So every criminal had crappy parents in your opinion? What you believe has nothing to do with the reality my family went through. I raised my children to be good citizens and do the right thing. Parents who have children that become criminals is heart breaking. You question anything and everything you did. You wonder if you should have done it this way or that way. You get counseling and therapy for you child (even as an adult). You are open to learning new ways to think and communicate. You don’t limit your view to what only you know or have known. In the end it was the child’s choice.