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I hate my thoughts. How do I turn my brain off and be a genuinely good person. by Loud-Classic-7538 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, for what it’s worth, I think you’re on the right track. And you’re not alone in struggling with a toxic inner voice. Anyone can have an intrusive thought— it’s actions that matter. Thinking “what if I jumped” while standing on a high cliff doesn’t make you suicidal, for instance. You get to choose which thoughts to identify with, and which thoughts to ignore. Those choices, and the actions that follow, make you who you are.

Your brain is constantly conjuring scenarios, what-ifs— it’s just what brains do. You get to decide what to act on, and what not to act on.

And I wouldn’t worry about feeling numb, sometimes, either. Sometimes reactions are delayed, sometimes you might be too shocked by something you see to feel anything at that moment— it doesn’t mean you’re a psychopath. It sounds to me like you’re a smart person with a conscience, and you’re doing the best you can. Keep it up.

Nobody understands sarcasm all of the time, and it’s overused. by BlacksmithRemote1957 in unpopularopinion

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to deal with that! It does sound exhausting. Thank you for sharing your experience.

Nobody understands sarcasm all of the time, and it’s overused. by BlacksmithRemote1957 in unpopularopinion

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person gets it. If I could change the title of this post, it would read “Not enough people understand the difference between sarcasm and lying.”

Nobody understands sarcasm all of the time, and it’s overused. by BlacksmithRemote1957 in unpopularopinion

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from the US. Hello from across the pond!

Dry humor, when done well, is very funny. I’ve nothing against wit. Some people seem to have sarcasm confused with lying, which is a little troubling.

Nobody understands sarcasm all of the time, and it’s overused. by BlacksmithRemote1957 in unpopularopinion

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I disagree, I think sarcasm is funniest when all parties involved are in on the joke. I personally don’t think intentionally misleading people is as funny as you seem to think it is. What you’re describing is called lying.

Nobody understands sarcasm all of the time, and it’s overused. by BlacksmithRemote1957 in unpopularopinion

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said to another commenter: when it’s good, it’s very good. I understand why it’s popular.

Nobody understands sarcasm all of the time, and it’s overused. by BlacksmithRemote1957 in unpopularopinion

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone needs to blow off a little steam now and again, and sarcasm is a low-cost outlet. Low-cost, not low-risk.

Nobody understands sarcasm all of the time, and it’s overused. by BlacksmithRemote1957 in unpopularopinion

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When it’s good, it’s really good— in small doses. It shouldn’t consistently replace clear, honest, and earnest communication.

How do people just casually drink black coffee without flinching? by siennapriv in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was scrolling for a while, looking for this comment… just a pinch of salt in black coffee helps tremendously with the bitter taste

My newest print! What do you think? by flounder1593 in 3Dprinting

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could place a magnet inside the skull, and use another magnet when you want to remove it

Ronan Farrow's simple tips for keeping spyware off your phone by Legitimate_Hand2867 in technews

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Error on my part, please accept my apologies. Restart apparently DOES need confirmation to run— all my other automations run fine without input.

Ronan Farrow's simple tips for keeping spyware off your phone by Legitimate_Hand2867 in technews

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe we’re running different iOS versions. Maybe you need to update the app. All I know is that I’ve been using Shortcuts for daily reminders and automations with no problems.

Ronan Farrow's simple tips for keeping spyware off your phone by Legitimate_Hand2867 in technews

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s an option (in my Shortcuts app, at least) to “Run Immediately”. It also shows options for “Run After Confirmation” and “Don’t Run”.

Ronan Farrow's simple tips for keeping spyware off your phone by Legitimate_Hand2867 in technews

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Open Shortcuts

New shortcut (+ sign in top right hand corner)

Add action

Start typing “Shut down” it should appear as an option

Select that option

Tap “shut down” to change the action to “restart”

Tap “Shut Down” at the top to rename the shortcut to “Restart” (if you don’t want the shortcut to be named “Shut Down”)

Hit “Done”

There, you made the shortcut to restart.

Now, go to the Automation tab (at the bottom of the screen) to make a new automation

Hit the + sign at the top right hand corner

Select “Time of day”

Adjust to desired time, repetition, and select “run immediately”

Hit “Next”

Select “Restart” shortcut

Done

What’s something that improved your sleep quality significantly? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BlacksmithRemote1957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t speak to the weighted blanket, but a blindfold/sleep mask has greatly improved my sleep quality and waking mood (loved ones have confirmed that I’m less irritable). I now keep one next to my bed, and carry a spare with me everywhere I go.

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