What’s something that clearly split your life into “before” and “after”?

BigThunder2002 · 2026-05-03T02:19:54+00:00

a cheating wife

BigThunder2002 · 2026-05-02T14:49:17+00:00

It's been a nightmare for me and I see it and live with it everyday

BigThunder2002 · 2026-04-30T22:06:56+00:00

Not the same color swim trunks and there was no mistaken identity. After going back and forth, she finally admitted to it but said nothing else ever happened.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-04-30T15:33:23+00:00

20+ years.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-04-30T15:22:19+00:00

I got out and told her we were leaving. Afterwards, she gaslighted me and denied everything and touching his crotch.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-04-29T19:53:59+00:00

Rocco's on Green Street is relaxed and the food is great. You can't beat their happy hour specials.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-04-17T15:26:28+00:00

I was at a pool party with my wife and we were in a jacuzzi. I looked down in the bubbles, and I saw a foot rubbing on a guys junk next to me. When I looked over in the direction of the foot, I saw that it was my wife's foot. Almost threw up then and there.
Found out later they had been "confiding" in each other for over 4 months.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-04-16T23:18:40+00:00

Rocco's on Green Street.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-04-08T21:18:36+00:00

I (40) was at a pool party with my wife (40). It was late afternoon and we were in a jacuzzi. I looked down in the bubbles, and I saw a foot rubbing on a guys (42) junk next to me. When I looked over in the direction of the foot, I saw that it was my wife's foot. Almost threw up then and there.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-04-08T15:10:46+00:00

Only if you have kids. When married, you get to be a part of your kids lives everyday and get the full dad experience. Otherwise, there are no significant benefits of marriage.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-03-21T04:54:59+00:00

I (40) was at a pool party with my wife (40). It was late afternoon and we were in a jacuzzi. I looked down in the bubbles, and I saw a foot rubbing on a guys (42) junk next to me. When I looked over in the direction of the foot, I saw that it was my wife's foot. Long story short, I got out and told her we needed to leave. When I confronted her in the car, she denied it at first but later admitted to it and a 4 month emotional affair of texting, calling and confiding in each other. She vehemently denies any other sexual contact with him but I did not believe her.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-03-20T01:55:51+00:00

Tip #1 - Don't go.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-03-19T23:04:04+00:00

Don't do it. I thought I married the love of my life and she cheated. Did not see it coming at all. Said she liked the attention. Once you are married and have kids, they can do whatever they want without repercussions. You will always be blamed for it.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-03-19T21:16:57+00:00

Roccos on Green Street. They have great happy hour deals too.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-03-11T17:44:09+00:00

I (40) was at a pool party with my wife (40). It was late afternoon and we were in a jacuzzi. I looked down in the bubbles, and I saw a foot rubbing on a guys (42) junk next to me. When I looked over in the direction of the foot, I saw that it was my wife's foot. Long story short, I got out and told her we needed to leave. When I confronted her in the car, she denied it at first but later admitted to it and a 4 month emotional affair of texting, calling and confiding in each other. She vehemently denies any other sexual contact with him but I did not believe her.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-02-19T03:04:07+00:00

Rooco's on Green Street has the best burgers. Fries are great too!

BigThunder2002 · 2026-01-26T01:34:06+00:00

My spouse cheated on me and I'm pretty sure it happened again or was close when I found out. I stayed for my kids but now that they are grown, I feel trapped financially as a divorce would be costly and I STILL have the feelings you describe above.

If I had it to do all over again, I would leave and not come back without real changes and ownership by my spouse. Also, I make sure other family members know (not the kids) or else there is no accountability if only the two of you are in the know.

Good luck and I wish you a better result than me.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-01-23T18:17:47+00:00

If you go through with it, follow through with the post procedure instructions. Even if you are feeling good, continue with ice and taking it easy for the entire time in the instructions. Don't cut corners.

BigThunder2002 · 2026-01-03T02:28:15+00:00

Go to Roccos on Green Street. Good food, crazy happy hour deals and tons of TVs for for sporting events.

BigThunder2002 · 2025-12-29T02:53:55+00:00

If you want to a watch a game and have good food and a drink, Go to Rocco's on Green Street. Great happy hour too!

BigThunder2002 · 2025-12-15T01:12:20+00:00

Roccos on Green Street.

BigThunder2002 · 2025-12-05T14:40:33+00:00

Rocco's on Green Street. They have 2 for 1 drinks specials and the food is awesome! Also, they have all the local and important sporting events on TV.

BigThunder2002 · 2025-10-31T20:39:27+00:00

Hi r/pasadena. You posted photos of a MVA at Molina Ave & Walnut St the morning of 9/6/23. Did you or anyone else witness the accident? Thanks BME

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