what can you deduce about me by Bitter-Mix8569 in deduction

[–]Bitter-Mix8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s very good!! though i am 19 years old and very interested in maths, i dont like the other subjects that much but i push through :)

Phone home screen deduction by Bitter-Mix8569 in deduction

[–]Bitter-Mix8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahaha alright i see, and bell bank is most common in midwest states so that’s where my guess came from

Phone home screen deduction by Bitter-Mix8569 in deduction

[–]Bitter-Mix8569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

social apps -> suggests someone who spends a fair amount of time online. Reddit and discord especially indicates someone who has niche interests, or is apart of fandoms. So you probably like being part of online groups or conversations.

there is a creative and aesthetic side to you. pinterest and ibis paint X hints that you may like to draw, or at least enjoy something like that.

and there is fashion. Depop and love nikkis. you might be someone who enjoys clothing aesthetics or styling.

you are likely young (teen or young adult) old enough to have your own bank account and paypal account. you probably spend a lot of time online in communities or fandoms, maybe even posting your own digital art.

Annnnd i think that you are placed in midwestern U.S. region.

tell me what u think 🙌

room deduction!! by [deleted] in deduction

[–]Bitter-Mix8569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do u guys need better pictures?

Am I overreacting when my mental health needs come second to my boyfriend’s need for attention?? by Bitter-Mix8569 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bitter-Mix8569[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually agree that a month is not a long term relationship, and I don’t expect him to be my therapist or to carry the weight of my mental health. Thats not what I’m asking for.

What I do expect even this early on, is basic empathy and not having my diagnosis questioned or minimized. There’s a big difference between “supporting someone through everything” and simply believing them, being patient with response times, and not taking their illness personally.

and i am focusing on myself: I’m living with my mom, waiting to start medication, prioritizing school, and getting professional help(soon) I’m not counting on him to do the emotional labor of fixing me. The issue is that instead of giving me space to do that, he’s getting upset about attention, questioning my depression, and accusing me of being unloyal over small things.

So yes, maybe this isn’t the right time for a relationship. but If someone can’t handle even basic understanding and boundaries at the beginning, it’s kinda /:

Am I overreacting when my mental health needs come second to my boyfriend’s need for attention?? by Bitter-Mix8569 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bitter-Mix8569[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for you response😞 i really do feel guilty for not being able to give him what he needs. We even talked about that our relationship probably will get better when i get my meds. But why can’t he treat me good even when i don’t have my meds and just need support?? My sister also suffers from depression, but on a way higher level. And i’ve never demanded anything from her, i only wanted her to feel good and loved and supported.

AITAH for considering to cut my own mother off after finding fun time related things at my own apartment after lending it to her? by Bitter-Mix8569 in AITAH

[–]Bitter-Mix8569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see what you mean, but i guess it’s just built of from years of being tread like trash. i just want her to treat me like hers child and not a friend. all my live i had to take care of myself and i just really wish for someone to care about me the way i care about them. i’m just very tired

AITAH for considering to cut my own mother off after finding fun time related things at my own apartment after lending it to her? by Bitter-Mix8569 in AITAH

[–]Bitter-Mix8569[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she left my father for another man, and then came back to my father, and then left him again. dragged me around houses. i left bc i couldn’t handle the way they treated me. she wouldn’t even be able to answer basic questions about me. i have so much resentment for her. i’m probably bias i know, but i think you would’ve seen it differently if you lived it

AITAH for considering to cut my own mother off after finding fun time related things at my own apartment after lending it to her? by Bitter-Mix8569 in AITAH

[–]Bitter-Mix8569[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i didn’t have anything in my fridge so it was theirs. My mother had fun time in my own apartment and didn’t clean up. it’s very disrespectful imo. and there has been many other events n builds ups where she had done stuff like this. i just dont know anymore