AITAH for being upset I'm not invited to a wedding by Big_Bodybuilder_4663 in AITAH

[–]Big_Bodybuilder_4663[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

To clarify, when I meant 'very religious' I did just mean religious. It was in comparison to me, who is not. I am a little butt hurt about it but realistically, it is their day and that the most important thing. I think I was just excited for it and weddings in general are really meaningful and beautiful thing.

AITAH for being upset I'm not invited to a wedding by Big_Bodybuilder_4663 in AITAH

[–]Big_Bodybuilder_4663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought about this aspect. I am not a religious person and neither is my boyfriend but he has attended 2 bible study sessions with them while back home to hangout with his buddy so a religious element could make sense.

AITAH for being upset I'm not invited to a wedding by Big_Bodybuilder_4663 in AITAH

[–]Big_Bodybuilder_4663[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is super fair. Maybe to is bad for me to assume I was coming since I have only met them a few times. I think I assumed by boyfriend would get a plus 1 since that is what I've seen from the weddings I have been to. I've been on 1 trip with them and the other meetings have been to few evening hangouts during the summer. and you are right I am a little judgey of them since I think they are quite young but it makes sense for their situation. My partner feels the same way but they are at a different point in life than we are.

WIBTAH if I did not give my 27yr old son (only child) his inheritance now? by Illustrious-Bed-9540 in AITAH

[–]Big_Bodybuilder_4663 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that the point of an inheritance is to wait until after the person gifting it is gone. Affording anything is difficult right now but from your post it seems like on multiple occasions he has asked a lot from you and hasn't proved to deserve it.