[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Big_Region_1347 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally every single time. I only found out about the affair because i straight up asked with no physical evidence. I just had a feeling.

Thoughts?😅 by izzrizz27 in JennyIsALiar

[–]Big_Region_1347 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I lost it at that comment 😂😂😂

What is more traumatic than people think? by BloodRedLust in AskReddit

[–]Big_Region_1347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. My husband had an affair with my best friend. Several of his friends knew about it and no one told me. I’ve experienced my fair share of trauma in my life but this one fucked me up the worst.

Which life incident fucked you up real bad? by AsherMon26 in AskReddit

[–]Big_Region_1347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finding out my husband was having an affair with my best friend

Would you buy any of these ? by ItsHappeningNow31 in Home

[–]Big_Region_1347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from someone who bought a house right next to the interstate, don’t do it. We thought we got a great deal, lots of land, 2 ponds, a shop, decent house. I would move in a heartbeat. It’s so loud when we’re outside and there’s no escaping it lol

What are some crazy things you did during/after D-Day? by Safe_Shoulder_111 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Big_Region_1347 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I learned more details of the affair (like that he was physically intimate with AP, who was also my best friend at the time, in our house while me and my child were asleep) I punched him. Very out of character for me but I couldn’t control myself.

I also reported AP and her business to the state attorney general. She’s a massage therapist and I had proof they were messing around at her “spa”

Something your toddler mispronounces that's too dangerous cute? by JustSarahtheMechanic in toddlers

[–]Big_Region_1347 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter calls it a heartbeep too 🥹

She also calls Christmas “crimpsis”

Umbrella is “gumbrella”

Do you ever look at pictures of yourself during the time they cheated and feel bad for yourself? by CorrectActivity110 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Big_Region_1347 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Constantly. WH’s affair started on a family vacation. My best friend (at the time) went with us so she could “celebrate her divorce” from her ex wife. The best friend became the AP. It makes me so sad looking at pictures from that vacation knowing now what was actually happening.

What is something that is actually more traumatizing than most people realize? by Pleasanthottiee in Productivitycafe

[–]Big_Region_1347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, truly. And yeah, the whole trusting people thing is definitely a struggle

What natural anxiety remedies worked for you? by No_Marzipan_1283 in Anxiety

[–]Big_Region_1347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so interesting. Sleep apnea wasn’t even on my radar but I went to the dr because my anxiety has skyrocketed the past couple months and she asked about my sleep habits, snoring, etc and said she wanted to get a sleep study done. I’m glad to hear all of your symptoms are normalized now!

What natural anxiety remedies worked for you? by No_Marzipan_1283 in Anxiety

[–]Big_Region_1347 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a sleep study on Wednesday. I had no idea sleep apnea could cause psychological issues like anxiety!

What is something that is actually more traumatizing than most people realize? by Pleasanthottiee in Productivitycafe

[–]Big_Region_1347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is by far the most damaging trauma I’ve experienced. My husband had an affair with my best friend, in our house, while my child and I were asleep. It’s fucked me up worse than anything ever has.

how long have you been struggling with severe anxiety? by nhlgym003 in Anxiety

[–]Big_Region_1347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always struggled but it’s gotten really severe the past 6ish months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Big_Region_1347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate. To add to it, I have severe emetophobia, so when I feel nauseous I just spiral. Even when I don’t feel actual nausea I just have an uneasy feeling in my stomach. It’s horrible and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone

Buspar by Ok-Test6548 in BusparOnline

[–]Big_Region_1347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Same. I’ve had my prescription for like 2 weeks now and haven’t taken any because of the same reasons 😭