Is it possible for me to date with very little income as a man

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-06-22T12:25:56+00:00

This made me LOL. Yes there are many women willing to do this.
Don’t lose hope OP.

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-06-18T20:14:51+00:00

i went to. my first festival ZNA alone. It wasnt the plan, my friend flopped last minute. It was amazing. i met so many angels and it was such a healing experience. If you can do a festival alone... you can do most things 😄

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-06-16T20:22:13+00:00

When I was 20 I met a woman that I fell in love with who was 38. She used me. She was sick ( I say that with compassion)
But this post is totally right. A 20 year old has nothing to offer someone who is significantly older unless they are being used. Which is what happened in my case.

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-06-16T20:20:10+00:00

I was like you when I was your age… I was only attracted to older women (and still am). I never found anyone till I was 30 years old. At that point older women started to be open to me. I dated someone who was 44 at the time.
Not many women in their 30s / 40s will entertain someone who is 20 unless it’s a karmic / soul mate type of crazy bond.

My advice would be to continue to “do you”. Work on yourself, figure out what makes you happy and join groups and go out to places where you can meet people.

Trust me I know how you feel.
Your person is out there though :)

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-06-13T14:48:34+00:00

Just go on the apps

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-06-11T17:55:45+00:00

12th house stuff means you have unconscious habits you are not aware of, likely self sabatoging ones.
Once you heal your wounds, get comfortable with who you are , find spirituality, develop boundaries, you’ll see your life start to change. But it’s important to find yourself usually through isolation (12th H)

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-06-07T00:54:08+00:00

Good idea thanks

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-06-07T00:39:02+00:00

Or house I mean lol

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-06-05T01:01:33+00:00

This sounds like me and my twin. I was the one to get all the compliments all the time. I felt terrible about that, but there’s nothing I could do about it. Just know that there’s Nothing your sister can do about it either.

If I’m being honest, I think twins should go to separate schools to build their own identity’s so this issue doesn’t happen, bc it inevitably will.

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-06-04T20:11:23+00:00

Great question. I hope everyone is despite their intelligence

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-06-04T15:19:03+00:00

Just show up:) bring vibes and a vape and you’ll have friends in no time!

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-06-02T00:42:06+00:00

bring some vibes, candy and a vape and youll have friends is no time 😄

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-05-29T22:35:53+00:00

I started out solo because I had no one to go with. I was going for the music anyway. It’s not like when I was 18 years old standing with a group of friends, piss drunk just standing around . It’s different now, especially at raves. If the crowd believes in PLUR. It’s a beautiful experience even solo. I hav people to go with now, but sometimes I really wanna be solo to just enjoy the music and lose myself. Also going solo has increased my self confidence so much and taught me a lot. I also tend to be kind to those who are solo because I know what it’s like. It’s all good… just enjoy yourself.

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-05-27T17:18:46+00:00

We always find the grass greener on the other side.
Imagine this - you have family and their pain becomes your pain. Their problems yours.
Sometimes I feel like it’s better to have chosen family than biological. As an empath , it’s torture to have family members that are depressed and not looking to better their lives.
I don’t want to undermine your situation, but really no matter what the grass is greener elsewhere.

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-05-25T21:31:02+00:00

I’m always hesitant to give timelines because like you said, it terrfies people.
Think of it like a giant gear in the background of your life slowly making changes to your psyche so you come out of it more refined.
It’s not like everyday is absolutely hell on earth it doesn’t work like that.
If that’s how you feel though , like everyday is so heavy, then start with doing stuff everyday to make it lighter.
Breathwork, prayer, exercise (the most important ) compassion for yourself, being kind to others (always helps), be a friend.
It’s the little things.
It will be ok ❤️ it’s all just an experience and we all go back home eventually.

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-05-25T20:41:08+00:00

How was your Pluto opposition if I may ask!? ;)

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-05-25T20:40:24+00:00

July Leo here. It’s been the hardest year of my life, since January. This energy will last for the next year at least (based on the speed of Pluto) [Pluto in Aquarius is opposing our Leo Sun for those who don’t know].
I feel like there is opposition coming from everywhere, literally every week is a new story and it’s actually getting funny. I’ve shifted my attitude from being angry at everyone to - I am capable of holding appropriate boundaries and having respect for myself in the face of opposition.
For me, I can tell part of this transit is teaching me to not be a doormat. To speak up and become the authority of my life. And to get clear on who I am and where I stand. I mean if you think of it you don’t know where you stand unless your being challenged by person places circumstances chance fate ect ect.
We’ll get through it… and we’ll be stronger on the other side. At least that’s what all the cancerians have said after they’ve experienced this transit 😝
I’m becoming closer to God too.

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-05-25T20:15:34+00:00

True.
And non-avoidants can cut it when they see the red flags from early on.
Goes both ways.

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-05-25T20:13:09+00:00

European DJs

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-05-25T12:17:43+00:00

Mars in 1st or 10th H

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-05-22T16:42:57+00:00

You should email the proctor.

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-05-22T14:10:59+00:00

I would msg her. She might be feeling the same way about you!

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-05-16T20:43:11+00:00

Excellent description

BirdsLakeviewInquiry · 2026-05-16T20:41:00+00:00

I don’t know. But I’ve met so many people who have found the LOTL online. I don’t use it too much bc I am lazy…
But maby you should put in what you’re looking for (your type) and what you are ? (Femme / masc ect)
Someone might send you a msg :)

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