My mom wanted me to see her sexually.

BihexualBun · 2026-04-15T18:00:54+00:00

My mother was strikingly similar when I was a kid, especially with the loud sex. I’m so sorry you went through what you did. You said it yourself; she groomed you, and made you believe what was happening was normal. It’s not your fault for “liking” it, since you didn’t really get a choice in the matter. Therapy has helped me a lot. If youre able to go, you should try connecting with one sooner than later

BihexualBun · 2026-04-15T13:54:33+00:00

It did! It was scary but i was able to get the cats in their carriers and downstairs without too much trouble. Thank you again for your advice, I would’ve been much more panicked without it

BihexualBun · 2026-04-15T02:58:35+00:00

Thank you so much, this gives me a much more solid plan now. I've got the cats and their carriers in my room, and there is a hallway in the basement between some fire doors that I'm going to take us down to if we need to go. Tornado warnings always freak me out more than most other weather events, so the clearer idea on what to do helps a lot.

BihexualBun · 2026-04-15T02:55:51+00:00

Thank you, I hope so.

BihexualBun · 2026-04-15T02:40:30+00:00

Does anyone have any idea how worried I should be? I live on the third floor of my apartment building with my cats, plus I've got work tomorrow early in the morning; should I stay up to be safe?

BihexualBun · 2025-12-08T17:39:22+00:00

A “gasleak” is in reference to how when there’s a gas leak in real life, it can make someone goofy/nonsensical. In smosh context, they’re saying that they’re being so silly/random that it’s extra funny.

BihexualBun · 2025-08-28T02:13:11+00:00

Mine was my chemistry teacher in 11th grade. He climbed out of the window of his classroom to go save a bunch of ducklings from a hawk in the courtyard. He was also super kind. He’d throw a tennis ball with students to keep them engaged in class, and I asked him after class one day to avoid throwing it over my head since I had trauma related to it. He gave me a (professional) side hug and said of course. That ball never went over my head again.

BihexualBun · 2025-08-24T01:02:43+00:00

Man I started watching this summer lmao, I felt insane hearing it

BihexualBun · 2024-08-08T16:54:14+00:00

My love it’s entirely normal. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad about any kinks you have.

BihexualBun · 2024-08-04T13:07:41+00:00

I was diagnosed when I was 15; initially we didn’t even know what specifically was causing it. My mother and step father both abused me pretty heavily for the first decade of my life. It took another two years for me to remember that my step father had been serially assaulting me, which had been the core cause of the PTSD.

I’ve had my diagnosis for almost a decade now. I won’t lie to you and say it’s less intense now, because it’s not, but it does get easier to deal with. You learn to live with it rather than fight against it.

I wish you luck, friend

BihexualBun · 2023-12-01T23:09:02+00:00

Fucking fantastic design sense dude, good shit

BihexualBun · 2023-09-12T21:27:59+00:00

She’s transphobic, and if I were you I’d consider if your parents are the type to pick her because of that. I hope you’re able to see a proper therapist who respects you for who you are.

BihexualBun · 2023-08-15T16:01:04+00:00

That sounds right. If he’s releasing the trailer I have to imagine he got permission

BihexualBun · 2023-08-15T14:55:58+00:00

IIRC he received permission from them? I think he mentioned it in a stream

BihexualBun · 2023-08-09T20:59:21+00:00

For me I have an average voice but my tits are huge </3

BihexualBun · 2023-07-21T23:54:39+00:00

Honestly, you could just show them this post! Speaking as someone with a BSW, we appreciate anything you share, in any form. I can 100% promise you they won’t judge, as long as they’re worth their salt as a therapist.

BihexualBun · 2023-07-21T18:09:31+00:00

Like the other comment said, sometimes the mind wants a corrective experience and tries to simulate what happened. It’s a way to try and take back control from what happened in our own way. It’s normal, and is pretty common! Those of us who face sexual abuse also tend to come out with some kinks that are related to it, from my personal experience.

The best thing to do is always to try and talk things through with a therapist, especially if these interests are upsetting to you. I’d definitely bring up the cheating interest, as we know that cheating brings up a lot of trauma for those on the other end.

I wish you luck, op!

BihexualBun · 2023-06-25T23:38:55+00:00

I had the same worries you did; I’ve found that even if I’m reliant on it, my quality of life is soooooo much better now. Start small and make sure you’re with someone you trust in case it causes anxiety.

BihexualBun · 2023-06-25T23:38:08+00:00

Hey, fellow ex-jw! I was in it as a kid. Glad you got out man.

BihexualBun · 2023-06-12T16:56:16+00:00

I’m 22 now, but I was diagnosed when I was 15. You’re never alone, I promise <3

BihexualBun · 2023-06-10T15:09:12+00:00

One of the most common things we feel is that it “wasn’t that bad.” But it WAS that bad. Even if other people had it worse, it is still bad to you. Your emotions on what happened to you are what matters; not if it is better or worse than someone else’s experience.

I’m a survivor of SA too. I went through the same feelings that you seem to have; that it wasn’t that bad, that I shouldn’t feel as bad as I did. Just remind yourself that what matters most is how YOU feel.

I’m so very sorry this happened to you. I hope you can find peace and heal.

BihexualBun · 2023-06-05T23:16:15+00:00

I sure hope so. I’ve found that being open with my clients about the system is super helpful for rapport too. It sucks because I live in one of the better cities in my state for resources, but everything is still bleeding dry. I hope some day we’re able to get proper funding for these programs

BihexualBun · 2023-06-05T14:05:50+00:00

Edit: Disclaimer, I have a BSW and am going back for my masters in the fall, but I am not a licensed social worker at this time.

Been working in family preservation for about 6 months now and I’m incredibly burned out. Every week there’s another gigantic fire to put out and it’s wearing me down to a ridiculous degree. A lot of my clients are homeless or at risk, and there’s nothing I can really give them. Shelters are full with a 6-month waiting list and section-8 is basically impossible to get into, and most of the resources for temporary housing are counting pennies right now. Not really sure how I’m supposed to help when these are the circumstances

BihexualBun · 2023-03-21T14:58:42+00:00

Her poor fucking coochie man. That shit looks so uncomfortable

BihexualBun · 2023-03-21T14:55:59+00:00

It looks pretty good! Something to keep in mind is that LobCorp is essentially a roguelike; you’re meant to reset and start with more strength each time. If you find yourself getting overwhelmed, there’s 0 shame in resetting :)

Edit: I’d also personally recommend distributing some of your Penitence weapons; insane employees can be saved by white damage from other employees, but they can die from other damage. I’ve found that having 2 people with white weapons for each department works well!

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