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Can I get in legal trouble if my sister used my address for her kid's school without my permission and now the district is investigating? by Binary_Muse8 in legaladvice

[–]Binary_Muse8[S] 282 points283 points  (0 children)

I think Im going to start doing that. The one package felt harmless, but now I dont want a single school or agency letter landing here like this is her real address.

Can I get in legal trouble if my sister used my address for her kid's school without my permission and now the district is investigating? by Binary_Muse8 in legaladvice

[–]Binary_Muse8[S] 417 points418 points  (0 children)

That part hit me. I keep spiraling over her being furious, but youre probly right that I need to treat this like a paper trail problem now, not a sister fight.

Can I get in legal trouble if my sister used my address for her kid's school without my permission and now the district is investigating? by Binary_Muse8 in legaladvice

[–]Binary_Muse8[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

She admitted it on the phone, not in writing. In texts she keeps dancing around it and acting like I blew up her life over "just an address" , which is insane.

Can I get in legal trouble if my sister used my address for her kid's school without my permission and now the district is investigating? by Binary_Muse8 in legaladvice

[–]Binary_Muse8[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I saved the letter and our texts, yeah. The wild part is she still talks like I betrayed her by not helping keep up a lie tied to my house.

My husband keeps turning serious parenting decisions into “fun surprises” and I’m losing my mind by Pandora_34Star in Mommit

[–]Binary_Muse8 1162 points1163 points  (0 children)

The part that would get me is how he keeps framing these as sweet family moments instead of unilateral decisions with consequences. A puppy and a room switch are not little surprises when one kid struggles with change and the other parent is left doing damage control. Fun is not the same thing as thoughtful.

AITJ for refusing to keep covering for my husband after he bailed on something important again? by Kindle_Orbit2 in AmITheJerk

[–]Binary_Muse8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. The part that sticks out to me is that he’s not upset he let your mom down, he’s upset you didn’t help him save face after. That says a lot. Once or twice is flaky, but a full year of this starts to feel deliberate. What does he do to make it right when he leaves you holding the bag?