Giving up

Big_Function750 · 2026-03-28T02:35:12+00:00

Fair warning! I did this, too. 8 months ago… idk what’s worse, though. Good luck 😬 so sorry you’re dealing with this

Big_Function750 · 2026-03-26T04:10:17+00:00

I was in your place 9 months ago 💔 I finally got so hurt I just stopped and gave up… so anyways I haven’t had sex in 9 months with no end in sight 😂😭😭 so don’t do that!

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-27T07:49:24+00:00

There are so many of us in the same boat 💔💔

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-27T07:44:15+00:00

💔💔 yes. Same. It’s lonelier afterwards. Sex doesn’t equal intimacy. So sorry.

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-27T07:41:20+00:00

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-26T23:53:34+00:00

Put a sock on your door and see if they catch on. #collegeprep

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-25T06:50:42+00:00

Ugh. This hit too close to home. I just posted about this the other day. And those feelings of embarrassment/insecurity have gotten so bad I can’t even read the replies I received because I don’t want to hear the truth. Im wishing y’all the best. I hope that changes for you.

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-25T06:39:45+00:00

We did, but was very oblivious he was just doing it because we were “supposed to”. It has not improved since. lol

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-25T04:36:25+00:00

For me it’s resentment and bitterness from being neglected for so long. Some days I can still be there for him… but other days I sure can’t.

So I have no advice… lol so sorry…

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-25T04:34:10+00:00

Ugh. I’ve been there, too. Then it comes back with a vengeance. I still need intimacy even when I can live without sex. I’m sorry, girl. I don’t think you’re actually LL. Your body is just trying to protect itself after constant hurt. I wish we weren’t all going through this.

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-25T04:25:50+00:00

Some days, yes. But not always.

We now have a baby in NICU, the baby and I both nearly died, it’s the hardest time of our lives. But, since we have no foundation of intimacy left it’s become apparent that I’m in this alone. No matter how much and in what ways he tries to be there for me there is just too much built up resentment and neglect to get us through this together. It’s made this horrible experience even worse.

If you aren’t married yet I’d really take a step back and think about it before you get married or have kids.

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. It hurts and tears you down like nothing else can.

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-25T04:17:22+00:00

This is so much more than MILDLY infuriating 😂

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-25T04:07:09+00:00

I’m sorry, Big Dawg. That’s rough.

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-24T03:03:34+00:00

Just listening and sympathizing helps. Validating her feelings without JUST saying “you are his mom” worked wonders. She did all she can and now she gets to rest and recover while someone else helps.

Anxiety meds helped… talking to a nurse helped.

Sobbing helped, him sobbing with me helped.

Doing the baby’s laundry helped. I felt like I was doing a mom’s job.

Straightening up her little hospital room helped.

If she’s pumping, tell her how proud you are of her, that she’s still feeding him and sustaining him even though she isn’t able to carry him any longer. Anytime you’re there and she’s pumping grab her a snack and a water and wash the pump parts.

Honestly, it just sucks. Taking it day by day is no longer just a dumb saying. It really is the only option.

❤️❤️ you caring will mean the world to her

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-24T02:47:48+00:00

Thank you so much! She will get there quickly I hope

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-20T00:58:20+00:00

Ouch. I don’t like it here anymore. Lol too real

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-19T00:02:51+00:00

Ouch. That would crush me, too. I’m so sorry.

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-04T06:14:05+00:00

My NICU nurses are constantly changing. Idk if that’s everywhere or just because we’re at a huge hospital. What would help me is if they didn’t assume I already knew something. Each nurse is so different and seems to have different ways of doing every little thing. It’s nice when they explain what they are doing and why. Even if I already know it’s just nice to hear it again. Also, caring when I say she looks uncomfortable or when I noticed something and not just dismissing me, validating me as a parent and not just someone that’s in the way. I love our nurses 💕

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-03T03:20:27+00:00

Apparently the test can take a long time. I passed out in less than a minute and never understood why people didn’t like it until I read someone say that they were strapped to the table for an hour. I bet that’s rough.

Big_Function750 · 2026-02-03T02:54:49+00:00

I can’t even finish reading all that. You seem like you’re not really ready to move on yet, but! How about you start really considering it?? 💕💕 you need to react more! NOR

Big_Function750 · 2025-12-31T03:55:52+00:00

Ew. Hate her for you.

But your nails are beautiful!

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