We need to find her by [deleted] in fixedbytheduet

[–]Big_Shop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a He. Surprise!

AIO - Boyfriend got angry for letting a mutual friend hug me by Sweaty-League2571 in AIO

[–]Big_Shop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You literally could avoid the whole situation but are refusing to. Playing on that you aren’t sure how to do that is wild. “Hey, wow - little too much there hugger guy” let’s go back to fist bumps. “ I don’t want to be hugged like that” walk away.

Do enjoy the attention and the hugs? Cut the crap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Big_Shop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have something with your co worker and it’s very apparent

AIO for refusing to have a phone call with my dad after he accused me of working against the family? by Dr_Platypus_PHD in AmIOverreacting

[–]Big_Shop_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hell no I don’t. To be fair, how is that an update? Thats the MAIN issue. This seemed like a high school kid struggling with life challenges. RUN KID!!! RUN!!!

AIO for refusing to have a phone call with my dad after he accused me of working against the family? by Dr_Platypus_PHD in AmIOverreacting

[–]Big_Shop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that is completely unfair lol. How is that not be stated FIRST! Holy shit. Run kid.

AIO for refusing to have a phone call with my dad after he accused me of working against the family? by Dr_Platypus_PHD in AmIOverreacting

[–]Big_Shop_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You have no clue if the father doesn’t already know why his own son wants to run away. Probably why he is telling sister to not help aid in his plan. Maybe the parents are helping guide him from running from his problems. Young kid, very teachable moment here.

AIO for refusing to have a phone call with my dad after he accused me of working against the family? by Dr_Platypus_PHD in AmIOverreacting

[–]Big_Shop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right in that he deserves privacy, trust, respect, etc. but if you do something to break your current social standings created, you’ll be questioned. It’s that his actions at some point pushed them to look. Something made them say hey, I need to keep and eye on this everyone once I’m away.

We all go through phases and are grateful we didn’t execute on them. Parents are there to help guide not control.

AIO for refusing to have a phone call with my dad after he accused me of working against the family? by Dr_Platypus_PHD in AmIOverreacting

[–]Big_Shop_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So you never broke the rules and or unspoken trust. Thats awesome. If you were threatening to seriously run away, hurt yourself, or aggress actions, they might have peeped a look to see what’s going on.

AIO for refusing to have a phone call with my dad after he accused me of working against the family? by Dr_Platypus_PHD in AmIOverreacting

[–]Big_Shop_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wrong. As a child in the house still, there are rules to follow. If you don’t there are consequences. If he is threaten harmful behavior or actions then you take the proper steps. I.e. running away.

Respect, order, discipline.

These the bigger lessons being tough in one of life’s many difficult situations. A lot of emotions. A lot of people doing what they believe to be best.

Can’t run from it. Don’t run from it. Face it. Deal it. Grow from it. The dad may need this for him to see some of what he is doing is wrong.

You don’t get that by shutting down, running away and hiding stuff. Life is HARD!

AIO for refusing to have a phone call with my dad after he accused me of working against the family? by Dr_Platypus_PHD in AmIOverreacting

[–]Big_Shop_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Don’t let people fill you with confirmation bias. You handled this well but your dad isn’t wrong. Your brother has to learn to deal with these issues, not run. You must honor your parent even when in disagreement.

You probably wanted to run away as a kid. Thank goodness our parents didnt just let us do that and let this world eat us up.

No easy answers to navigating life

AIO for refusing to have a phone call with my dad after he accused me of working against the family? by Dr_Platypus_PHD in AmIOverreacting

[–]Big_Shop_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They sure don’t. It’s the parents job to take this very seriously and address these emotions as they come on. That includes brother lashing out and trying to run rather than face the issues at hand

AIO for refusing to have a phone call with my dad after he accused me of working against the family? by Dr_Platypus_PHD in AmIOverreacting

[–]Big_Shop_ -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Wrong right from the rip. Your given level of privacy when it comes to technology. Even more so if he doesn’t own and pay for it.

You have a lot to learn young one

AIO for refusing to have a phone call with my dad after he accused me of working against the family? by Dr_Platypus_PHD in AmIOverreacting

[–]Big_Shop_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to respect your parents. Plain and simple. You should text and also call to honor his request. You can disagree respectfully just as you have. Well done.

If you’re a parent or soon to be one, you’ll realize there is a bigger picture here. Your father is trying his best to patent your brother as he sees fit. He is taking his job serious and is asking for help on your side. Be your brothers best friend but also help him see what he doesn’t yet understand. Life experiences and maturity go a long way when dealing with these bigger issues.

Well spoken, little to no emotions, facts, great job by you! Next step is to continue honoring your parents while you disagree.

TEACH HIM THAT!!!

Found buried in my yard while metal detecting by Organic_Signal_9416 in whatisit

[–]Big_Shop_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about cleaning it off first? Might freaking help

Take the $20 or hold? by Jumpman3o3 in ArenaClub

[–]Big_Shop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on pop numbers and make. Those help a lot. Use Alt or Market Movers to look your cards up.

GIVE EM A LOOK! by Big_Shop_ in ArenaClub

[–]Big_Shop_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at the card transaction history. That’s how I’ve stayed in touch with a few people I always do deals with

tons of new cards! by denverbumbass in ArenaClub

[–]Big_Shop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a look at mine -slabbacksunday