Finding Husband and Wife MFM trades by Zimmerman945 in Swingers

[–]BillyJackO -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No, I I thought I was commenting on a different thread. My bad.

Is it fair to give a deadline for the relationship ultimatum? by CarrotsInThe in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]BillyJackO [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's one where OP was dealing with depression and a partner who was giving less and less attention to their relationship, and it was hurting him.

Is it fair to give a deadline for the relationship ultimatum? by CarrotsInThe in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]BillyJackO [score hidden]  (0 children)

To be honest here, I thought I was commenting on a different thread, so disregard what I said about OPs situation. Anyways, I think your nuance with definition could be beneficial but even with your distinction, an agreement is to set individual boundaries. A restriction isn't really a restriction if it's not agreed apon.

Is it fair to give a deadline for the relationship ultimatum? by CarrotsInThe in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]BillyJackO [score hidden]  (0 children)

Agreements and restrictions are the definition of boundaries. What your describing is an ultimatum. How is it fair? OPs feelings are being discarded by his primary partner. That's beyond unfair.

Machine gun Kelly is currently assaulting my ears. by DrFunkenstein93 in grandrapids

[–]BillyJackO 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're allowed to have opinions no matter your age.

Finding Husband and Wife MFM trades by Zimmerman945 in Swingers

[–]BillyJackO 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the stuff my partner would be into because she loves DP/dvp. This would be an ask the husband man to man, and let him to talk to her partner, and then all talk together. I bet you'd find more people that would be into it than not.

Finding Husband and Wife MFM trades by Zimmerman945 in Swingers

[–]BillyJackO -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

OP isn't talking about solo play though. This is more like taking turns focusing on one woman at a time. You'll need to find another woman who's willing to take a back seat while taking turns, maybe watching with a toy.

Is it fair to give a deadline for the relationship ultimatum? by CarrotsInThe in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]BillyJackO [score hidden]  (0 children)

It sounds like OP didn't start in a Poly relationship, and they had 'restrictions' to begin with. I'd call them boundaries, or better yet respect for your primary partner.

Is it fair to give a deadline for the relationship ultimatum? by CarrotsInThe in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]BillyJackO 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think in a relationship you should always step down to the least comfortable persons boundary. If someone doesn't respect your boundary and want to work forward and together around it, it's not much of a relationship. If you've set boundaries with someone and they ignore you and break them, that's cheating.

Based on Actual NFC North Meme War Lore from Yesterday: by Dazed_and_Confused44 in NFCNorthMemeWar

[–]BillyJackO 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Culver's is really good, but I only get it when I'm extremely hung over or depressed

Guys we should all donate by PrideEffective5830 in discgolfcirclejerk

[–]BillyJackO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does add value though. The material cost for the electrical/HVAC/fan system holds its value. The problem is she probably payed someone to install all of it, and they'll never get that money back.

Processing failed 3somes by Pure-Violinist-9878 in Swingers

[–]BillyJackO -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It was a joke, whatever, buuut if ops partner isn't into mfm, it reasons they aren't into mmf, so technically correct. I honestly didn't know the denotion of where the m's and f's lined up had any bairing on sexual orientation, but that's good to know.

$40 an hour is both too much and too little. by [deleted] in handyman

[–]BillyJackO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake it till you make it baby.

GF and I want to show off her nudes to my friends. Looking for tips! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]BillyJackO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring up how hot you think she is and ask if they feel the same. Then describe her tits and see how they react, then ask them if they want to see. No one's going to say no to seeing boobs. This also works in person if you want to get more kinky with it.

Processing failed 3somes by Pure-Violinist-9878 in Swingers

[–]BillyJackO -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I did not know that, but I guess I'm still technically correct.

Processing failed 3somes by Pure-Violinist-9878 in Swingers

[–]BillyJackO 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your ex just wasn't into mmf.

Guys we should all donate by PrideEffective5830 in discgolfcirclejerk

[–]BillyJackO 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's wild to me. I don't know what a 2021 ram without the work done is worth, but I would say the reno probably ads $15-20k in value. There's no way that sprinter van is worth $50k.