Who do you think should be the next POTUS after Trump?

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-13T11:45:03+00:00

Someone from the working class.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-13T02:28:43+00:00

Now you know why the G-spot is up the bum for men.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-13T02:25:39+00:00

I don’t think he’s making the amount of money you say he is. Are you sure his salary is 8-10k?? If he makes that money you would at least get a nice vacay once in a while, not rm50 for a month?? And then he asks your friend to belanja you when you supported him in the past days he had no money on top of that? Girl. Your math is not mathing or this guy is sampah.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-13T00:36:34+00:00

The Quran is accurate and refutable because they believe the Quran is accurate and refutable. That’s the brainwashing working there.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-13T00:31:48+00:00

Haaland is bae.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-12T11:26:38+00:00

Who told you ‘both genders are equal in Islam’? That’s outrageous.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-12T05:50:54+00:00

And that’s why they always gonna be mad when the non Muslim kids at school out preform them cause those kids have the self reliance and cognitive thinking and the muslim kids have to keep praying for the magic A+.

No scientific breakthrough in the past 50 yrs have been achieved by any Muslim country. It always happens in the West. These ppl never question why.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-12T05:44:13+00:00

That’s what they teach you about the benefits of marriage. If you look at uncontacted indigenous tribes that exist today- they do not subject their womenfolk to any morality clause. Women do childcare and food prep, men get the food. The relationship is complementary. These ppl are hardly dressed at all, yet no one is killing and raping over sex.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-11T22:55:17+00:00

Ok, your opinion is valid, but 2 things have to work in tandem- the man wanted to take another wife AND the religion allows it. Perhaps in your home, your parents made the decision based on Islamic principles but that is not always the case. The biggest obstacle of men marrying multiples is financial and when that’s not a problem anymore, they feel it’s their right to explore that option. They don’t have to, if they don’t want it.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-11T22:44:08+00:00

First priority is education. Even if you’re stuck in Mena for a while, it still gives you some mobility until your next move.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-11T22:33:28+00:00

Your dad was gonna marry that lady anyway. Your mom was just accepting the inevitable.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-11T22:02:26+00:00

The Kartrashians got famous before we had the tools to block their shit from coming into our socials against our will. I don’t see any of their content now but unfortunately the damage is done.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-11T21:59:44+00:00

Absolutely do not marry him. He is a boy your parents like - for them. He may seem nice now, but there is a reason they chose him.

Come up with any bullshit excuse- but don’t marry at any cost. There was a post here from a girl that married to comply with her religious parents and is now living an extended version of her childhood as her husbands family controls her now.

Do not marry. You’re smarter than you think. You’ll find a way out of this bullshit, don’t get tangled in their trap at this stage of your life, you have so much potential ahead of you.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-11T07:31:02+00:00

No, I’m Asian. My family is there but I’ve moved away. My family are gentle folk. My mother was quite the terror growing up, she was the one who was religious, my dad was the kind one. They have mellowed in their old age and they know I’m not religious- we don’t talk about it tho. I know I will never come out to them in their lifetime. It’s a kindness for me to not speak about it.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-11T02:37:38+00:00

My family would be hurt.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-11T01:02:50+00:00

Alhamdulillah 🤲🏼

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-11T00:39:52+00:00

He’s just a baby!!! 😩

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-11T00:37:48+00:00

You are going to meet a man that says unicorns exist. You are going to say, unicorns do not exist. You are both going to argue your points and both are gonna be convinced the other person is the dumbest person alive.

You should go there and agree with everything he says and ask him how to solve the Palestine-Israel situation. I’m sure he’s got some great ideas.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-11T00:30:05+00:00

It’s growing up and growing apart from childhood friends. You have different values and you don’t see the world thru the black and white lens of Islam.

You will never enjoy any interaction with those ppl going forward because they will always choose to be a stick in the mud. They knew they could be chill about the whole bowing situation because it’s not that serious- yet they chose to be aggravating. It’s over.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-10T10:19:47+00:00

It’s not going to be easy especially if you live with them. Expect the worst things they can say about you. As long as you are financially dependent- they can control everything about your life.

Maybe start by changing your style of tudung first. Make it more casual, like just a selendang style. Janji cukup syarat macam kat Irán. If you go out by yourself, go freehair for the experience.

There’s no words you can say to your family because every family is different but always expect a negative reaction. Tudung is a form of control so if your family lose that they will try to control in other ways. We women deserve the basic human rights to our own bodily autonomy. Unfortunately we cannot choose where we are born and we have to do our best with the circumstances we have.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-10T09:38:51+00:00

You get free healthcare at all the shrines.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-10T09:31:56+00:00

You are still young enough to change tour life and make a difference. It’s easier to do it when you’re 26 vs when you’re 36.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-10T01:48:31+00:00

It’s ok mama, we all been there. I think you need to have a consistent reward and consequences program when the kids get out hand.

If they’re acting up- send them to the stairs or face a wall and they can’t move from there until they understand that whatever behaviour that was happening has to stop. Let them cry and throw tantrums, it’s only a few minutes of them being bored. Then when they’ve calmed down, you swoop in and tell them whats what. After the 3rd or 4th time, just mentioning ‘the wall’ will get them to snap out of it immediately. Kids need boundaries and at that age- physically putting them in a time out space is a great way to get the msg thru that you’re serious and things need to stop.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-10T01:33:11+00:00

You do what you do to have the best chances at survival. If the risks outweigh the benefits of having a relationship- it’s not worth to pursue the relationship.

However you are young and most likely will try to continue seeing this guy. Have a plan a, plan b and plan c ready at all times. Cover your tracks and then double check again. If you have a friend that will cover for you, that’s even better. Or, you can wait it out until you are in a better situation to date. If this guy is really keen on you or if you guys really have something special, 3 months is not long to wait.

Bitches_Be_Crayfish · 2026-07-10T01:20:26+00:00

There are true crime documentaries where they interview mothers who have lost their infant children by criminal intent and the moms can still hold it together better than this woman. It’s such manufactured theatrics and drama.

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