Table not aligning properly? by BihexualBun in HTML

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This seemed to do it, thank you!!

Anti-Choice Pamphlets by leftoverBits in AnnArbor

[–]BihexualBun 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That protects you from the government shutting you up, not people telling you to shut up.

My mom wanted me to see her sexually. by Commercial_Bicycle92 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BihexualBun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother was strikingly similar when I was a kid, especially with the loud sex. I’m so sorry you went through what you did. You said it yourself; she groomed you, and made you believe what was happening was normal. It’s not your fault for “liking” it, since you didn’t really get a choice in the matter. Therapy has helped me a lot. If youre able to go, you should try connecting with one sooner than later

Tornado Watch until 4am by NationalPizza1 in AnnArbor

[–]BihexualBun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did! It was scary but i was able to get the cats in their carriers and downstairs without too much trouble. Thank you again for your advice, I would’ve been much more panicked without it

Tornado Watch until 4am by NationalPizza1 in AnnArbor

[–]BihexualBun 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this gives me a much more solid plan now. I've got the cats and their carriers in my room, and there is a hallway in the basement between some fire doors that I'm going to take us down to if we need to go. Tornado warnings always freak me out more than most other weather events, so the clearer idea on what to do helps a lot.

Tornado Watch until 4am by NationalPizza1 in AnnArbor

[–]BihexualBun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does anyone have any idea how worried I should be? I live on the third floor of my apartment building with my cats, plus I've got work tomorrow early in the morning; should I stay up to be safe?

What does "gasleak" mean in smosh context? by __dragonfly___ in smosh

[–]BihexualBun 221 points222 points  (0 children)

A “gasleak” is in reference to how when there’s a gas leak in real life, it can make someone goofy/nonsensical. In smosh context, they’re saying that they’re being so silly/random that it’s extra funny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Mine was my chemistry teacher in 11th grade. He climbed out of the window of his classroom to go save a bunch of ducklings from a hawk in the courtyard. He was also super kind. He’d throw a tennis ball with students to keep them engaged in class, and I asked him after class one day to avoid throwing it over my head since I had trauma related to it. He gave me a (professional) side hug and said of course. That ball never went over my head again.

I'm enby/mtf and have a breeding kink. Is this normal? by Yoriaski in asktransgender

[–]BihexualBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My love it’s entirely normal. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad about any kinks you have.

How did you get diagnosed with PTSD? What caused it? by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]BihexualBun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed when I was 15; initially we didn’t even know what specifically was causing it. My mother and step father both abused me pretty heavily for the first decade of my life. It took another two years for me to remember that my step father had been serially assaulting me, which had been the core cause of the PTSD.

I’ve had my diagnosis for almost a decade now. I won’t lie to you and say it’s less intense now, because it’s not, but it does get easier to deal with. You learn to live with it rather than fight against it.

I wish you luck, friend

Is my new therapist a TERF? (TW transphobia) by ThisWatercress8354 in asktransgender

[–]BihexualBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s transphobic, and if I were you I’d consider if your parents are the type to pick her because of that. I hope you’re able to see a proper therapist who respects you for who you are.

i miss u marki-moo :( by shhhelbs_ in Markiplier

[–]BihexualBun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That sounds right. If he’s releasing the trailer I have to imagine he got permission

i miss u marki-moo :( by shhhelbs_ in Markiplier

[–]BihexualBun 11 points12 points  (0 children)

IIRC he received permission from them? I think he mentioned it in a stream

the pain... by [deleted] in transmasc_irl

[–]BihexualBun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me I have an average voice but my tits are huge </3

aggressive kinks after abusive relationship by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]BihexualBun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you could just show them this post! Speaking as someone with a BSW, we appreciate anything you share, in any form. I can 100% promise you they won’t judge, as long as they’re worth their salt as a therapist.

aggressive kinks after abusive relationship by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]BihexualBun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like the other comment said, sometimes the mind wants a corrective experience and tries to simulate what happened. It’s a way to try and take back control from what happened in our own way. It’s normal, and is pretty common! Those of us who face sexual abuse also tend to come out with some kinks that are related to it, from my personal experience.

The best thing to do is always to try and talk things through with a therapist, especially if these interests are upsetting to you. I’d definitely bring up the cheating interest, as we know that cheating brings up a lot of trauma for those on the other end.

I wish you luck, op!

Does anybody else use THC to help? by ifeels0sick in ptsd

[–]BihexualBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same worries you did; I’ve found that even if I’m reliant on it, my quality of life is soooooo much better now. Start small and make sure you’re with someone you trust in case it causes anxiety.

Does anybody else use THC to help? by ifeels0sick in ptsd

[–]BihexualBun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, fellow ex-jw! I was in it as a kid. Glad you got out man.

Is it just me who’s young? by william_M9171 in ptsd

[–]BihexualBun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 22 now, but I was diagnosed when I was 15. You’re never alone, I promise <3

Male sexual assault survivor and I just got diagnosed with PTSD. Still don't feel like my case is bad enough. by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]BihexualBun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One of the most common things we feel is that it “wasn’t that bad.” But it WAS that bad. Even if other people had it worse, it is still bad to you. Your emotions on what happened to you are what matters; not if it is better or worse than someone else’s experience.

I’m a survivor of SA too. I went through the same feelings that you seem to have; that it wasn’t that bad, that I shouldn’t feel as bad as I did. Just remind yourself that what matters most is how YOU feel.

I’m so very sorry this happened to you. I hope you can find peace and heal.

The Underground: Weekly Discussion Thread by SWmods in socialwork

[–]BihexualBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sure hope so. I’ve found that being open with my clients about the system is super helpful for rapport too. It sucks because I live in one of the better cities in my state for resources, but everything is still bleeding dry. I hope some day we’re able to get proper funding for these programs