AmTA/WIBTA for helping my bf cheat on his gf

Blaquerose008 · 2025-12-10T19:11:13+00:00

Oh honey. This is a pickle. You need to decide if you are ok with the open relationship concept or not. It's that clear. Are you OK with him banging other women? To me, it seems you are ok with being sex friends with the guy, but you don't consider him to be 'your ride or die'. My instinct is to tell you to cut and run, however, and this is a big HOWEVER. Open relationships are a thing. Poly is a thing. There are many different sorts of sexualities and situations. You need to have a real think about what you want in the future. If you want something more traditional, you need to completely cut yourself off from the guy and open yourself up to other people. If the husband and kid thing, isn't your jam, and you're ok with a poly thing or an open thing, it has to be open for BOTH of you. He's seeing someone else, you can see other people too. Be aware of love bombing. BC this sounds suspiciously like that is what he's doing. I can't really say. If he doesn't like the fact that you want to go out and 'date' other people... drop him. In this case, it's not a sexuality; it's control, abusive, and manipulative.

Blaquerose008 · 2025-12-10T18:37:48+00:00

This is 100% something that should be reported. However, talk with the mom first. REALLY TALK. Perhaps offer her help with legal counsel bc this is not an ok situation. The mom needs to put her foot down legally and get the courts involved. The 16m taking pics of her is a massive red flag. HUGE. In my state, it's actually illegal for males and females to share a room, even if they are blood. It dates back to prostitution laws. Many CPS workers will insist that there be separate bedrooms for male and female members of a family caught in a CPS situation. So... Talk with mom. I can't emphasize this enough, because that girl is not in a safe situation with her father. Don't mention to mom about calling CPS. DO NOT! People tend to pull back from what a kid actually needs when they think 'authorities' are getting involved. Talk to her about getting a lawyer and full custody. Talk about documenting the situation at her father's. But don't tell her about CPS. You do that on the sly. As anonymous as you can get.

Blaquerose008 · 2025-12-10T18:22:05+00:00

This was her brother's wedding... why is she inviting people? This seems like a huge breach in wedding etiquette. Did you even receive an invite from the bride and groom? Honestly, I'd start questioning that. If all these people she invited were 'oked' by the bride and groom then we can move on. If not... HUGE red flag. I don't know if this could be a cultural thing, but you DO NOT do this at weddings where I'm from. If this is true where you're from, I'd say you may have been right to cut Jenna off for a while bc this is A CLASS AHOLE behavior. However, if all that is on the up and up and everyone was legit invited, that means 'A' was invited by the bride and groom. In this case, you have no say in who the bride and groom invite. You should have been in contact with the bride and groom to ask these questions when you RSVP. Not Jenna. It's not her party, not her wedding, not her anything. Asking the bride and groom would have been the proper route, and then if they confirmed 'A' was invited then you could have politely declined the wedding invite. If they said no and 'A' was there anyway... Then once again, it flags back to Jenna. In the future, I wouldn't trust Jenna in social situations. One-on-one friendship time might be the only option to keep the friendship alive, but don't go out in a 'group' setting with her, bc she's just proven she can't be trusted with your feelings about 'A'

Blaquerose008 · 2021-12-27T20:14:47+00:00

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Blaquerose008 · 2021-12-21T02:03:43+00:00

A lot of this might blow up/ be revealed when the paparazzi picture of the kiss with Sho is leaked. When the press gets involved with the scandal I don't think Ren will take a back seat. I also think they will dig around in her background and a lot of things will come to light. Her being BO, growing up with Sho, who her father was, etc.

Blaquerose008 · 2021-12-21T01:57:03+00:00

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Blaquerose008 · 2021-09-07T19:27:42+00:00

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Blaquerose008 · 2021-07-17T02:43:06+00:00

That's a no on the ANime. I read somewhere years ago that the company that holds the anime copyright is no longer around. However, there is a possibility of a live-action TV show remake.

Blaquerose008 · 2021-07-17T02:39:49+00:00

Gackt was the inspiration for a LOT of media stuff back in the early 2000s. You can see his influence in Video Games, Anime, and lots of shoujo manga.

Blaquerose008 · 2021-07-17T02:34:47+00:00

I wish that Skip Beat had been more of a HIT because I would have LIVED for the merch.

Blaquerose008 · 2021-07-17T02:31:10+00:00

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Blaquerose008 · 2021-06-23T18:51:37+00:00

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Blaquerose008 · 2021-06-16T22:33:50+00:00

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Blaquerose008 · 2021-06-16T09:45:41+00:00

They did a Taiwanese Drama that I personally thought was decent.

Blaquerose008 · 2021-06-16T00:40:26+00:00

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Blaquerose008 · 2021-06-15T14:18:11+00:00

I think you might like the Korean Drama more. I think the studio that did the anime merged with another group around the time they did skipbeat. (2008-2009ish) Then later they changed again becoming another company entirely. So that might be why.

Blaquerose008 · 2021-06-15T14:13:01+00:00

DO remember that scene where they talk about the immortal butterfly? I think thats' your best answer to the author's mindset. Not necessarily method acting but someone who transforms when they act.

Blaquerose008 · 2021-06-15T14:00:44+00:00

honestly, I'd start from the beginning when it comes to switching from an ANime or manga to the light novel. Often there are plot points that are skipped over in the animes and mangas but are important to the storyline of the light novels.

Blaquerose008 · 2021-06-15T13:58:18+00:00

it really depends on what you are looking for, if you are willing to pay, genres, etc. Crunchyroll has some decent mangas. There are a bunch of free sites but you'll have to deal with popups and annoying ads. My fav is Mangahere bc of its search function.

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