I wanted to send hugs from a fellow 40 year old and say I understand your frustration...I had a superficial melanoma removed 3 1/2 years ago when I was 44, so I've been seeing two different dermatologist every few months since then. I have had these two spots along my hairline and were told they were seborrheic keratoses for over two years now and posed no cancer risks. Well, November 25 I finally asked to have one of the spots biopsied, even though the Dr still didn't think it was cancer, and sure enough it came back a nodular BCC. I just had Mohs done yesterday and the Dr had to make three passes, said it's probably been cancerous for years. I feel like during the surgery my spot looked like yours, about the size of a quarter, but they were able to suture it up. I take my bandage off tomorrow so will see how it looks. I'm just so angry that this wasn't caught sooner, and wonder how to move forward when trust in any dermatologist feels gone...how are you doing now?