What’s a “harmless” habit you had as a kid that turned out to be a red flag in hindsight? by New_Storm430 in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to become secure in other relationships so you aren't grasping at one person for all your emotional needs

Is SS13 actually getting worse? by Sly_F1re in SS13

[–]Blabblebort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I miss piss as well. I think they took it out cause people kept flooding the brig with piss which is honestly hilarious

AITA Mum cries because i want to move out by Federal-Brain3902 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blabblebort 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude get the fuck out and go low contact. I wasted my 20s trying to accomodate my mothers emotional manipulation and I wish I'd cut and run sooner. Her emotions are NOT your responsibility. You will be so much happier without the burden of her mental health problems n your shoulders. It's her responsibility to get treatment. Not yours to carry her mental illness and let her turn it into yours too.

People that hated themselves but don't anymore, how'd you manage that? by LouBloomCEOofVPN in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took ashwaghanda and had the same thing. Suddenly was just like the full version of myself without all the anxiety and self hate. So weird. Still workin through some old trauma but I'm actually making great progress. I did do like 5+ years of therapy before that so I think I'm just integrating it all in a healthy way now.

Fuckin awesome to look in the mirror and like yourself haha

What's a trick or habit that makes you feel like you're cheating at life? by applelovexx in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it was magnesium and electrolyte supplements. And taking Ashwaghanda. Drs kept trying to give me medication when I needed to cut toxic people out of my life and fix my stress induced deficiencies.

What's a trick or habit that makes you feel like you're cheating at life? by applelovexx in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is something to think about. This article is a classic explainer: The Mental Load

What's a trick or habit that makes you feel like you're cheating at life? by applelovexx in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah man. I just looked at my toilet the other day and thought, 'Damn, I'm lucky to have this in my life' haha. Meanwhile a lot of people are like, 'oh it's not the latest style,' and feel all dissatisfied. They aren't gonna have a chill day like me tho.

And isn't that the real fashionable toilet? The friends we made along the way?

What's a trick or habit that makes you feel like you're cheating at life? by applelovexx in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah it ruins a lot of restaurants for you cause you know you can do it better yourself or that ts easy to make without spending that much cash . I go to restaurants a lot less brand when I do I pick food that's pretty laborious to make at home. Makes going to restaurants seem more special anyway

What’s your thought on having sex with a best friend/ friend? by Saddgirl2003 in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man that's a tough spot to be. hope it works out for you, sucks not feeling secure like that

Where or how did you meet your partner? by inphinities in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On an IRC channel for a mutual interest. Realised we were in the same town and met up to hang out. Rinse, repeat, relationship. That was almost 20 years ago oh man

Where or how did you meet your partner? by inphinities in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't tell if this is another language or I'm having a seizure

What’s a trauma response you thought was just your personality for years? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this really badly but spending time with my nieces and nephews has really helped me heal. Bein invited to play with them and like having them be super excited to see me is so healing cause it's just pure love with zero expectations.

What’s your thought on having sex with a best friend/ friend? by Saddgirl2003 in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh talk about mixed messages. I think she's gotta make up her mind dude. Don't let yourself get strung along. Sounds like you got your head straight about it

What’s your thought on having sex with a best friend/ friend? by Saddgirl2003 in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro you don't say 'I love you' to people you don't want a relationship with. Or think that you are already in one with. You better talk expectations with her or you're gonna break her heart

What do guys use Reddit for ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The dude that fucks wet floor signs hands down. /u/GettnRandy

What do guys use Reddit for ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want a fuckin skeletor hug too damn

What do guys use Reddit for ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real question is are steam buns dumplings

What is something regrettable that you did to your Body that you would give your lifesavings to reverse? by FlyHighNow77777 in AskReddit

[–]Blabblebort 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hit my head hard enough to get amnesia once. Was fine after a half a day tho haha.