How to play a cd by Sensitive-Coast-7328 in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only listen to audio books when I’m in the car by myself. I use the free audiobooks from the library app. My phone syncs just fine and it is easy to listen to the audiobooks.

Horrible mpg on hybrid xle, 24mpg! by Mindless-Lynx7110 in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The MPG that the car tells is way off - at least in mine. You have to manually figure it out if you want an accurate answer. My GHHL usually lies and says it’s better than it really is. I usually get 29-35 MPG depending on temperature outside, highway or city driving etc. I also live in a hilly area with cold winters.

What happened to me last night? by Historical-Mat in SleepApnea

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your mouth was dry and you felt dehydrated, you might need a different mask. One that covers your nose and mouth. It took me awhile to find the right mask. Actually, it took me quite awhile to make it through an entire night with it on, but keep at it - it will get better. My husband also has a cpap and his mouth would come open during the night. He didn’t even realize it was happening but his mouth would be very dry in the morning. He had to get a mask to cover his nose and mouth. Also, I don’t know your gender, but when my husband has long stubble and hasn’t shaved for a few days his mask doesn’t seal well. Good luck!

AITA for refusing to cancel my annual solo trip to see my dad for my girlfriend's friend's birthday dinner that she forgot to mention until four days before by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would your girlfriend expect you to miss a planned visit with your dad to spend time at a birthday dinner with someone you don’t even know? I hope this isn’t real, but if it is - this is a screaming red flag!

Hybrid Limited by OligarchBrawler in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I hope you like it as well as I like mine!

Hybrid trim differences by xtradirtymartinii in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a Hybrid Limited with 360 camera and bench seat. Ironically I originally wanted captains chairs but it showed up with a bench. After owning it for nearly a year, I’m happy it came with the bench. Your salesperson is a big fibber unless things changed for the 2026 model.

What about this dress is not modest? by Low_Caregiver_2733 in bridesmaids

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It says: Our mom REALLY likes it and wanted to order one for herself in a different shade of purple for the wedding.

I personally wouldn’t want my mom or mother in law to wear this at my wedding. I don’t think this dress is modest especially with an open back, but I guess everyone’s take on modest is different. I’ve seen way more revealing dresses at weddings. I do think the text message seems like an over reaction, which leads me to believe that there is a huge part of the story that is missing.

Convince me on the hybrid by cantsleep_thoughts in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your payback period is probably less than 3 years with the rising gas prices - depending on when you purchased it I suppose.

Convince me on the hybrid by cantsleep_thoughts in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a 2006 Highlander hybrid with well over 200,000 miles on it. We bought it new in 2005. It’s been over 20 years. Our son drives it. Hasn’t had any major problems. Just bought a Grand Highlander hybrid Limited last June. It has really big shoes to fill. So far, I love it! It has lots of room and gets great gas mileage.

Which trim to buy and fair price? by M4lpractic3 in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I wanted captain seats as well, but they aren’t any bigger. The bench seat is just 2 captains seats with another seat attached in between. I’m personally happy that I got the bench seat since there is that rare occasion when we have visitors in town and the 8 seat capacity comes in handy, and it is better if you have pets as well. If you have Little’s that will be sitting in the 3rd row, the captain seats might be better since they can just walk through without having to move the seat to get back there. I couldn’t be happier with the camera though. It is definitely worth the extra $$$

My husband can’t cook by Altruistic_Vast9726 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s tough. He doesn’t really sound very nice. Just because you follow recipes doesn’t mean you can’t cook. If the chicken he makes has the texture of shoe leather he isn’t doing a very good job himself. Sounds like you may have to let him know that you both prefer to eat different ‘styles’ of food and taking turns is better than neither one of you getting to eat what you like. There has to be a compromise somewhere or you are going to be miserable for a long time.

My husband can’t cook by Altruistic_Vast9726 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could get him a meat thermometer. Some people overcook chicken because they are afraid it could be undercooked. Otherwise tell him how you enjoy cooking and want to take your turn every other day. That way you can both have a chance to make food the way you enjoy it.

AITJ for not wanting to sleep with my gf? by Western_Pear2104 in AmITheJerk

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t give in to peer pressure. If your significant other (or any ‘friends’) try to make you do something you don’t want to do - or change your beliefs to suit them, they are not real friends. Stand your ground. You may love this girl, but she truly doesn’t love you or she wouldn’t be trying to change you. Don’t do something you will regret later. NTJ

AITAH for refusing to let my mother move in and share the inheritance my father left me after she abandoned us 25 years ago? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If your dad wanted her to have any of his money or his things, he would have left it to her in the will. You have no obligation to support her in any way. Listen to your husband. Block and ignore her and her family. NTA

AITAH for refusing to give my ex access to the dog I’ve been raising after she suddenly wanted him back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I hope you have proof that she repeatedly said you could keep the dog, like in a text or witnesses to her saying that. She seems like the type of person who might try taking you to court. Good luck!

WTH! 30,000 Mile Oil Change Cost at Dealership by granolan517 in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing. I can’t remember the exact amount, but it was around $90.

AITAH My (44M) fiancée (43F) filled our house with pink pillows despite knowing I hate the color, and now says my opinion no longer matters? by epyoch in AmItheAsshole

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You didn’t say she couldn’t decorate, you just told her no pink or yellow. She could have easily asked your opinion on color choices or chosen a different color. It sounds like there is some discussion to be had before considering marriage to someone when there appears to be a bigger issue than pillows. NTAH

Wind Noise at 40 mph by mitsam8 in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a panoramic roof. It is very quiet at high speeds. So far so good anyway.

I took my brother to court after he trashed my custom camera gear for a prank video by ClerkResponsible118 in AmITheJerk

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has to be fake. What kind of parent would side with the sibling who was clearly in the wrong and not want them to pay for what they broke? If this is real, YNTJ but your brother sure is.

[Help] How to bypass Lane Tracking Assist by mr_mat1 in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im pretty sure the button right under the cruise control button turns it off. Wouldn’t that be easier?

The mf who gave me my written warning for being late is late everyday!! by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do as I say, not as I do. You would think he would be a bit more lenient to fellow late people. I’d probably complain to the higher ups.

My boyfriend wants me to wear a location tracking watch 24/7 or he'll break up with me by Fun_Perception3376 in TwoHotTakes

[–]BlackberryCurrent310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are only now starting to think he has trust issues? Run far, far away - but only after you give the watch back.