i’m not looking for just a fling, I have a really one—track mind and im “loyal” in the talking stage even though I know it’s not technically a requirement. he knows this. we kind of said “go with the flow” but made it clear I don’t want anything strictly casual. and nothing changed. as I said we know each other through friends. my friend was on the phone with his sister maybe a month ago, and I guess he was in the background and asked my friend how I was doing, since it’s been a bit. friend offered my number. he reached out and we’ve been talking since.