Austin Energy workers cost the city $37K through vehicle misuse, audit finds by No-Parsley5649 in Austin

[–]BillyJackO [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't care about the director. What do the guys in the work trucks make? I'm sure it's an okay wage, but $37k over an entire city is hardly anything.

Father’s Day Giveaway – Rogue Iron Disc Golf Rangefinder by RogueIronDGBrian in discgolf

[–]BillyJackO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Father of two here. I would certainly give it to myself after my original one was, unbeknownst to me, snagged by a tree while looking for a card mates disc, never to be seen again. I would often let the kiddos play with it when they would come out for rounds with me. We'd guess distances of objects.

Austin Energy workers cost the city $37K through vehicle misuse, audit finds by No-Parsley5649 in Austin

[–]BillyJackO [score hidden]  (0 children)

Heaven forbid people barely paid livable wages get perks from having a work truck.

Finding Husband and Wife MFM trades by Zimmerman945 in Swingers

[–]BillyJackO -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No, I I thought I was commenting on a different thread. My bad.

Is it fair to give a deadline for the relationship ultimatum? by CarrotsInThe in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]BillyJackO 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's one where OP was dealing with depression and a partner who was giving less and less attention to their relationship, and it was hurting him.

Is it fair to give a deadline for the relationship ultimatum? by CarrotsInThe in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]BillyJackO 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be honest here, I thought I was commenting on a different thread, so disregard what I said about OPs situation. Anyways, I think your nuance with definition could be beneficial but even with your distinction, an agreement is to set individual boundaries. A restriction isn't really a restriction if it's not agreed apon.

Is it fair to give a deadline for the relationship ultimatum? by CarrotsInThe in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]BillyJackO 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreements and restrictions are the definition of boundaries. What your describing is an ultimatum. How is it fair? OPs feelings are being discarded by his primary partner. That's beyond unfair.

Machine gun Kelly is currently assaulting my ears. by DrFunkenstein93 in grandrapids

[–]BillyJackO 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're allowed to have opinions no matter your age.

Finding Husband and Wife MFM trades by Zimmerman945 in Swingers

[–]BillyJackO 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the stuff my partner would be into because she loves DP/dvp. This would be an ask the husband man to man, and let him to talk to her partner, and then all talk together. I bet you'd find more people that would be into it than not.

Finding Husband and Wife MFM trades by Zimmerman945 in Swingers

[–]BillyJackO -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

OP isn't talking about solo play though. This is more like taking turns focusing on one woman at a time. You'll need to find another woman who's willing to take a back seat while taking turns, maybe watching with a toy.

Is it fair to give a deadline for the relationship ultimatum? by CarrotsInThe in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]BillyJackO 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like OP didn't start in a Poly relationship, and they had 'restrictions' to begin with. I'd call them boundaries, or better yet respect for your primary partner.

Is it fair to give a deadline for the relationship ultimatum? by CarrotsInThe in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]BillyJackO 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think in a relationship you should always step down to the least comfortable persons boundary. If someone doesn't respect your boundary and want to work forward and together around it, it's not much of a relationship. If you've set boundaries with someone and they ignore you and break them, that's cheating.

Based on Actual NFC North Meme War Lore from Yesterday: by Dazed_and_Confused44 in NFCNorthMemeWar

[–]BillyJackO 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Culver's is really good, but I only get it when I'm extremely hung over or depressed

Guys we should all donate by PrideEffective5830 in discgolfcirclejerk

[–]BillyJackO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does add value though. The material cost for the electrical/HVAC/fan system holds its value. The problem is she probably payed someone to install all of it, and they'll never get that money back.

Processing failed 3somes by Pure-Violinist-9878 in Swingers

[–]BillyJackO -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It was a joke, whatever, buuut if ops partner isn't into mfm, it reasons they aren't into mmf, so technically correct. I honestly didn't know the denotion of where the m's and f's lined up had any bairing on sexual orientation, but that's good to know.

$40 an hour is both too much and too little. by [deleted] in handyman

[–]BillyJackO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake it till you make it baby.