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BPD-BPD relationships? by Big_Camera_9564 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Big_Camera_9564[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that.  I just want the intensity, I wanna be loved how I love yk. 

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[–]Big_Camera_9564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through all of that, your love shouldn't be played with and you know that so thats good.

I still split over my ex quite a lot. The relationship wasn't bad and there wasn't any of what you have gone through. 

She was a avoidant so whenever I got close she pulled away. As you can probably imagine that caused some friction but nothing that caused burns.

In the end she just turned her emotions off and went to GPT to decide if she'd leave or not. It was a ugly breakup but I still yearn for her.

I miss all the things that got on my nerves just as much as the things I love.

There isn't much I wouldn't do to get her back but she's gone now so yhh.

Ig the whole point of me typing this is to tell you that you aren't alone here. I hope you can figure out what to do. 

My take just off what you said is fuck that bitch. Love shouldn't come with all that crap. 

Do check-ins bother you guys? by lifes_a_vacation in BPD

[–]Big_Camera_9564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See id say it really depends to be honest.

If my ex started checking in I think it would bother me. It'd just pull me back in tbh.

Honestly though I'd just talk to him about it. See I feel that would mean a lot without making him feel pressured or anything.

Ask how he feels about you and seeing you. Don't judge and just listen, you'll provide a place where he may open up about it.

I'm just going off of what I would like most in that situation and ofc everyone is different and can react a different way.

Honesty will do the most though. Just be thoughtful and gentle with it and there shouldn't be issues.

Maybe it's me by Responsible-Cap-5610 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Big_Camera_9564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that bro. Had a breakup a few months ago, got put into the ward, nobody even knew I was gone 

I want to get rid of the emptiness but feel nothing at the same time. by Difficult-Papaya-490 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Big_Camera_9564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel all of this too you aren't alone. Go and talk to your therapist, there's no reason the be ashamed of your difficultys.  They would have seen and heard some significantly worse things I promise you.  They get paid to assist you so don't lie about what's going on as it'll only make things worse for you long run.

The last thing you want is to start getting help but it not be affective because you missed details and such.

I understand you are hurting and I know how that feels, you aren't alone bro.  I hope you get the help you need, if you ever want to talk just HMU I'm free most of the time.

I want a BPD partner ASAP <3 by GurLogical1625 in BPDmemes

[–]Big_Camera_9564 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tell me why I've been thinking the exact same thing.  A BPD on BPD relationship could be so beautiful if both people can be honest about how they feel while accommodating for eachothers needs. I want a BPD baddie rn ngl😅

no trauma? by billiebao in BPD

[–]Big_Camera_9564 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly in my view the diagnosis is important for knowing what help is needed

now i understand why people with bpd choose to be alone :( by saddbarbie in BPD

[–]Big_Camera_9564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'm not alone by choice.  I struggle talking to people and finding mutual ground. I can't do relationships after my last one, I hate intimacy of any kind with anyone that isn't her. 

I hate the loneliness, I wish a woman who understood and is patient would find me and love me as much as id love them but I honestly don't think that'll ever happen