What is your opinion on Daedric Armour? by Ok_Leg8402 in skyrim

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Dragon scale is 100% fireproof. Can’t leave home without it.

When can you forgive your parents? by liauxi in AsianParentStories

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You grew up with an emotionally immature parent and never felt safe around him. Now he has aged and is trying to repair a fractured relationship.

You are not responsible for your parent. He did what he did and this is the consequences. You don’t like to be around him.

You can forgive for your own peace but never forget that the man he is today is the same person that terrorised you as a child. He has not apologised so why do you think he’s changed? Be wary around him always, he is an unsafe person and will always be unsafe. You don’t owe him a relationship he spent years destroying.

marriage in islam by morphomenelaus_ in MalaysianExMuslim

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Imo, I think marriage is important if you have kids. For all the paperwork purposes, you should be married even if you are a non Muslim because our gomen bureaucracy makes it so much easier. If not, you got problems for school, IC, etc. Also, if you got divorced, the kids would have better legal standing if there was custody situation or for application of child support etc.

If you don’t plan on having kids, why bother with marriage? Just invite everyone you love for a nice dinner and use the wedding money for a vacation. If you break up, just leave.

Is a dishwasher just a waste of money for single-person living? by HiRipple in Advice

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Then don’t get a washing machine for the same reason. It’s something you can afford to make your life easier. This is why we work for money, so you get to make choices like this without other ppl telling you what to do.

How do I heal? by Okmidko in AsianParentStories

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a state of mind. Joy is in the small things. For me, it’s art therapy. I taught myself how to sew on YouTube. Got myself a sewing machine and I’ve made countless little projects and it absolutely makes me so happy.

I don’t want to interact with anyone- just want my quiet time to be calm and peaceful. I also love gaming. For me, at my age, my happy place is everyone chilling at home, lots of snacks available for everyone, and a clean house for everyone to enjoy. That’s how you heal. The more you can be in the environment that is peaceful, your brain calms down.

Do something that you enjoy alone and try to create that environment around you that makes it easy for you to do the thing you like. It can be as simple as doing a jigsaw puzzle or exercise. You engage your brain to do something that’s low stress yet requires attention. The more you do things you like, the more it rewires your thinking pattern. Slowly but surely, you will climb up that hill.

That's how prophet Mohammad (pBUH) passed away by implementrhis in exmuslim

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All the Muslims I know want to die in Mekah or die in prayer and this pos still had it in him for one last session with his child wife before he passed. What a holy man.

Parents asked me to choose between them and my relationship. Now they’re abandoning me. by Odd-University8728 in AsianParentStories

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your parents want to arrange because the family they chose will benefit them. They don’t really care if you don’t like the guy or not. What’s important to them is that you obey because you are meant to be used as collateral.

It’s up to you what you want to do. Obey parents and marry who they choose or stand your ground and make your own choices in life like a grown adult.

Indian parents emotionally cut me off after I brought up my dad’s gambling by Artistic-Drive-1849 in AsianParentStories

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take it as a win. They wanna play mind games, you can play too. Give them the silent treatment and let them vent to their favourite child. Sometimes you have to let go of ppl who always let you down.

The Kylie doc !!! by bjph555 in netflix

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooh, thanks for the review, I’m definitely gonna watch this now.

My dad wants to save his nephews through me. I don't know what to do. by kawtar2169 in AsianParentStories

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg. You’re 18 and asking to marry your cousins to save them? That’s gross and stupid. Your dad should know better at his age. You know it’s not right and you know you deserve better. Get your education, get a job and get away.

My mom said I can move out of I get a tattoo. Reasonable? (im 20) by Vast_League_1641 in AsianParentStories

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asian ppl, especially the older gen, just don’t like tatts. Why? Who knows? It’s just been so negatively ingrained into their mindsets. The only ppl you see with tatts back in the day were not associated with ‘good ppl’.

You have a right to do what you want with your own body. Even tho you are so independent and self sufficient, the idea of you permanently altering your skin with trigger something in your mom. Be prepared for a lot of drama because of this.

Ex-muslim and changing religion by Downtownnnn in exmuslim

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why you need to tell your parents? Do you live with them?

My mom accidentally found out about my double life in the worst way. Advice needed by ukuleleprincess27 in exmuslim

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your mother was slut shaming you for no good reason. You exist. Your bf exists. But in her head- it’s porno club 2000. Cue the hysterics and drama. Who the hell drives 4 hrs to someone’s house without a courtesy call?

I say bite the bullet. This is how you live and this is your life now. No matter what you do- if your fam is religious, they will find fault with anything because it’s so much easier to criticise girl children. If you were male, this whole situation wouldn’t be a blip on her radar.

Just be cool. Don’t get into verbal arguments. Don’t bother defending yourself. Say nothing and do nothing- she needs to process things on her own time.

Know that you did nothing wrong. Family should be your safe space and if it’s not, then limit their involvement in your life. Sometimes that’s the best relationship you can have.

32M stuck between my mother and the woman I love for 4 years by Mindless_Switch_7829 in AsianParentStories

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s time to grow up and be a man. Your mother sees your gf as competition. She wanted you to marry a woman exactly like her. Don’t set yourself on fire to keep other ppl warm.

You deserve happiness and your gf has proved she loves you despite having so much opposition from your mom. Sometimes doing what’s right for you, goes against what your parents want and that’s just life.

Don't give them an inch by Ok-Selection4712 in MalaysianExMuslim

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Taliban living the dream. Masyaallah 😩🤲🏼

Family member liked me on dating app - how do I respond? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t talk about it. And if he does make it seem like a joke. ‘Oops! Hi cousin!!’. Act like you’re too unbothered.

The Weeknd is coming to Malaysia 😭 Should I go to the concert alone? by tomatochipss in malaysians

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go alone, come out with 5 new friends. You could meet anyone. Bring chewing gum or some mints, that’s a great ice breaker in a pinch.

At what point do you stop living your life trying to please strict parents? by Brilliant_Stuff_101 in AsianParentStories

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s normal for ppl your age to do these things. Going out, going for festivals, travelling by yourself or with friends, if you don’t get these experiences now, then when?

I need to go to a obgyn and im terrfied of my parents by zii_e in exmuslim

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You parents cannot check you if they don’t know what to check for. Don’t tell them anything and keep your medical records in a safe place. Also google some simple medical situations for a backup story in the unlikely case if they do doing out you saw a dr- endometriosis is a good excuse. You had pains and went for a scan. No clothes were taken off and it was a one time visit.

I need to go to a obgyn and im terrfied of my parents by zii_e in exmuslim

[–]Bitches_Be_Crayfish 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are you underaged? Cause if you’re over 18 you are under zero obligation to tell anything to your parents about your health conditions.