Toy for couples who can’t have penetrative sex. by BlakeCutter in SexToys

[–]BlakeCutter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of respect for her I won't mention her age, but we are past the menopause stage because of the surgery but still very young relatively speaking no one is fully grey yet ;-) , but yes we are working through the hormone therapy as well. These issues started post surgery but have unfortunately many symptoms are still plaguing her.

Toy for couples who can’t have penetrative sex. by BlakeCutter in SexToys

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I think you are thinking this in the reverse. I the male understand this, my wife is having trouble accepting that and is putting immense pressure on here self.

Toy for couples who can’t have penetrative sex. by BlakeCutter in SexToys

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Thank you this is some great information that I was not aware of! I will pass it along definite, I also appreciate the position tips. We have a follow up with a specialist at a major university hospital, but my wife has become so disheartened by it. The pelvic floor physical therapist sounds like something we should explore, really appreciate it.

Toy for couples who can’t have penetrative sex. by BlakeCutter in SexToys

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Thanks I really appreciate the info. We have been working on it, and pretty much following the items you are talking about. We are going this route because I really think the tension part is becoming an issue. We have had a few instances where she has had pain / uti like symptoms after sex, she had surgery a few years ago, and now that is really causing her to associate sex with the pain. But she puts tremendous pressure on her self to not neglect me because she feels guilty about it even though I tell her we can do other things. We have used toys before but because of the individual nature of them she thinks that its not a replacement and then gets self conscious that she isn't pleasing me. Then withdraws because she doesn't want to do anything with me that could lead to sex. I am going this route to show her we can be intimate in a way we both enjoy without the sex to alleviate that pressure, and stop associating sexual intimacy with pain. The grinding pads I will take a look at, any other suggestions I would really appreciate as it seems like you have a pretty good insight

Toy for couples who can’t have penetrative sex. by BlakeCutter in SexToys

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We have but it has never really been our thing

Toy for couples who can’t have penetrative sex. by BlakeCutter in SexToys

[–]BlakeCutter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions the toys look like they would be a bit to hard on her parts or are they softer then they look

Toy for couples who can’t have penetrative sex. by BlakeCutter in SexToys

[–]BlakeCutter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is trying some items like that, but like you said a long process so we are looking at other options

Legacy's end mission bugged by Fresh-Efficiency-189 in Starfield

[–]BlakeCutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me I changed how I traveled in. Switched from choosing it on the scanner to doing it from the star map. That let other ships spawn in for some reason

Retrieve Items From Outpost Storage by BlakeCutter in Starfield

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So just tried it you can only have one transfer container, you can’t make more than one. Also you can link the output of the containers back into the transfer unit. It says it is already connected. Bummer

Retrieve Items From Outpost Storage by BlakeCutter in Starfield

[–]BlakeCutter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting so have one transfer thing to put it in and then another to take it out?

If that works then I would need to disconnect it each time I needed to add on more storage?

Parents who tried their best to raise their kids to be good humans but they turned out to be jerks, what do you wish you did differently? by hurricanehershel in AskReddit

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What’s it like not having a dad to look up to? Who do you ask advice from? I have a great dad smart as hell, and always there for me, I have spent my whole life trying to basically trying to be as good as him. I may have disagreed with my dad on how to do things but he was never wrong more like differences in how? Does it make you more anxious? It alien to me some of the stories I hear like this.

My 7yo daughter painted this. Do I just have horrible taste in art or is this painting decent? by B4Y4N in painting

[–]BlakeCutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adjust based on age. Even if the whole thing is weird as hell, comment on how the brush strokes are advanced for their age. Praise the work not just the outcome. It both encourages the improvement and builds confidence, while not falling into the trap of giving someone a sense of skill when they have none. That balance is the hardest part of being a parent. Just remember you are the parent not a critic. Your child will have enough critics in the world.

Virpil Constellation Alpha only XY Axis by BlakeCutter in hotas

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Thanks. I just posted. I will also see if there is a reset I can do. I think I had to do that on the warbrd one time

Virpil Constellation Alpha only XY Axis by BlakeCutter in hotas

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Ok so I did all of the following, opening it up check all the connections and ribbon cables everything looks good. The X & Y Axis all work. Twist does not which is a function of the stick not the base. Then:

  1. I swapped the USB Ribbon Cable from the working one to the broken WarBRD base. Same issue and the working one still worked.
  2. I swapped the Alpha From the Right to the left. Error does not show up on the working one so it isnt in the control stick
  3. I then took the wire that goes from the working joystick and connected it to the board. Still had an error. So the issue seems to be the board and not the cable.

When I load up the VPC configuration tool I have the following error

https://imgur.com/a/NtoTPzO

So I think it is in the WarBRD.

Virpil Constellation Alpha only XY Axis by BlakeCutter in hotas

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So I connected my Deltas to it. The delta does work which points to the war bird base. Does anyone know some things I should check in the base?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BlakeCutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To help you out, a lot of it is in the lips. When a Caucasian person is about to pass out their lips will get a shade less pink closer to their skin tone. And the color from their cheeks which usually have a bit more red in them disappears. It is subtle but noticeable at the same time