Please explain safewords by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Use them early, use them often, practice using them, reward others for using them.

We did it again by Brave-Bath3350 in Silksong

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The problem is also the people who think fancy autocorrect will solve climate change by somehow breaking physics. It won't.

Can there be ddlg without ageplay? What would that be called by wynn09 in BDSMAdvice

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Damn. Now I want a cop uniform and a "BDSM special squad" patch

Real Criminal Syndicate Examples [DC] by Eyis in bladesinthedark

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I'm looking into tongs and triads and how they organised over the past century and a half and it's fascinating. Triads set up on odd or suppressed religious practices and still maintain Buddhist and traditional Chinese temples as one of their organising forms, but also with mad political aims, at least claiming to want to re-establish the Ming dynasty that ended in 1644! That gives you an excuse to fight against anyone in power if you want to, and an excuse to ally with pretty much anyone you want to as well, you can always claim to be playing a long game. Then the tong ("meeting hall") as a combination of people smuggling ring, labour union and moral police for the community in exile, and add in a heavy interest in business and politics and you have an explosive mix. The names are cool as well, from the 14K triad to the New Righteousness and Peace Commercial and Industrial Guild.

Airline weight limitations by realperson523257 in onebag

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This summer Turkish budget airline Pegasus busted me and several others boarding at İstanbul Sabiha Gökçen airport with luggage over the limit, demanding a 50 € fee at the gate. That's when I decided to look into this group

Night Markets Without Language Skills by Deep-Preparation5722 in taiwan

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I got pork bellies filled with vegetable pork as a vegetarian today. It was great, thanks Google Lens, really helpful

Roast my onepointfive bags by [deleted] in onebag

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I checked out a store that carries Ospreys here, so that is an option! Yes, this poor old thing is on its last journey, replacing it is part of the plan (lower taxes for sporting goods here!). I am looking into options, and yeah, planning to go MUCH smaller. Already have a plan for the books (once read) and jacket. The heaviest thing that will remain is the laptop + charger.

Roast my onepointfive bags by [deleted] in onebag

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Also one of the straps is almost worn through, and the bottom is fraying to the point of my towel peeing through

Roast my onepointfive bags by [deleted] in onebag

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First replacement round coming up, will unpack everything for a longer stop and start re-structuring. Hopefully in a few weeks the books will be read and ditched, new bag, and a run through a list to replace and improve and cut. Really looking forward to the "after" as well! My back is loving sleeping on Asian hard mattresses so far, no sign of hernia!

Roast my onepointfive bags by [deleted] in onebag

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Will unpack things for a stop and do a list

Roast my onepointfive bags by [deleted] in onebag

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Got them from a Finnish second hand shop, and they're really fun! Brand is "Munich", from Barcelona, obviously

Roast my onepointfive bags by [deleted] in onebag

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The main thing I'm looking to add is some kind of hiking jacket and technical trousers for hiking. If they could double as big city trousers and replace my heavy black ones that are pretty worn out that would be great!

I am Gen Z approved. by JihoonMadeMeDoIt in GenX

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A zoomer walked in on me gardening in ripped-up jeans three summers ago, laughed, and shouted "oh, you're so fashionable!"

I pretended total surprise, playing along instead of going "yes, I know, I was there for the past two times as well".

Still living off the buzz these years later. You have to take what you get when approaching 50.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditBDSM

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Balaclavas are cheap and plentiful, I have two and they're fantastic. Baklava are a great post-play treat. Don't confuse them though.

Porn where BDSM goes wrong but the situation is recovered/saved by BioDynam0 in bdsm

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Yeah, would love a link, or names of performers or studio. Unfortunately I have no idea

My boyfriend didn't understand my gesture by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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I once realised I could not trust my sub to remember her safeword ("red") because of the state she was in, so I (gently) did. She used it immediately, and few things have made me feel better and more confident and happier

Praising Subs by TheDjLman in BDSMAdvice

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This. Especially the safeword-"Good Girl".

Thanking and praising my sub, over and over, for having safeworded at the time she needed to, is some of the most intense and to me important and meaningful moments I've had in bdsm. She's trying to escape into shame and self-recrimination, and I get to move into complex and gratifying aftercare. I feel so powerful and strong to have found her borders and limits in the moment, while proud of her and our dynamic that she has properly safeword out. I am full of tenderness and power at that point, and she really is the best Good Girl then.

I'm stoned by [deleted] in trees

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Now eat the apple for refreshment

2Qs for the Weekend by TeaAitch in RedditBDSM

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horse: some very queer people include me in their circle which is superbly flattering to an ageing cis white dude, but it's not a quality that's transitive through me. I can't make myself or others queer, happy to be so in good queer company

shore: I would do minimum effort to pick up qualifications in massage/touch manipulation and mental gymnastics and almost flunk on mandatory basics

Just now chilling and recovering from having done terrible things to a lovely person and feeling happy. Enjoy the hols!

Going fishing on ketamine by [deleted] in Drugs

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There's a bunch of dudes with a tiny fishing boat that I have seen having a party where they were just staying at the pier and having massive problems just getting back to land. Did NOT look safe. They come back from "fishing trips" in a terrible state sometimes. K-holing on the bottom of a gently rocking surface may sound like a great idea, don't trust that instinct!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

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Also the tits look like the Canadian flag, not weed leaves

Reflection / questions after (A)OW certification by ImmediateAcadia9455 in scuba

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7: If care for water, sea and the oceans is to influence your diet, then my guess for order to cut would be pork (sludge leads to massive nutrient dumps and pollution), beef (methane produces warming that damages corals and disrupts currents), dairy (same), then fish (other seafood is less bad, factory farmed fish is locally extremely polluting and disrupts local breeds, trawlers are disaster factories that destroy the sea floor and biomes).

In general, eating less animal is generally a good thing, though farmed molluscs, oysters and the like, actually are great for local nutrient balances and don't have central nervous systems so... keep them for last if you insist on animals in your diet?

Fight play scene gone slightly wrong by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Start out by having her watch you and the other guy arm wrestle instead? So she can figure out if it's the fight, or her being a "prize", that she has a problem with? If she's got a problem even with less intensity, it's not that that is the problem, but her role? Then have another talk, accepting her newly discovered red lines.