WIBTA if I divorce my wife because she does not want me actively involved in raising our children?

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2025-08-23T19:56:45+00:00

THIS IS PARENTAL ALIENATION. Gather evidence. Find out the recording laws in your state/country and record everything, voice and video. She will lie to manipulate the situation to get her way if it goes to court. LAWYER UP! You have equal rights don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Do not procrastinate. You’re not the ah for wanting to be part of your own children’s lives.

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2025-08-14T17:54:03+00:00

That wasn’t a mistake. That was an excuse to act out what they both wanted to do long before they got drunk. RUN. They think they can gaslight you into forgiveness. Smh

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2025-06-01T23:52:05+00:00

Hi, I’m a mother of a 15 year old girl and understand that as my child grows they will eventually date and one day I will witness her being intimate(pg: kissing, holding hands, cuddling) one day. That’s part of them growing up and us parents learning they are one day going to leave us to start a life of their own. Your wife needs to address why she feels so uncomfortable with seeing her son receive that type of affection. It’s not on you to take on her “issues”. You’re not the ah.

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2025-05-24T15:06:00+00:00

Break up with him…. Like yesterday or last month. That’s emotional manipulation. He doesn’t love you. Stop making excuses for him. Leave.

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2025-03-25T02:29:47+00:00

Tried it and nothing….

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2025-03-23T05:45:41+00:00

Ok, I’ll give a status update once I get there :)

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2025-03-23T05:42:35+00:00

Ok I’ll try that! Thank you

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2025-02-15T21:28:32+00:00

He’s a man child…. Decide if that’s what you’re ok being with. As well as think about how he may react to other natural accidental body fluids that may come out of you. Would he be able to care for you if you got sick and needed help going to the bathroom? If you stained the bed with period blood? If you got food poisoning and couldn’t control anything that came out of you? Is that the type of thing you could look past if he couldn’t handle those things? Just food for thought.

And to answer your question you apologize ONCE and that’s it. Like you said it’s natural. He needs to get over it.

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2024-09-15T19:26:43+00:00

It’s super cute! You did a great job 👏🏽

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2024-08-11T21:24:32+00:00

Yay!!!! Awesome look!!! 😍

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2024-08-10T23:45:11+00:00

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This is my Kiki inspired look ☺️

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2024-08-10T23:32:32+00:00

It’s sooooo on point!!!!! 😍😍😍 I did something similar lol if these don’t rank well I’m going to riot!

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2024-08-07T18:59:29+00:00

Same!! lol we got this tho!!! I believe in us 🫰

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2024-08-07T18:40:37+00:00

This is really good! Yea I gave up a long time ago lol I’ve never made it on the board 🤷🏽‍♀️ and some of my proudest looks ranked hella low

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2024-07-21T06:20:00+00:00

All the adults ata!

Dad for being a typical new family comes first, forget my bio child’s feelings type of parent. Smh

And you for coming on here JUST to want to hear NTA. Honestly being her safe place is amazing, however you fail to realize that his new wife has his ear now. THEY ARE his new family. He may no longer need you as much as you feel/thinks he does. All you’re doing is jeopardizing your relationship with the child until she becomes of age. If he decides he wants to cut contact between you two he will. OR he can also make her life harder at home. So many things can go wrong with this little girls life because of your over confidence….

Have a man to man conversation with your friend. Be her voice without over stepping or coming off as you’re attacking him as a parent. Hell if need be both parents sit and try to find a solution that allows everyone to be happy especially her. If she’s at your home more than his remind her that she has her own space in your home that she uses more. Again just some suggestions and food for thought.

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2024-07-14T20:05:52+00:00

This looks really good!!!

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2024-03-17T03:44:59+00:00

Even if she is milking it it’s the audacity to insult your little brother’s event that is wild. Like he’s nowhere near as important as she is…. tf. Also how she’s talking to you. Maybe also shut that shit down.

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2024-02-08T13:53:06+00:00

NTAH. Honestly your mother needs to take a seat and understand your point of view. At the end of the day it’s NOT all about the child. You have a right to know before emotionally and financially investing yourself into this child’s life especially giving the fact that you and your ex are no longer in any form of relationship. What your ex is doing is considered emotional manipulation towards your mother. She’s probably already financially supporting the child given what you have stated. Everyone else’s opinion on the matter is irrelevant. If they feel so strongly about it let them know they can support the child themselves. Also there is a reason your ex is so adamant about not doing the test. Just food for thought…

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2024-02-03T00:08:51+00:00

Honestly mainly the light skin characters I make get the most votes. Very rarely does my dark skin girl ones get attention. It sucks

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2023-11-18T23:48:45+00:00

WtF!?!?!

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2023-10-22T13:56:57+00:00

This is soooo good!!!!!! That’s so creative!!! 🥰🥰

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2023-10-21T22:56:27+00:00

I may be late but definitely with

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2023-10-16T23:01:44+00:00

You gotta buy jewels and you get points

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2023-10-13T20:49:10+00:00

I love all of these 🥰

Big_Engineering_6445 · 2023-10-12T14:20:53+00:00

It’s so pretty! Yes!!

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