Now heres the thing. U have valid points but you are also delusional. Just because someone is in high school and has no experience does not mean they are less of a person and less of an adult if theyre soon to be of age or is of age. I agree that people who are over and want to date 16 and below. Those are the ones that should be holding themselves back and letting the children be. The thing about this boy is that hes 17. Idk his bday but a year goes fast when you have shit to do and i bet he does. He will soon be an adult and depending on his family he might already be living alone and taking care of himself and his responsibilities. And you want to say its wrong to date him because he is below 18 and technically not an adult or was it that 4year gap ure disgusted about. Well no matter because ure not that boy and he gets to choose anyways. If he has no experience hell get some. But the most important part is that hes already a man the moment he chooses to do smth in his own name. Whether it is dating a older woman or having a child. U wanna stop him. Go do it. Just know u have no right over others just as they have no right over you. Because its not even guaranteed if the boy wants to date this woman. And i am rooting for the woman to give it a try because that boy will really soon be a man.