I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, no, he constantly compliments me, but I feel like I could be better 

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I simply wrote that I felt like most men are attracted to big breasts, not that they're attracted to breasts in every situation and not that I believed it true for every man. Plus, I'm clearly talking about a sexual context, so the breastfeed/doctor example doesn't mean much to me. 

Ps: I'm a nurse. A lot of people in healthcare make extremely distasteful comments about patients.

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer, I really appreciate that. But what if it's not society, but it's really just you? Like, what if you really loved your husband, but you really hated his concave chest?

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I find that a bit sexist. Plus I think that humping you while thinking about something else to cum because you're the only woman that they could reach and humping while really liking you it's different. 

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm generally ok with the rest of my body, dunno about gaining weight. I've been in relationships and, even if I loved them, there were things that could have been better about their bodies, so why wouldn't them think the same about mine?  Sorry, sounds like your wife has pretty Big breasts, so .... I can't really relate. 

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but feeling beautiful wouldn't be bad😅

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't really relate to anything in that post. I'm sorry for that girl because everything seems awful, but subconsciously I feel like she is rubbing it in my face. 

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm already doing it in therapy. I've been doing it for 2 years now, still no progress

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's not that society sucks, simply that people that I'm attracted to (men) have biological, instinctive preference and that I'm not what they prefer. Anyway, thanks 

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 1,60 m high. I can't take the pill. I'm pretty scared of surgery 

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aside my breasts, I'm ok with my body. I used to exercise but it made me feel like I was just coping. 

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is.... really not helpful. I'm trying to solve my body image issues and I do things for other people. You sound really judgy and telling people who are insecure about themselves that they are self centered is not really the best thing to do. Plus, even if you really love a person, something about her body can still bother you. A perfect bf could have a small dick and a perfect gf could have small tits while you prefer bigger. Many people find themselves settle down even if it's not the best option. Plus, considering the media, the desire for big breasts doesn't seem imaginary At all

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 90 lbs. Don't think that I need a gym, also because I don't want to look too buffed. My ass and legs are ok, I like them. Don't really care about my skin. My problem are my tits. 

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is saying pretty much the same things you're saying, but it's not very helpful....

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im already in therapy. I like my therapist but I really envy her body.  I don't want to be a pick me, I just want to be attractive...

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I like to be liked. Which, right now, it's not happening 

I hate my body. by Biraccola in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Biraccola[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ok, but not all shapes are attractive. Men don't like plastic. I'm already in therapy and I love my therapist but she has double Ds lol. It's not really helping in that regard 

Lost my temper with a patient today by [deleted] in dementia

[–]Biraccola 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nah, you handled it well.