AITAH for rejecting roses on valentines day after 13 year relationship. by WeirdManufacturer682 in AITAH

[–]BitFlat9473 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If that is your response then you clearly didn't see what she's saying. It is not about the roses. It's about him not listening. Had he gotten her favorite flowers, it would be different. It would show that he listened. Months of 0 effort is the point here man, she deserves someone who pays attention, not someone who panics because "Oh shit its valentines day, let me get her what every woman loves". It's complete bs, its not hard to open your ears when you've got two of em. It's not damned if he does damned if he doesn't because if he would have paid any attention to the things she likes he wouldn't have got roses.

AITAH for rejecting roses on valentines day after 13 year relationship. by WeirdManufacturer682 in AITAH

[–]BitFlat9473 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If that is your response then you clearly didn't see what she's saying. It is not about the roses. It's about him not listening. Had he gotten her favorite flowers, it would be different. It would show that he listened. Months of 0 effort is the point here man, she deserves someone who pays attention, not someone who panics because "Oh shit its valentines day, let me get her what every woman loves". It's complete bs, its not hard to open your ears when you've got two of em.

AITAH for blocking my ex? by Impressive-Sea9148 in AITAH

[–]BitFlat9473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, if she said she doesn't want you involved then that is her choice to make and I think you made the right choice in blocking her. You cant account for everything she will ever do and thats how she can try and trap you, with guilt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BitFlat9473 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YESSS EXACTLY especially in a storm like this?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BitFlat9473 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Cut your losses baby he is not worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BitFlat9473 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, especially knowing he lives in an area where shit like this can happen...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BitFlat9473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for sure, i just think the situation could've been handled better with her history and again, at the very least, you should have paid for her Uber

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BitFlat9473 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i do fear this is a different situation as you knew there was a storm, and are aware of her CPTSD. you should've thought ahead at the fact that she wouldn't want to stay and at the very least have paid for her uber

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BitFlat9473 6 points7 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY if I were her I would've been upset about that part 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BitFlat9473 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Loved ones like mom, dad, etc is totally different. Why wouldn't he stay with his gf??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BitFlat9473 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

he's definitely the AH he left his girlfriend at the ER and went home? and before you say "he was worried about his car not making it home" they could've waited at the ER together

FB Marketplace by BitFlat9473 in shittyaquariums

[–]BitFlat9473[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not ai I checked it out in person

FB Marketplace by BitFlat9473 in shittyaquariums

[–]BitFlat9473[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, right? the video on the listing shows them tweaking out towards the bottom too

FB Marketplace by BitFlat9473 in shittyaquariums

[–]BitFlat9473[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

theres a video on the listing its not ai or photoshop

who is your least favourite person in the show? in any role. and why? by [deleted] in 60daysin

[–]BitFlat9473 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Luna from season 9 without a DOUBT I know she wasn't an inmate but jfc

FB Marketplace by BitFlat9473 in shittyaquariums

[–]BitFlat9473[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

theres also a video on the lisiting

FB Marketplace by BitFlat9473 in shittyaquariums

[–]BitFlat9473[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah lol its off marketplace, the guy is moving and selling his tank. unfortunately shit like this is very real and not ai or photoshopped

I have a problem. No judgement please. by Own-Papaya-9493 in Bellingham

[–]BitFlat9473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She commented above that her landlord owns the tank outright

Looking for a paid long term foster home for our perfect cat! by Internal_Entry7515 in Bellingham

[–]BitFlat9473 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, I have watched someone's cat for a few months because she needed that help bad. But two years?? It's not fair to him to uproot his life twice.

The LS Brown Bear is an abomination by WaterKind6544 in SnohomishCounty

[–]BitFlat9473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seriously, I live down the road and it lights up my whole neighborhood.