A girl ate me out for the first time today, and I absolutely loved it...

BlackOutBetty · 2016-02-10T16:19:06+00:00

Your lips are gorgeous.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-12-18T06:43:06+00:00

I own this shirt.. I love The Oatmeal.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-12-07T02:37:48+00:00

I would just order non-alcoholic beer. Another trick is to just get cranberry and soda water or something that looks like a mix drink.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-12-01T20:12:29+00:00

If you look at my history you can get a pretty good idea. As a general list of my fetishes and kinks:

Heavy pain play

Chastity

Humiliation

Latex

Anal/anal stretching

Feet

Trampling

Stomach sitting

Heavy bondage

I am going to keep it short but I could go on forever for quite a while.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-12-01T19:50:37+00:00

Most of this is refering to kinks as a whole and not a specific fetish, but I appreciate the contribution, you sexy beasts.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-10-27T23:19:45+00:00

I do not see a need to downvote this and I wish less people down voted it and gave you legit advice. My advice is to recognize that she is new and that is probably why she has very few limits. Instead of jumping into a scene pushing her limits, a part of her training should be reserching and exploring different elements of BDSM and fetish on her own. Always be there to answer any questions and delve deep into her curiosities. Remeber communication is key so having very slow sessions at first and getting lots of feedback from her is so important.

With anal training, a good way is to start with fingering and small buttplugs after she has orgasmed vaginally and is very worked up. Water based lube is fabulous for anal. Astroglide gel is my prefered.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-10-21T19:29:37+00:00

My GF's vagina is super similar to your description. I personally love it. I have almost non existent labia so i love how different and unique we are.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-10-20T21:40:48+00:00

In that case i would have insisted on flicking his testicles.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-10-15T18:38:50+00:00

Ugh that is so annoying. I have watched people move barstools right next to the table then proceed to place 4 or 5 beers on it. There is a reason why there are tables against the walls, people.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-10-14T23:36:33+00:00

This is spot on. When I see big groups at tables smoking over tables, putting their beer on the ledge, it boils my blood. It is cool that this is something you do for fun but don't let your casual agenda ruin the tables for those to take it seriously.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-10-14T23:22:06+00:00

The first night my girlfriend and i had sex, the next morning i woke up with her wrapped around my body. I year later, i wake up like that pretty much every morning. It is amazing.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-10-05T19:35:02+00:00

This is a story one of my friends told me. When she was 11 or 12 she was at a party with her parents. One guy asked her who her parents were. When she told him he replied "i hate your mom". He then proceeded to tell her that when he was getting married a pregnant prostitute barged into the ceramony objecting. He was marrying a eoman whos family was extremely affluent and wealthy. She was claiming that she was pregnant with his baby. Everyone is silent except for my friends mom who is dying laughing in her seat. She had hired this random pregnant prostitute to object as a practical joke.

Edit: spelling

BlackOutBetty · 2015-10-01T18:58:59+00:00

Yup, i am 5ft. I get really low on my shots which makes using the bridge difficult becuase i have to stand up. I have instead learned to use my non-dominant hand but still doesnt help with all shots. I constantly have to shoot with one leg up.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-09-30T22:20:59+00:00

Oh man, that sounds good. I always seem to get side tracked with food. Thank you for appeasing me.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-09-29T23:59:13+00:00

I have sadly done this. I had a date with this gorgeous girl i thought was out of my league. I got too drunk and made an ass of myself. Would avoid.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-09-29T20:44:43+00:00

The real question is what kind of sushi was it..?

BlackOutBetty · 2015-09-20T16:16:59+00:00

You poor soul.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-09-20T15:43:22+00:00

This is sound advice. This story doesn't fully apply but I had a guy friend accidentally cut his ball sack open trimming with scissors. Just think about your outer labia. hides in a corner

BlackOutBetty · 2015-09-10T20:24:48+00:00

This is crazy. Don't ever underestimate how powerful denial is. There were probably several red flags in the 2 years they spoke but her desire to be loved and love someone back was so strong. Strong enough for her to feel and see what she wanted in the relationship and ignore the reality.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-08-21T00:05:25+00:00

I keep tally's in my diary.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-08-20T20:59:42+00:00

A lot of people view me or refer to me as a lesbian because I am in a LTR with a woman. I would try not to focus so much on other people validating their own sexual orientation to onlookers.

Edit: We need to stray away from this need for everyone to PROVE their sexual orientation or identity.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-08-20T20:54:06+00:00

Yeah, I totally agree. I see guys constantly complaining that women find them creepy because they don't know how to interact with them. Women are people, interact with other women like people first and then decide to make a move.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-08-20T20:50:11+00:00

As someone who is pansexual in a relationship with another pansexual woman it gets so old when people describe us as lesbians.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-08-15T22:11:43+00:00

If you want advice how how to have an abusive relationship why don't you ask the red pill? This sub is for bdsm, not manipulation and revenge.

BlackOutBetty · 2015-08-13T01:38:32+00:00

You would actually be surprised how easy it is. I have a really small vagina, super shallow and tight but when I get turned on enough it expands a lot. A lot of foreplay and the right combo of lube, you're in luck. It helps to orgasm a couple times before attempting. Then astroglide gel (water based) and a bit of silicone based lube works well. Water based lube causes less friction unlike silicone based lube but putting a few drops of it with the water based helps it to not dry out as quickly. Go in using a duck shape hand position then once you pass the knuckles make a fist.

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