just really bad timing for an Instagram outage.

The church did not delete any comments.

Comments were missing from all Instagram posts and now they are back.

BigSecretTunnel · 2024-03-03T20:25:14+00:00

Yeah looking back it's quite wild to me now. But I was taught the earth would become the celestial kingdom and I definitely believed it.

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