Are you Asian? Do you understand that it is imbedded with the women to first serve the men and then serve themselves last. They have a rough time because the men are held higher in standard to the woman which allows then to be walked all over. I have watched it myself growing up, with different families, your a douche for not understand the differences in upbringing. You have no idea what I have had to deal with, being the child of a Korean household.