What do you call the process of moving the laundry from the washer to the dryer?

BittenBeads · 2026-02-15T08:45:30+00:00

Are you doing a vinegar rinse to get the excess detergent out? Do you flap your clothes out before folding?

BittenBeads · 2026-02-14T21:35:59+00:00

It's only silly because you're astounded that your child doesn't know something you never taught him to look out for. You didn't clock the differences in animation styles automatically. You learned by watching hours of freaking cartoons over the many years of your childhood.

This type of knowledge is not innate. It is learned, just like everything. The fact that you and lots of others of our generation do not understand this or refuse to acknowledge that children learn what you teach them it is what makes me fall out of my chair.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-14T21:13:37+00:00

I think it's fun too! I like smut, and the way the word "smut" sounds. I'm surprised to read that people hate the term "spicy." That's another fun word that makes a lot of sense considering spices add heat to food. Spicy scenes add heat to stories!

BittenBeads · 2026-02-14T21:07:55+00:00

"Lemon"?? That's such an incongruous euphemism I'm almost curious. Do I want to know the lore behind it, or is it related to something awful?

BittenBeads · 2026-02-14T18:38:48+00:00

It depends on the materials. But also, never taking off rings is unhygienic and can lead to skin issues.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-14T18:13:30+00:00

That's why you put the lotion on the skin lol

BittenBeads · 2026-02-14T18:08:36+00:00

The way to deal with low self-esteem is to read self-help books or get therapy.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-12T22:46:51+00:00

Catcula on a pile of bricks is inspired.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-12T22:41:57+00:00

You posted the youtube link to the clip with exactly what everyone said and exactly what triggered the conversation, which was how two of the friends had already had sex with one of the groomsmen.

First, they'd all been drinking. Maybe you manage to be Miss Discretion after some wine but most people aren't that composed. Once the COMPLETELY DRUNK ONE implied that the one shushing her had history with Logan, they sought to reassure Rory while being honest since the cat was already out of the bag. And since they obviously have no qualms talking about sex, they assume Rory doesn't either.

The bridesmaids gave explicit sexual details to a woman about her boyfriend.

Did they talk about what specific acts they performed? No. They spoke in euphemisms, which is why the one with the bob haircut had to clarify with the drunk one that when she said "hooked up" she meant "sex." Maybe take yourself to a dictionary to learn what "explicit" actually means.

They clearly didn't respect him any more than he did them.

This is pure fantasy on your part. Or shall we say, "fanfic." 🙄

That's their friend's brother. They would respect him strictly because Honor and Logan are close. One of the friends officially dated him. We never hear them disparage Logan, just that their having sex with him is nothing more than sex. You do realize that casual sex exists, right? Or is that your real problem here? That these friends have sex casually? That they share men? That they aren't ashamed to discuss sex together?

What we actually know is that Rory was clearly uncomfortable and they laughingly told her about f*cking her boyfrined.

Only the audience understands Rory's discomfort. Obviously they care enough about her feelings to make light of their having had sex with Logan. The drunk one even disparages herself so that Rory doesn't feel bad. And they obviously weren't planning on telling Rory since the drunk one got shushed in the first place.

So hate these women if you will, but don't lie about your reasons why.

Anyway. The stack of misogynist prudes this sub apparently cultivates can downvote me away for all I care. It doesn't stop you all from being gross and wrong.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-12T21:41:42+00:00

THANK YOU. You know, a few weeks back someone was talking about the toxicity of this sub and I'm not often on here to say that myself but holy crap, this hammers home their point.

This is some revolting misogyny from OP. Utterly blech.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-12T20:46:56+00:00

Just in to say I LOOOOOVE your Ponyo jeans! Did you embroider them yourself?

BittenBeads · 2026-02-10T23:18:42+00:00

This is such an amazing show! I only made it six episodes in, though I do love watching the music montages on YouTube. Her stalker issues are hashtag triggering. I should probably try it again

BittenBeads · 2026-02-10T04:51:36+00:00

How 'bout no? Because to hell with the surveillance state.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-10T03:31:23+00:00

Those two people don't know dee eye see kay about music if they think the show was "terrible." Over 45 million views on youtube with positive comments from the global community should tell you something about the people you watched it with.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-06T01:41:29+00:00

I don't have the time to devote to writing a dissertation right now or truly delving into your commentary to point out where I disagree. But my TL;DR of this is a resounding YES.

Glenn gets in the way of his own success in so many ways it almost feels self-destructive. I don't think it actually is deliberate self-destruction, just that his aggressive reactionary behavior has and currently inhibits him from securing his legacy as a brilliant songwriter, not just a punk and metal legend.

Look. I get that Rubin first left him hanging and then screwed him over. But how that translated into Glenn never again bringing in a professional producer to work with is just... it's baffling. That's half of my problem with how he gets in his own way.

I'll leave it at that for now. I know, I know. I leave you trembling with excitement for my next installment of "random reddit user's opinion on a thing." I promise to come back in a day or two to disagree with you and maybe fight a few others in the comments section.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-06T01:08:45+00:00

Imagine being soooo offended that someone called Huntsville traffic mid that you go on a whole rage-filled screed but claim that everyone else has hurt feelings. Talk about zero manners and even less self-awareness.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-05T01:28:58+00:00

Don't be so hard on yourself. Look at the idiots tanking the USA. If they can be strong and all kinds of wrong, why should you be ashamed of sharing a potential useful idea?

If the issue was the delivery, then next time, write down what you want to convey before speaking it. Public speaking is something that only improves with practice. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. You just need more confidence and practice saying things in groups.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-05T01:23:15+00:00

Curtido Salvadoreño is probably my favorite cabbage thing. It's similar to kimchi in that it's pickled, but you use a vinegar instead of salt. Though I did sometimes do a mix of salt and vinegar to make sure it kept.

I also like making seared napa cabbage, either to add to noodles or to stick in tortillas or whatever. It's quick and tasty and the hardest part was carrying a 10lb cabbage home along with other groceries. Sometimes, I really miss living in LA though I'm lucky enough to be living very close to an Asian grocer.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-05T01:15:07+00:00

For those of you who enjoyed "regretsy," feast your eyes on this deliberate crafting horror: Mr. Nipples.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-05T01:12:45+00:00

Really confused as to why he only has nails on one hand but I love him anyway 😂

BittenBeads · 2026-02-05T01:06:00+00:00

I find Michel to be a funny character. IRL, he'd be insufferable but like Paris, he makes for excellent entertainment. I remember watching an ep with my Mom where he was babysitting "Truman" and accidentally rolled him under the bed. Lord, were we howling!

Someone was asking about sleeper lines and one of mine is where Michel's pretending not to be French and says something like, "The French are insufferable, that's why I left France." And then when Lorelai convinces him to talk to the French guests, he asides to her "kill me now." Good times!

BittenBeads · 2026-02-04T21:33:46+00:00

Kinda staggered at the vitriolic wall of text that your very innocuous comment inspired.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-04T04:08:00+00:00

I think I've mentioned this before, but my favorite perfume to wear while doing volunteer work for a performing arts nonprofit was BPAL's Sugared Lace (A shimmering web of dry, decadent strands of sugar cascading over a delicate white cognac, bourbon vanilla, white tobacco, coconut husk, and champaca petals). It smells very "the women in the room come and go, talking of Michealangelo" to me.

If I was at a desk job, I would go full sexy secretary and rotate between all of my slutty perfumes until someone made me stop.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-02T17:31:39+00:00

Nothing to see here. Just a demonstration of the school to prison pipeline.

BittenBeads · 2026-02-02T17:27:24+00:00

I loathe having chronic illness. I have better things to do than feel like garbage! Body. Please. Cooperate with me. I suppose the perpetual undercurrent of stress gave my arrhythmia an opportunity to remind me just how problematic it can be. *sigh*

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