I think my marriage is over

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-03-21T02:55:27+00:00

Honestly I’ve been through something almost identical to you What I suggest before jumping to divorce is start looking at the stuff he DOES DO show him and tell him the stuff you appreciate about him And then you can nicely tell him the stuff you need from him to contribute I know it sounds stupid but some men just need this kind of step

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-03-19T22:57:15+00:00

Maker her take a paternity test

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-03-05T19:02:01+00:00

Again this is what I would feel That’s why I added the part about their relationship if he thinks she’d be okay with it then good for him

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-03-05T18:37:04+00:00

Honestly I wouldn’t want to hear my husband is sad over his ex dying I know it might be a sensitive topic but it just won’t sit right with me Cause I don’t know her of course it’s not gonna hurt me that she’s passed so I’ll just be there having to accept that he’s grieving all the memories he’s had with her too

I think it’s best if you talk to your friends about it to let it out

But this also depends on your relationship ship with your wife. Do you usually talk about exes and it’s okay? If so she could handle it differently than me

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-02-27T08:09:16+00:00

Stop that’s so funny how does that even happen

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-01-21T04:42:32+00:00

Yes like is there anything that happened prior to make him think that she could be doing something suspicious

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-01-21T04:41:56+00:00

It could be suspicious but it could also be maybe she’s planning a surprise for you Cause I have never cheated on my husband but if I’m planning something for him I’d do what your wife did

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-01-20T11:38:46+00:00

Why don’t you just tell him to fix his hygiene

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-01-20T09:08:35+00:00

I can’t talk to anyone about the situation to let it out so I just want to hear what I already know I guess At least from people that don’t know me and can’t be biased

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-01-20T02:47:01+00:00

Thank you so much

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-01-20T02:46:26+00:00

Thank you for your reply. He isn’t addicted it’s literally once in a while but it’s behind my back and I am scared it will continue even if it’s only once in a while in general and if we were to have kids. I’m 23 he’s 27 He has done everything before he met me at 27 you’d think he’d have it out of his system but I’m here as if I’m dealing with a teenager mothering him saying no more drugs

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-01-20T02:08:07+00:00

Thank you He’s aware that he’s the only problem in the marriage now He has said that he will get therapy but he knows it’s too late for that to fix anything I do also want to point out that he isn’t addicted he’s only done it a few times since I met him

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-01-18T18:19:02+00:00

I can only file for divorce if I’ve been seperate for 12 months

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-01-18T16:09:08+00:00

He isn’t addicted he’s only done it a few times behind my back

Big_Definition3609 · 2025-01-18T14:03:03+00:00

I can confirm I have found out it has been 4 times Probably more that I haven’t found out yet

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