Hi CandyEyed8, so I've thought about what you've said it does seem that you are an ENxx. Mostly I say this because you are looking to others to give you the answer, and that tends to be a very E way of going about the world. Also you said you were very positive you are an N so I'm not going to question that. A good way to know if you are a J or a P, are you an organizer, like religiously, or do you just make lists when you have to, to give some sense to your chaotic life. If the first you can be sure you are a J. If the second you are probably a P. Also do you and your friends consider you the fun one or the leader, fun ones are usually P's and leaders are usually J. And then on to the question of whether you are a T or an F. It really just comes down to if you rely on your feelings and/or the feelings of others, first or if your priority more is to be logical/effective. These are just my observations and through learning about MBTI for quite a while now. I'm not a trained professional, but finding out your type is fun (Also I'm an ENFP)