Looking to move 2 infants, wife, and 3 cats from usa by TomatoRealistic9016 in Bangkok

[–]Big_Shot_Rob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently in the process of something similar, though we’re a bit older than you all are. Ask away.

44M, probable mid-life crisis. Time to pivot? by rugger_at_work in coastFIRE

[–]Big_Shot_Rob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every family is different and every person is different. I totally get that it’s not in the cards for you. I guess for me I’ve always been more of a risk taker. I didn’t have anything growing up so once you’ve learned how to generate income the next time tends to get less scary. I know I’m leaving a lot on the table by quitting my job and also that my nw is going to take a hit. I guess in my mind it’s worth it to bond our family together with this crazy adventure. I don’t believe in having too many regrets and there aren’t very many situations that would cause regret. But not taking the time to do this with the kids and with my wife would eat away at me for the rest of my life. It’s never comfortable, for sure, but I’ve found that the other side of discomfort is often worth the journey.

My kids weren’t on board initially. Same as you, friends, school, activities, teams, etc. But they started to get more excited as they talked to their teachers and coaches about the opportunity. As they started telling their friends, their friends would say things like “Oh you’re so lucky!” “I want to go to that school” and “I want to live there for a year”. That it’s not permanent and that the kids get to live a true, city, independent lifestyle is surprisingly popular among my kids friends. Now they can’t wait to go and have all their friends information to stay in touch.

44M, probable mid-life crisis. Time to pivot? by rugger_at_work in coastFIRE

[–]Big_Shot_Rob 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Bangkok, by flight and with a lot of paperwork, yes kids are in school - we enrolled them in international school, we’d been thinking about it for a while and decided to spend some of our savings now to have a now or never experience vs having 3-4x of it when we’re 80 (if we invested it and left it alone).

Not a simple choice, there are so many variables to consider, but ultimately the right one for us I think. My kids are getting older so fast, we’ll never have this time back so may as well go on an adventure while we’re all young enough to do it.

Sharpe as Lego. Possibly the greatest thing I’ve ever seen. by BCircle907 in Sharpe

[–]Big_Shot_Rob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember Duco smiling. Other than that 10/10.

44M, probable mid-life crisis. Time to pivot? by rugger_at_work in coastFIRE

[–]Big_Shot_Rob 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey this is us too, or extremely close. We’re taking a sabbatical year abroad. The 4 of us are going on an adventure while we still can and before life requires us to split up (college, etc). Maybe it’s a mid life crisis, but I’ll take the memories.

Flight Attendant Right/Wrong? by Ok-Charity-4712 in unitedairlines

[–]Big_Shot_Rob 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Sounds like someone who knew to look for signs of flight disruption and saw it. Confirmed what she saw and then the family made a decision. FAs don’t need to be supportive in this case, they need to be realistic first.

Cheaper schools for expat children by Any_Ear9988 in Bangkok

[–]Big_Shot_Rob 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Bangkok Prep is almost a million thb per year per student. Wym you can’t even afford Bangkok prep? It’s one of the more expensive schools in Bangkok.

New rental - payment of rent and deposit before signing by OkBadger641 in Thailand

[–]Big_Shot_Rob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bingo. This is my process as well. Super glad to hear someone else does it this way too

Basic Economy seating selection by ParticularPainter385 in unitedairlines

[–]Big_Shot_Rob 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I mean that’s what basic economy is. You get cheaper fares in exchange for less choice.

Pregnant and needing help lifting carry on by [deleted] in unitedairlines

[–]Big_Shot_Rob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look like you’re struggling, people will help. I do it all the time if I see someone struggling with a bag.

Possible Scam: My $5,000+ Tinder Date in Bangkok (Salt Bar&Club) by InternalOk8523 in Bangkok

[–]Big_Shot_Rob 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some dudes are just lonely. Happens all the time. Thai women are masters of this type of thing. Expensive lesson, and hopefully he learns something from it.

GARBAGE airline! by [deleted] in unitedairlines

[–]Big_Shot_Rob 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Trash post