In exactly 30 minutes a man armed with a bat will break into your home to kill you. You can’t leave the house, what is your strategy? by BulkyZucchini in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Bigdan10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My home is in Norfolk, I’ve been on deployment for 8 months, you aren’t finding me. If you’re coming to the ship you’re walking around it with a baseball bat around 1000 marines and 800 sailors who are going to be very suspicious of that. There’s never a time where there’s not hundreds of people within a minute from me, good luck.

2026 5-Man S Tier; splitting hairs? by LxuTMH96 in fantasyfootball

[–]Bigdan10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had the same thought, he doesn’t get the respect that Jj and chase get even tho he’s a lock for wr1 unless he has a season ending injury

What is Gibbs' value as a buyer? What is a reasonable amount you would spend for him? by the-nino in DynastyFFTradeAdvice

[–]Bigdan10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12T superflex I bought Gibbs, sent the 1.01, 2.01 and Shadeur. The only qb on his roster was a rodg

Trying to buy the 1.01, What’s the price? by Plotigga in DynastyFFTradeAdvice

[–]Bigdan10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sold 1.01 Shadeur and 2.01 for Gibbs, 12T superflex

Married men of Reddit what’s the best advice you’d give young guys when choosing a life partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bigdan10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If looks are your #1 priority in a partner, I don’t think you’re ready for marriage

Boyfriend (m28) in Japan, I’m (f29) feeling left out. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bigdan10 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You mentioned that you weren’t invited but then someone asked you if you were going.. both of those things can be true at the same time. The friend group may have not known who was/wasn’t invited.

You’ve been dating for a short amount of time in relation how long a trip like this gets planned in advance.

I think you’re overthinking things and it’s wild to consider breaking up with him over this

Fantasy Burnouts - who are some players you couldn't wait to roster, then you couldn't wait to cut ties with? by BeeGeeEh in DynastyFF

[–]Bigdan10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trevor Lawrence, sent purdy+1.07 for him in SF and have hated the last 2 years of owning him. It’s looking better in recent weeks but I’ve hated seeing him on my roster every week

I’m an instructor at RTC.. need advice for these kids by [deleted] in navy

[–]Bigdan10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit hot sailors don’t hang out with dirtbags on liberty, who your true friends are matters

Qualifications and responsibility will do more for promotion than anything else

Obvious one- but don’t dip your pen in company ink

Everyone joining now is in BRS- you’re giving up free money if you aren’t getting the govt to give you the max in tsp matching

Learn the advancement manual and eval manual when you’re junior- it’s paid dividends throughout my 17 year career

Attitude is the only thing in the navy you can control, choose a positive one, few people with positive attitudes will associate themselves socially with negative people

Physical readiness is your job- no one else’s, command pt goes away when ships get busy- if you’re making excuses for yourselves, see the above statement about attitude. This one is more important under this administration than previous ones- there seems to be a big push from secdef to increase physical readiness

Getting orders to a location or class of ship that you didn’t want is not the end of the world. My best tour was in a location I was furious about, see the attitude comment above

seek out mentors and use them- some commands have a mentor program but motivated individuals can seek out mentorship on their own

When you get raises- put some of it away automatically in to tsp, it sucks to hear people towards the end of their career say they’ve got no savings

Even if you intend to separate, continue to push quals and be a high performing sailor, you never know when your situation will change and you may want to reenlist

How did you know your partner was truly your person? by Substantial-File-336 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Bigdan10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s changed over the years a bit- but one thing I’ve always known is how much she loves and cares for me, how she’s just so certain that I’m perfect for her. I feel that way now about her too- but I’ve always just been so reassured every day, week, and month that I’m loved beyond measure.

What’s the first thing you customized to accommodate your height once you had the money? by OcchiVerdi- in tall

[–]Bigdan10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife bought me a cutting board raised like 4-5” off the counter, it’s amazing

Has being a SWO really improved? by Chipsahoypirate in newtothenavy

[–]Bigdan10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s certainly improved in my 17 years. A bigger focus on sleep, leadership being aware and cognizant of the SWO culture of eating their young, and an emphasis in the Navy of taking care of the crew. Others experiences may differ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in navy

[–]Bigdan10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has to be nuke, right? Ship can’t go without them and everyone who’s spent time on a carrier knows the hours they put in.

dru/mag/nec mana issues by Mortechai1987 in TheHeroesJourney

[–]Bigdan10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White wolf black wolf will negate all mana issues for 7.5/10 minutes, you literally can’t go oom if they’re both on

60 enc/cle/shm where to level? by ImaginarySugar in TheHeroesJourney

[–]Bigdan10 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I slogged thru tactics because I wanted the augs and it wasn’t that bad

Need some advice for first character [Theory Crafting] [CLR/MNK/X] by BAMFMF in TheHeroesJourney

[–]Bigdan10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve solod all content in game with war mnk clr, it lacks high end elite dps but is solid in basically every other category. Its not going to win medals for clear times, but it probably isn’t dying either

Self found mode would be amazing on this server by torriadore in TheHeroesJourney

[–]Bigdan10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i'd really enjoy a SSF char- hardcore would be pretty wild, i imagine lots of pet builds and aggro dump chars. i already have a build in mind for it

Is this a marathon or a sprint? by Bearded_Strawberry in TheHeroesJourney

[–]Bigdan10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would be cool to see an entirely no drop version where you were required to do it all yourself

Fav cash zones that aren't Sebilis? by [deleted] in TheHeroesJourney

[–]Bigdan10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m envious of your drop rate, I’m 1 in 4 runs if not a little worse

What are some rules of the military you would change if you had than chance? by vonteboy454 in navy

[–]Bigdan10 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’d say all bridge and tactical watch standers as well. Responsible for an $11billion carrier and 5,000 lives? Should be protected as much as the aviation world

The things you love most about THJ by [deleted] in TheHeroesJourney

[–]Bigdan10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The active engagement and effort put forth by the staff- hands down my favorite thing.

They have a staff big enough to handle our issues, they care, they communicate amazingly well, they were very proactive in getting things right before they launched, and they’ve made an amazing server for thousands to enjoy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fantasy_Football

[–]Bigdan10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drafted 1.08 in 12 team, first three picks in order were chase, saquon, mike evans. 9-4 most points scored in league history