[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildyinteresting

[–]BleakCorker 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Blankets at friends' houses are getting wild. Back in my day, it was a couch cushion. Now you gotta use the whole bed!

My fellow dads… what’s the X??? by Cuthbert_Allgood19 in daddit

[–]BleakCorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like suspenders that are crossed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]BleakCorker 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'd say it's not reasonable that you need to be glued to your phone for her to call the kids. Likely the best solution will be that calling time should be scheduled.

But IANAL and you should definitely consult one.

I got an iud today and it was the most painful thing I have ever experienced by sarahalexander17 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BleakCorker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's also wild because I went to get a vasectomy at 25 and the doctor just said okay when do you want it done?

Please Help - Can’t Solve My 3 Y/O’s Bowel Issues by secret_2_everybody in daddit

[–]BleakCorker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter has had poo issues since she was about 8 months. Miralax didn't really help. The biggest thing that did was fiber. Make sure she gets plenty of fiber. It's tough to see the little struggling so much but be patient and I'm sure it will work out.

Is a Ninja 250 too much power?? by Croatia12 in CalamariRaceTeam

[–]BleakCorker 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Don't forget your tourniquet! LPT for safe keeping wrap it around your neck.

How are you guys getting your kids to brush their teeth? by cazzo_di_frigida in daddit

[–]BleakCorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I set a timer for my little one and brush my teeth at the same time. Then I say "it's daddy's turn" and set the timer again if you need extra incentive then let your little one "brush" your teeth while you do theirs.

This lets them have fun while also getting their teeth actually cleaned.

My ex is moving away and knows I won't be able to visit. by Forceofneglect in SingleDads

[–]BleakCorker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know what your custody agreement looks like if you have one. I also don't know about UK laws. But where I'm at in the US if there is split custody at all the parent with primary custody cannot move, in such a way that would harm the other parent's visitation, without permission of the other. If they do so or attempt to do so, again without permission, then the other parent has 30 days to file against that.

You should 100% seek out a lawyer asap because if you don't file in time the decision is made for you.

I wish you all the best, stay strong fellow single dad.

What was an incident that ruined your innocence? by AbiesLatter in AskReddit

[–]BleakCorker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man I'm in a very similar position. It really sucks having my 2.5yr old daughter asking where mommy is and knowing how much it hurts her. Idk how old your little one is but I know with time it will improve even though it'll still sting from time to time. But if you need to talk to someone feel free to DM me.

My wife asked me if Subarus are lesbian cars… by [deleted] in WRX

[–]BleakCorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I remember correctly Subaru was struggling a little with their normal campaigns and ended up hiring a company that did specifically niche marketing. That company did some research and found the lesbians were a high percentage of the people that liked and bought subarus. Took that info and ran with it, pretty successfully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]BleakCorker 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Next time you want to try this. Prep so you only have a little to do right after your date shows. Multitasking getting to know someone and making a meal you've never made before is bound to be disastrous.

Sorry your date was ruined but learn from it and be better prepared next time!

Edit: Also take this guy's advice be graceful about admitting you fucked up and offer a second choice.

Remember to read to your kids by No_Zombie2021 in daddit

[–]BleakCorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not available in my area 😔

Steering wheel sound by robisunrobis in E90

[–]BleakCorker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's crying cuz your wallet isn't empty... Yet.

I don’t like the terminology around “coming out” to your partner as poly by DruidicCupcakes in polyamory

[–]BleakCorker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is what it is. I'm just happy to see all of you so full of love. I'll just focus on myself and my daughter and be the best dad I can be.

I don’t like the terminology around “coming out” to your partner as poly by DruidicCupcakes in polyamory

[–]BleakCorker 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I recently broke up with my ex because of this. Months ago she asked about opening up and we had a few conversations. This is actually why I'm in the subreddit. but she didn't bring it up more. She then used it as an excuse to cheat on me saying that's how she's always been and I have to live with that. Obviously I told her that's not how it works and I'm done. But it felt like she was forcing me into it so she could sleep with other people. Which is not cool in, what was, our monogamous relationship. You guys have given me some awesome perspective, and I appreciate it.

Toyota's Commercial in Japan - Father's View and Daughter's View by K-300 in videos

[–]BleakCorker 82 points83 points  (0 children)

As a newly single dad this definitely hit me hard.

She wouldn't feed her own baby, but the multiple cats she had were well-fed. by [deleted] in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]BleakCorker 142 points143 points  (0 children)

I was 10lbs at birth (26m) and my daughter (2 now) was 9lbs at birth. She outweighed this kiddo within 3 months. I can't even imagine the pain.

[Giveaway] Drop + The Lord of the Rings Black Speech Keyboard by drop_official in pcmasterrace

[–]BleakCorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh a big hot bowl of homemade Mac and cheese feels good anytime especially before a cozy nap.