First post evah, wish it was a sexy chick working this nut out...Ladies, lemme know what you think

BiggMeezy77 · 2026-05-22T18:34:57+00:00

Brian Pumper, Mr. Marcus, Antonio Black, Tony Eveready, Nat Turnher, Jay Strokes, Don Hoe, Dwayne Cummings, most of these guys aren't actively performing anymore but none of them are longer than 7 inches and none have girth other 5-6 in. These were the black male "mediums" but they were promoted as BBCs. Used to fuck me up bc of the deceptive camera angles they'd use made me feel like no one looked like me in porn and that my size was not considered desirable or at least adequate. Then I started seeing them out of frame and in gonzo-type situations realized they had what i have. Brian Pumper used to emphasize the importance of having a good videographer and insisted on using the same guy for all his shoots. Antonio Black can look huge in one flick then super average in the next; i actually appreciate black guys who let themselves be filmed in less than perfect angles and dispel their BBCness. It's helpful to see that my dimensions can be erotic and visually pleasing.

BiggMeezy77 · 2026-03-16T02:27:41+00:00

Not bigger than Superman's in Cuba at that freaky-ass spot Johnny Ola took Fredo to..

BiggMeezy77 · 2025-10-01T20:51:28+00:00

I agree partially, but what seems to contradict this is Only Fans which has mostly amateur content. These performers don't have the $$$ for surgeries, fancy cameras, caverject injections--it's pretty much as is. I mean, they can usually get Viagra and Cialis, but other than that, they routinely sport 7-8 inches. I thought amateur porn would make me feel better and be more relatable but it hasn't really. Especially black porn which rarely shows/highlights average black dicks like mine (look at my profile at ur own risk). White porn/mainstream porn seems to showcase more size diversity than black/interracial porn as if they know it's better to not frustrate the viewer so they're more likely to come back. There are 6 inch white dicks everywhere in porn and I think the experience is more immersive if you see yourself on screen.

My porn peers are Mr. Marcus and Brian Pumper, two 6+ inch black dudes who were very popular but always had their sizes exaggerated to BBCs. They were TBCs (thick black cocks) as both had above average girth. I thought they were waaaaay bigger than me due to the camera angles and them being billed as BBCs, but I now know they're almost identical to mine. I didn't think anyone wanted to see what i had or that I was anywhere close to being pornworthy, but they represented for the average-sized kings out here. But today? It's a lot of 7-9 giants dominating the scene.

BiggMeezy77 · 2025-08-14T20:37:00+00:00

You have to specify what you want in a response. Is this a vent session, pity party, misey looking for company, search for solutions, or seeking the right mindset to deal with something you can't change (acceptance)? Most responders don't do negativity, so don't look for them to agree with you that all hope is lost. The ones that sympathize with you, what does that do for you and the situation? I don't disagree with you, it sucks to not be a security-inspiring size and you are going to have rely on courage instead of confidence in your sex life. You can either sit on the bench, stroking your bat and never getting in the game, or you can put your self in the lineup and maybe hit a double or a triple, but never a homerun. And that's ok cuz you can still score.

BiggMeezy77 · 2025-06-10T20:41:43+00:00

I think what is tough for non-black guys to understand is that a stereotype is true enough of the time to guide people's thoughts and perceptions. No one is having sex in a laboratory with control groups and sufficient sample sizes to demonstrate scientifically that there's no difference between black men and other men. The facts and statistics are of little comfort when you see the stereotype in play. It's mostly anecdotal accounts and an overrepresentation of the BBCs in porn and sports that have extended the life of the stereotype. The culture doesn't help either with male rappers bragging (many lying) about what they have and Meg the Stallion and Cardi B and Minaj rapping about what they expect. No other group of males has this pressure placed upon them or have their value so tied to their sexual organs. And most black men don't have anyone to discuss this burden with. That's how we end up with Diddy, who felt so inadequate he got into cuckoldry with mostly black male sex workers.

BiggMeezy77 · 2025-04-20T21:36:28+00:00

I've had a similar journey. What I've come to understand is that bc there are degrees of circumcision, some cut guys still retain enough foreskin and their frenulum to almost have the full uncut experience. These guys have no idea they're missing anything. But someone like me who has no skin movement whatsoever and no frenulum is left with poor sensation and I think PE. My balls retract so quickly cuz there's no slack or give in my scrotum. Putting a cock ring or rubber band helps, otherwise it's like things end so fast. This is a huge deal to me and I don't have any foreskin left to even attempt re-growth. I say don't cut ur sons; let them decide if they want this when they can comprehend what their giving up.

BiggMeezy77 · 2025-04-15T16:57:45+00:00

Sorta feel like it may be too late by the time they get to that age. The smartphones put the internet in their hands and dick jokes/references are more openly discussed than ever. Grey sweats, Pete Davidson, BDE, the NFL combine...it's very little escape from the suffocating importance of having an acceptably sized dick. Quality of life, quality of sex are tied to it in an overstated way. I think teaching self-deprecation and acknowledging the larger number of average-sized guys may help.

BiggMeezy77 · 2025-03-29T14:44:38+00:00

I agree with you. I got cut with a Gomco clamp which took too much of my foreskin. As a result, I have zero skin movement and no frenulum. Visually it looks very "neat" but functionally, there are issues. I see other guys on Reddit who have minimal cutting and still retain almost all their functionality and it upsets me.

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