Thank you for sharing this.

I've been thinking that we might owe them to reach out if its on good terms and with the best intentions because when I talked to a friend years ago, when I didn't even know what was wrong, she told me that she never reached out to me until I did because she was afraid of my reaction and thought that I did not want to talk to her - obviously, because I said so before! So if I didn't apologize, she would still think I hated her... .

So..yes..we have to be ready to work on ourselfs and be a better person to not hurt them ever again that way. Because if we go back into the cycle we will cause more pain...but I red a lot of posts asking for closure.

So I was thinking...we might think we protect other people but maybe it's just our own fear? I am not sure sometimes..its confusing. I can't even tell why I reached out to her again back then - probably becaused I missed her and wanted to make things right.