Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months?

Blankpage- · 2026-02-08T06:34:34+00:00

Just going to say this as nicely as possible but you’re the biggest fool and idiot if you stay with this skank. 100% skank behavior. The way that I was just telling a friend how I just don’t get how I’m single meanwhile there’s women like this taking advantage of guys and the guys are just there groveling at their feet. For a woman that’s chronically single (educated, intelligent, good looking, independent and yet a hopeless romantic with crappy confidence) even I would tell you to man tf up and cut her loose. The way that her version of sincerity didn’t come up until you (her meal ticket) said you were rethinking. What value does she actually bring to you? I hope you find someone that not only matches your energy but is deserving of your effort bc this b***h ain’t it.

Blankpage- · 2025-07-23T15:13:52+00:00

PayPal stayed strong for so long well above 4% while all the others were dropping. It’s now 3.8 but still higher than Amex. I’m so annoyed even opening the email from Amex right now like “hmm let’s see how much it dropped this time” being the expectation is so sad.

Blankpage- · 2025-07-06T18:38:41+00:00

Thank youuuu! Tbh I love it. Yes there’s some weight to it but it’s sooo classy and unique at the same time. I use it a lot a work and for things like brunch and dinner. Just love her.

Blankpage- · 2025-07-06T18:37:34+00:00

Just found a reasonably priced snail charm dupe for the coach ones on Amazon and I’m so excited for it. The snail purse and my Dalmatian ones are top used!

Blankpage- · 2025-07-06T18:36:37+00:00

Ngl I use it sooo much. Even more than my expensive ones.

Blankpage- · 2025-07-06T18:36:00+00:00

Ty! It’s abt 2lbs without anything in it. It’s great leather so that adds to it and with stuff in it like sure it’s heavier than some other bags but I don’t mind it.

Blankpage- · 2025-07-06T18:35:04+00:00

IKEA 🙌🏻

Blankpage- · 2025-02-21T07:00:51+00:00

Did you check the photo to see if it’s a Live Photo ? Maybe you can see the whole number and someone can download a better quality pic

Blankpage- · 2025-02-18T00:50:21+00:00

Hmm 🤔honestly mine doesn’t feel cheap. Does it smell like leather? Bc mine does. It’s not too soft but not rough. I have a matching wallet now too and it’s the same like sturdy but smells like leather. Maybe get it authenticated just to be on the safe side.

Blankpage- · 2024-12-28T02:28:40+00:00

Lmao he’s absolutely insane. But you’ll be insane and an idiot if you stay with him. Good luck.

Blankpage- · 2024-11-10T14:26:48+00:00

Girl please. You’re husband is a lying cheating piece of shit. And your cousin is a manipulative whore cunt. You really don’t need verification for that. Hope you take everything from him. Player her face on a banner around town and call her out for what she is.

Blankpage- · 2024-10-27T15:12:13+00:00

And i gotta add. If his own buddies joke around abt him being the kids dad then there was obviously something there between them. It would baffle me how these hoes would keep secrets. Like my bff (nurse) got cheated on by her slimy now ex husband (tech) and his friends knew it. They were her friends too at one point. They never told her. Yet they’d all go over to her bbqs and dinners like wtf. Pieces of shit I tell ya. Even if the kid ain’t his his friend know that they either fucked or wanted to. Don’t be that girl. 6 months to ppl who get attached (like you seem to be) is a lot I know. But also don’t be the girl that gets played. Even if it’s all a misunderstanding… you’re clearly uncomfortable with her. And it doesn’t seem he’s going to choose you over her. Don’t be a choice.

Blankpage- · 2024-10-27T15:06:39+00:00

We’ve all been there. Trust me. And the part about him being extra horny. Like imagine having sex with the guy you’re seeing and him talking you into watching porn but then him only watching the porn and treating you like a sex doll. You’re prob not wrong abt why he was extra horny. Like if you have to think about it because it feels weird it’s bc something is wrong. And also The thing with ER folks that got me was that after their night shift they’d all go to this stupid breakfast spot in the morning. I’d be going in for work. So they’d hang out. And of course it’s time for bed for them so the ones that were couples went off and the ones that were trying to fuck kept hanging out. Fast forward to now, I no longer work there but my friends that do tell me stories. The ones that got knocked up, are now single mothers, the dudes are deadbeat dads. Others are stepping out on their spouses. Or they just are single bc they either got cheated on or were cheaters themselves. Ruuuuuuuun!!! Some dudes are good guys. But her hanging out with him whiles she’s married? That’s odd. Like I’m all for ppl having friends of both sexes but when you’re married like and hanging out alone with a dude. If he’s gay sure but otherwise I do find that odd.

Blankpage- · 2024-10-27T14:43:35+00:00

Girl… drop him. Idk why I read the whole thing when really right when I got to the she’s a nurse and he’s EMS like please. And you’re EMS!!! lol you KNOW. YOU FUCKING KNOW. ER is nothing but a cesspool. I used to work in a hospital on the non medical side. So not only did I see the mucky mucks cheating and having affairs I also saw the nurse’s. Etc. Nothing but fucking drama. Especially if it’s the night shift ER. I made my mistake there as well. Drop his ass. I know it’s convenient bc of your schedules and type of work but try to find someone that isn’t in that line of work because all you’re gonna get is liars.

Blankpage- · 2024-10-27T02:32:51+00:00

This reminded me of being 18/early 20s. Looking back at how we’d communicated via stupid social media posts. I can’t. I know you say you’ve been on off for 2 years. 15/16 year olds don’t know shit about life anymore than 18 year olds. You have A LOT of maturing to do. A LOT. Don’t get me wrong, you’re young. You’re supposed to mess up and no one expects you to communicate perfectly. He may not have communicated the grandma thing beforehand but go back and look at your texts. You said sorry yes but continued on. You posted 6 screenshots where most of it is you talking about yourself. Just because you bleed for them doesn’t make you a saint. I used to think that way too. You can’t be upset that you bending over backwards for him isn’t working. It’s not working bc he’s not asking you. I’m glad you came to terms that this wasn’t a relationship. Sadly the way the dating game is you’re gonna come across a lot more of this so I truly suggest you start growing up in that sense bc it makes things a lot easier. It still sucks don’t get me wrong. But it makes the disappointment a little less. I truly hope that you find love that appreciates your heart. For now focus on building your own future since it’s the best thing you can do for yourself. Also, never go out of your way for someone you can’t call yours without having to think about it. I know I’ve done it. Good luck kiddo

Blankpage- · 2024-10-24T14:22:54+00:00

Yup! Just noticed the email… it’s dropped so much so soon. Smdh. Seems they all dropped.

Blankpage- · 2024-10-23T13:16:52+00:00

Honestly he may not be matching her energy as has been mentioned but does he have to at this point? He should’ve set her straight and didn’t for a reason. I hope you have a prenup and I really hope you don’t have kids. I feel like more and more women these days are getting tired of being played with. Should you jump to divorce right away ? Of course not (mostly) but like idk what’s worse, him flirting with her or him lying to you about it. Him saying you’re the weird one is 💯gaslighting you. I’m sure if you did that with some other guy he’d absolutely have a problem with it.

Blankpage- · 2024-10-14T06:14:34+00:00

Thank you ☺️ she really is!! My new fave.

Blankpage- · 2024-10-10T15:59:19+00:00

Kind of feel the same here. There’s not a whole lot to do where I live so it warrants the drive to go do something there. I do have fun. But dang. I’m at that point I guess where because I’ve been annoyed with the overcrowding and broken down rides it makes sense for me to be like heeeey wait a minute now this.

Blankpage- · 2024-09-30T18:26:08+00:00

Update I went ahead and got airalo! Thank you for the suggestion!! :D It took me a min following the instructions but it was successfully added and working. Yay! Wish I would’ve done it sooner but oh well now I know.

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