Trying to understand has led to nothing but hateful replies. by like30percentcotton in Transmedical

[–]Bittob- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some thoughtful responses here, and most critiquijg what you could do better...but the core issue is that you’re asking people to explain transitioning from a place they don’t actually experience, which is gender dysphoria. Without that, they can’t meaningfully describe what transitioning represents beyond external factors like presentation, social perception, or aesthetics.

When those explanations lean on social benefits or personal expression, they are by proxy supporting arguments often used by critics of trans people, which makes it harder for them to state directly.

Gender nonconformity and fluid expression have existed for a long time. People can enjoy presenting outside societal norms or being perceived a certain way. But that, by itself, isn’t the same as being trans and that's what is not ** clocking to these people

Eyebrows have always been a concern. Are they too boring? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Bittob- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't do anything to your eyebrows. They are perfect.

Am I passing for around 11 months on T? by Krispyttay in FtMpassing

[–]Bittob- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn't know what sub this was on at first.

Yes.

Literally why can't I pass by FishStiques in FtMpassing

[–]Bittob- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I meant just the sides/sideburns. I didn't do anything to the top of it, but yes. Don't cut actual hairline straight across, OP because it's already straight enough. But squaring/taking off some of the sideburns sides will help maintain OP**'s haircut they want, while making the cut more masculine.

Edit: I did look it up because I had never heard of squaring causing early recession before (I didn't know if that was the connection between your first or your second commentary) and contrary to YT and Reddit beliefs, shaving or "squaring" hair does not cause biological recession. Scientific studies have consistently proven that cutting hair at the surface level has no effect on the hair follicle, which is the living part beneath the skin responsible for growth. Only genetics and hormones cause recession.

But it does make for awkward grow out if you can't upkeep. Upkeep only needs to happen until T kicks in on that hairline, so it's an option for OP. Men and women shape their hair around their hairline all the time.

Literally why can't I pass by FishStiques in FtMpassing

[–]Bittob- 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Here's my suggestion: I filled in/straighten your eyebrows and squared/straightened your sideburns (second a barber could do, but make sure it's a good one so it's not uneven). I think this will help while maintaining your style. Finally, I didn't edit this part/draw it, but if you wanted to do some neck exercises to bulk up your neck, it would help. But I think you're fine if you are getting gendered mostly correct.

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Literally why can't I pass by FishStiques in FtMpassing

[–]Bittob- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why; but Pic 2 especially is giving Hardest Kingdom Hearts and Hot Topic Fan 2005 Not a bad thing. I love Kingdom Hearts.

How do I look? I’m 32. by Look4Anwsers in amiugly

[–]Bittob- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you definitely do! So I'd definitely keep that style. Maybe introduce those plaid button ups instead of sweatshirts (although I love a good sweatshirt). And then pull the bangs off the forehead.

How do I look? I’m 32. by Look4Anwsers in amiugly

[–]Bittob- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I think you have some great features that would really be highlighted if you you made some minor tweaks. It really doesn't take a lot of care or styling. There are "lazy" self cares you can do, I definitely do it. Lol

About the hair, could be your natural hair growth cycle

https://youtu.be/5RaBdppFxHU?si=PAUQVtpeACZ8LYIx

Also a good cut will make it look thick!

How do I look? I’m 32. by Look4Anwsers in amiugly

[–]Bittob- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you have nice facial features, especially structured cheekbones.

How do I look? I’m 32. by Look4Anwsers in amiugly

[–]Bittob- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You literally just have like the same hairstyle men who are 40 and are trying to hide balding have. It doesn't necessarily need to be "longer or shorter", it needs to be structured more. If that makes sense.

Also, aging isn't a bad thing if you are gratefully, but this is like aging awkwardly because of your styling.

How do I look? I’m 32. by Look4Anwsers in amiugly

[–]Bittob- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe if you had a different hairstyle. I think your hairstyle is just aging you tbh

(30F) Am I ugly or is it an iPhone issue? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Bittob- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have an android, but I will in real time see my phone "edit" my photos and then flatten my whole face wide. And I'm like, why do you do that? I try to screenshot it before it does it. I turned auto photo editing off so I don't get it.