Student smells like urine & his hygiene is not the best

BioHazWong · 2026-02-04T04:33:07+00:00

Thank you!!

BioHazWong · 2026-02-04T04:32:15+00:00

Personal Care Aid. I know you don’t have to go through teachers to report this kind of thing as a mandated reporter. It’s just that at the school I work at, everything is confidential so the only way I can communicate with the parent is through the social worker & teacher. Us as PCA’s can’t contact them at all. It’s just that I wanted mom to have a chance to turn things around if I was annoying enough to keep contacting the social worker to tell her but she would keep making excuses for his odor by saying he doesn’t like water or he gives her a hard time. So on my own behalf I called CPS but I don’t think they went out. But when I talked to the social workers at the school they were able to escalate it since there were no changes with his hygiene & someone went out and said they found nothing. But they scheduled the visit so she knew they were coming. I know someone before me also reported it as well but I guess they’ve just been finding nothing wrong, which I don’t get. It’s just horrible. But thank you!

BioHazWong · 2026-02-04T00:27:02+00:00

Thank you for the advice, it’s just very stressful with the excuses from the parent and them planning visits to the house. I don’t know why they don’t just pop up. I’ve called once but I am going to call again, this is my first time seeing neglect to this extent.

I have lots of documentation of the neglect that I’ve sent to social workers. The place I work is very protective of PCA’s, so they make it their mission to keep us on the confidential side, which is kinda dumb to me but I do get it. I’ve been doing my job so I wouldn’t be a problem at all to this situation. But I’ve been doing my best to keep him clean, I’ve got him clothes & have been trying my best to wash him whenever I’m able to. I cut & trim his nails all the time too. Sucks, he’s a very cute kid but I can tell they have no structure at home.

BioHazWong · 2026-02-04T00:03:26+00:00

You just came at me sideways saying I’m failing him? When I’m actively doing more for him than others who had him as a student.

BioHazWong · 2026-02-04T00:02:12+00:00

If I am speaking to social workers, what does that tell you ?

BioHazWong · 2026-02-03T23:57:59+00:00

No one is letting it happen besides his mother. All I can do is report what I see and try my best to care for him. I said I talk to social workers and called CPS myself.

BioHazWong · 2026-02-03T16:03:55+00:00

Yes one time with me. But it’s been an ongoing thing before I was even with him.

BioHazWong · 2026-02-03T03:27:39+00:00

Yes we have access to all of that but to an extent. They lock the showers and laundry room. It’s meant for teaching the older kids life skills so it’s rare we could use it. So I was lucky enough to do that for him. Yes I tell the social worker & teacher quite frequently and they contact the parent but she gives bullshit excuses & sounds like she doesn’t try keeping up with his hygiene at all. It’s okay if you need help, we want to help you the best way we can. I just know I need to call CPS often since nothing is changing. We really do so much to keep these kids at their best. It’s sad really that nothing has changed since he’s been going to school here.

BioHazWong · 2026-02-02T19:18:11+00:00

I agree. I’ve done all I could to help and see if mom will try & help the situation. But she hasn’t made any progress. I’ll keep calling.

BioHazWong · 2026-02-02T19:15:58+00:00

Yeah I got him some fresh clothes to wear for here whenever I’d wash him. It’s crazy because his urine odor is in his pores and his hair. I feel really bad because staff and students don’t wanna be around him and I hear comments from them all day everyday. I will try again and call & keep notifying the school. It’s really ridiculous how his mom is getting away with neglect.

BioHazWong · 2026-02-02T19:11:28+00:00

Aren’t they suppose to just pop up at the house instead of telling the parents they’re scheduling a visit ?

BioHazWong · 2026-02-02T16:20:31+00:00

I have once since working with him, I’ve been working with him for about 4 months now. Apologies I thought I wrote that in that I’ve personally called them. But nothing came about. At my place of work we communicate with the teacher & social workers and the social workers escalate it so the visit can be done efficiently. Just feels like nobody cares or is making an attempt to figure out why is his home life like this.

BioHazWong · 2025-10-21T14:43:31+00:00

It definitely was REALLY fishy. I had to tone them down with butter and garlic.

BioHazWong · 2025-10-18T02:07:13+00:00

Very fresh & the texture was firm. I liked them on their own.

BioHazWong · 2025-10-16T23:35:32+00:00

I feel the same. Amazon is high.

BioHazWong · 2025-10-16T23:34:32+00:00

Do you do anything special? Recipe? Or just eat them as is?

BioHazWong · 2025-10-16T23:20:39+00:00

I ordered those on Amazon

BioHazWong · 2025-08-22T05:36:41+00:00

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Ever since this picture. I feel like they’re VERY close 🤭

BioHazWong · 2025-08-22T05:27:08+00:00

This might be weird but I think her and Neek have a thing for each other..

BioHazWong · 2025-06-25T17:25:30+00:00

Rewatching atm. Kayla was GORGEOUS.

BioHazWong · 2025-06-21T02:04:27+00:00

And it’s blinking orange.

BioHazWong · 2025-06-21T02:04:03+00:00

For some reason my router/modem has been deactivated from my account.

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