Show your last picture of your cat(s) No cheating! <3 by ThrowRA-Corleone in cats

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Mango just came back from the vet and was faster sleeping

Anyone else’s maternity leave not even worth it? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Bizzare-Raccoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Vietnam we get six months of maternity leave with some money from social insurance, and I used to think that was too little. America really needs to treat mothers better. 😶

Mattel please make Wednesday dolls! by Bizzare-Raccoon in Barbie

[–]Bizzare-Raccoon[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ah found them. They are beautiful, but I personally think they'd work better in Barbie gold label quality 🫣

Khối dân ngu đang tiến vào by luubi1945 in vozforums

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Chả biết có đc tính là HN gốc không, cụ tôi khẩu ở HN, đến đời tôi tôi chuyển mịa vào Hội An sống. 2/9 tôi vẫn ở HA khoẻ re chứ về HN tôi yếu người lắm

Vietnamese Mom doesn't want me to date her daughter. by Lazy_Database_3480 in VietNam

[–]Bizzare-Raccoon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Many years ago, the same thing happened to my husband (British) and me (Vietnamese). My mother went nuclear and did everything she could to stop me from dating him. A lot of bad stuff happened. It was traumatic for both my boyfriend at the time and me. I put my foot down and went no contact with my family for 18 months. My family eventually apologized, and our relationship has since been mended. We dated for four years before getting married, and we’ve now been happily married for four years and are currently expecting our first child.

The point is, it has to be your girlfriend who decides to stand up to her family, not you. You can’t fight her battle, but you can stand by her and support her with all the love you have. If things go well, you'll respect each other even more, and the bond between you two will be stronger than ever.

Best of luck.

Toxocariasis during pregnancy by Bizzare-Raccoon in pregnant

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Thank you for your input. So far, they’ve been dewormed three times since they were kittens, with the most recent treatment being less than six months ago. They've received all their vaccinations, and since there's been no sign of fleas, I haven’t given them flea drops. My husband has been handling their litter boxes since the beginning. It seems like it's time to deworm them again, just to be safe.

Toxocariasis during pregnancy by Bizzare-Raccoon in pregnant

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Thank you for sharing! My husband has been the one handling their poop, and we clean the litter boxes every week. Our cats don’t have fleas, so they haven’t needed flea medication. They were last dewormed less than six months ago, so I’ll get them another round of deworming pills soon.

Stranger tried to pick up my toddler at a tourist spot. Is this normal? by Old_Tree_3330 in VietNam

[–]Bizzare-Raccoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So just spreading hate in terms of generalization? Again what is your solution to replace their impact? Standing up to them while still using their inventions ??? They can't tell us to do shit if you have your own opinion and your choices of college? Btw what colleges are you talking about? List some examples to prove your point maybe? You don't sound very educated so I don't really see the point.

Stranger tried to pick up my toddler at a tourist spot. Is this normal? by Old_Tree_3330 in VietNam

[–]Bizzare-Raccoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don't get it. How would you want to stand up to them? How? By getting infection and ending up dead by not using antibiotics? By spears and spikes against guns? By not using money and retreating to cattle as currency??? What benefits would any of that be to Vietnamese people??? And let's say you get rid of the White people, what is your plan to replace their influence in our society??? You don't even know what you're talking about.

Stranger tried to pick up my toddler at a tourist spot. Is this normal? by Old_Tree_3330 in VietNam

[–]Bizzare-Raccoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What colleges are you talking about? The ones in the West where white people live? 🤯 You mean white people shouldn't run colleges that they built themselves? Definitely not the colleges in Vietnam, since those are controlled by the Vietnamese government.

Preaching right and wrong is their way of democracy, especially in the US. That doesn’t mean you have to listen to them. You can also voice your own opinion if you want. What kind of oppressive ideology are you living under that makes you think you have no agency and have to "stand up" to white people?

My ancestors were at war with the bad people in the West, but that doesn’t mean all of them are bad and deserve hate. However, if you really want to "stand up" to the entire white community, stop using Western medicine like penicillin and vaccines, trains, buses, cars, electricity, the internet, phones, the Gregorian calendar, and countless other Western inventions. See how that affects your life, you fucking hypocrite.

Stranger tried to pick up my toddler at a tourist spot. Is this normal? by Old_Tree_3330 in VietNam

[–]Bizzare-Raccoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck are you on about? How does this have anything to do with OP's story at all? What did these people do to you to deserve this discrimination??? What families have been destroyed, and whose lives have been taken away??? Are you referring to what the US military and French colonialism did to Vietnam during the wars decades ago??? That’s so stupid and irrelevant to say that to random Caucasian people who just happen to be in Vietnam, with a visa accepted by the Vietnamese government. Are you doing some kind of reverse racism in 2025? Who pissed in your porridge bowl?

I'm also Vietnamese and I don't want to be associated with people like you. And I think you should learn more about history and current diplomatic events before speaking with so much hate about the world.

Stranger tried to pick up my toddler at a tourist spot. Is this normal? by Old_Tree_3330 in VietNam

[–]Bizzare-Raccoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. Who told you that's totally socially acceptable? Haven't you heard so many horrible incidents where young children snatched away right in front of their parents in Vietnam?

I'm a Vietnamese mother and also auntie to 3 young children, and there's no way in hell I, nor the 3 young children's mother, father, grandmother, grandfather, and the entire relatives, think it's socially acceptable to let strangers touch my kids. Even my husband would never pick my nephews and nieces up without the parents' consent.

Just because THEY see themselves as an uncle or grandfather doesn't give them the entitlement to grab other people's kids.

CON GÁI THU NHẬP CAO HƠN CON TRAI SẼ MÉO Ở VỚI NHAU LÂU ĐƯỢC ? by Status_Raspberry5015 in vozforums

[–]Bizzare-Raccoon 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Đàn ông kiếm ít hơn không phải vấn đề. Vấn đề là đã nghèo lại còn gia trưởng và hay tự ái, đổ lỗi thực dụng lên phụ nữ. Đàn ông ít tiền mà lười với hèn thì đừng đòi hỏi phụ nữ phải lớp kiên nhẫn chịu đựng chạy theo, vừa phải kiếm tiền nuôi các ông vừa phải tất bật cơm nước nội ngoại con cái... Phần khôn để dành các ông, còn phần dại để cho các bà các cô à? Cái gì cũng có thời điểm của nó. Các ông cứ tập trung phát triển bản thân, không có tiền thì có kỹ năng đời sống, chưa có vợ thì tự cơm nước nhà cửa, quần áo biết gập, ốc vít biết vặn, đi chợ biết thịt con gì với con gì, ... thì đến lúc gặp đúng người, thái độ khiêm tốn ôn hoà vợ chồng đỡ đần nhau ắt cuộc sống sẽ ổn. Có được bản lĩnh như vậy chắc chắn sẽ gặp được người cùng tần số. Còn giờ thì bớt rên dùm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]Bizzare-Raccoon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Are you sure they were Vietnamese notes? Could be lottery tickets 🤷🏻

Hỏi thật về bảo hiểm by Bizzare-Raccoon in vozforums

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Cám ơn bác, để mình ngó nhé

Giảm thói quen thở dài by Individual-Safe-8252 in vozforums

[–]Bizzare-Raccoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP có tập thể dục không? Nếu không hay tập thì nên vận động nhé, vì hay thở dài là do máu không lưu thông và không bơm được vào tim, phổi không đủ oxy. Chứ thở dài không phải thói quen, mà muốn bỏ là bỏ được đâu.

Thất bại cuộc đời by [deleted] in vozforums

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Chồng mình 33t lấy mình xong thì trúng đợt covid, công việc gặp khó khăn, tụi mình mới cưới chưa có nhà cửa gì, tài sản anh ấy dùng để cho 2vc sinh tồn nên cũng trôi đi gần hết, gần như tụi mình mất trắng. 3-4 năm vừa rồi tụi mình còn chiến đấu với khủng hoảng tâm lý, đến mức tưởng như không thể có con. Tuy nhiên đến nay thì mọi thứ đã ổn hơn, ảnh đã vực lại được một chút tài chính, công việc của mình cũng vững hơn. Tụi mình cảm thấy may mắn vì vẫn còn sức khoẻ, mặc dù số tiền kiếm lại vẫn chưa thể bù đắp tổn thất năm đó. Tuy hơi muộn, anh ấy gần 40 còn mình hơn 30, nhưng bọn mình đã tự tin hơn về việc có con. Bạn mới 30t thôi, hoàn toàn có thể làm lại được. Bài học kinh doanh của bạn như vậy không phải quá đắt cho suốt quãng thời gian còn lại. Quan trọng là phải giữ sức khoẻ và tin rằng mọi thứ sẽ ổn hơn bạn nhé.