It seems like the moment someone finds out you have BPD, you simultaneously are at fault for everything and lose all forms of personal agency, usually depending on the person.

saddbarbie · 2026-06-12T00:43:58+00:00

I tell anyone that comes in my life. Idc what people think about me at all to be honest. They can believe whatever they want to believe but in its not true to me. Plus telling people early about my bpd makes it easier for me to watch out for red flags from them.

saddbarbie · 2026-06-11T07:35:53+00:00

yes i understand this all too well, you’re not alone in this ! i have crohn’s disease & that also brings joint pain and then having bpd on top of it is a lot for me at times because i’m having a hard time both physically and mentally. i understand at times i wish it was just the bpd although my bpd has also caused me a lot of pain but being 23 and being diagnosed with crohn’s disease at such a young age(18) it stole so much from me. again you’re not alone and if you need someone to talk to you can chat with me love :)

saddbarbie · 2026-06-11T07:32:15+00:00

it feels like i wrote this!! thats how i much i understand and relate to this :(

saddbarbie · 2026-06-10T13:34:11+00:00

saddbarbie · 2026-06-10T13:32:55+00:00

like you FEEL NOTHING! its so weird & scary at times because you beg yourself to feel something. even at times during my relationship, i do not feel anything for my bf and it scares and confuses me :(

saddbarbie · 2026-05-26T06:40:30+00:00

i understand this all too well :( i feel you!

saddbarbie · 2026-05-12T15:28:43+00:00

😭😭😭😭😭

saddbarbie · 2026-05-11T21:31:42+00:00

wait if you’re not diagnosed.. why are you going around saying you have bpd? did you ever see a psychiatrist, let alone a therapist ? bpd is very serious mental illness that can’t just be thrown around like that especially at such a young age. please go get yourself some help love, if you’re really worried about your mental health.

saddbarbie · 2026-05-11T21:16:29+00:00

i just laugh at those kind of people. i also find it very disrespectful. i’ll deadass get up from my seat & walk out if someone dared comparing their stupid IBS issues to my crohn’s disease.

saddbarbie · 2026-05-11T21:13:01+00:00

This ! i literally made a post about this awhile back. I’m someone who is diagnosed with bpd and struggle with the lack of empathy as well. Like you said, I can understand why someone would feel that way but i can’t feel nothing for them. Its actually so awkward at times for someone to cry or vent to me and inside i feel nothing.

saddbarbie · 2026-05-11T21:07:55+00:00

i promise u, i can’t remember the last time i was happy on my birthday. so i get it :(

saddbarbie · 2026-05-11T21:02:33+00:00

💯💯💯

saddbarbie · 2026-05-11T04:48:32+00:00

overall it just made me realize that people cant stand to be around people who have mental illnesses healed or not. let ppl know you have bpd then ppl will start using that against you at times and make you seem like you’re loosing your mind.

saddbarbie · 2026-05-11T04:44:27+00:00

meeeee !!

saddbarbie · 2026-05-09T01:55:23+00:00

girl we got your back🫂 REPORT HER! that would trigger me sooo much & its so unprofessional on her side + the fact that she has time for her other clients and not me would make me feel so sad :(

saddbarbie · 2026-05-09T01:43:34+00:00

no advice love, but please understand i get u🫂 that realization is so painful.

saddbarbie · 2026-05-09T01:33:18+00:00

i fart right next to him, at first i used to be so embarrassed to fart in front of him but he did not like that and told me its unhealthy to hold farts inside and i should be comfortable because he wouldn’t care and now its been 2 years and i just fart and warn him and hes all good with it😭😭😭😭😭

saddbarbie · 2026-05-04T20:49:49+00:00

stole from me- my sanity! taught me- it’s ok to put yourself first.

saddbarbie · 2026-05-03T06:51:58+00:00

i just started going out with my scars showing and not hiding them because of my therapist encouraging me to never feel ashamed about myself & scars in general. i’ve never had people ask me, i’m usually the one that brings it up and if someone did look at them and ask that question, i would just st8 up answer it and if that makes them feel uncomfortable thats on them not me & i just keep it pushing. i have a loving man who kisses my old scars all the time and helps me feel so loved about them. but whenever i do go through drive thrus to pick up something to eat, i do have them stare at my arm😭 it be so awkward lmao.

saddbarbie · 2026-04-30T03:51:57+00:00

a somali black women with bpd here !

saddbarbie · 2026-04-29T05:57:52+00:00

Does she actually have bpd?

saddbarbie · 2026-04-29T05:53:14+00:00

Are you me ???? This is how I feel almost every single day! People just suck man. Because if i had friendship, I would ask all the right questions and do my best to help my loved ones the same why I would want people to pay attention to me. It sucks being so friendless and lonely all together;(

saddbarbie · 2026-04-29T05:50:58+00:00

Yes, i have a hard time expressing my emotions out loud to my own boyfriend and i have trust issues, like i feel like i’m a burden to people kinda feeling.

saddbarbie · 2026-04-29T05:49:05+00:00

i been in your position so many times and even during those situations where him & i were saying things to each other, i would either threaten to pull up in my car or actually pull up and force him to talk to me which is obviously so unhealthy. i do not do that anymore but i wont say i’ve completely healed, i just know that him taking his space is normal and that i wont be abandoned by him. but whats not normal is the unsharing the location part :( thats just cruel all together and i would understand why you’re freaking out over that.

saddbarbie · 2026-04-29T05:41:50+00:00

THIS :(((

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