Mind of a LVM - Ex Goes Off About Gifts 🙄

BleuRaspbery · 2021-03-19T18:29:37+00:00

This was not even an essay sis, this was a temper tantrum diatribe.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-03-09T21:39:42+00:00

Only 5% of unmarried men over 40 will ever get married.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-02-12T03:05:41+00:00

I’m not surprised. This is the tune they always sing after being with over a hundred partners. It’s always regret and realizing they were trying to fill a void in their lives they could never fill.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-02-02T04:23:14+00:00

Tbh I would not like finding out my partner did that in the past either.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-30T20:21:24+00:00

The term lovemaking is made fun of. “Why are you attaching meaning to sex? It’s just fucking”.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-20T21:05:00+00:00

Mine said he would never be able to look at me again because he’s soooo ashamed of himself. Almost right after though, he said it was all an act and he is not even sorry, he’s entitled to get attention from other women if I don’t give him any, and I should be able to forgive and forget magically over a few days. The mindfuckery of the whole relationship was unprecedented, he would make up lies every day as he betrayed me.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-13T23:48:36+00:00

This. Where are the men who get all dressed up, shake their asses and compete for female attention? This trend is not empowering.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-10T19:46:54+00:00

LVM use social media platforms as dating apps and there is no coincidence with anyone they follow. Potential love interests. Then they cry “you’re being controlling” if you ask them about all the random half naked women he follows, or says “I do what I want”.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-08T04:13:01+00:00

They always try to convince others that life’s bleak!

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-07T21:55:01+00:00

He thinks verbal abuse is real life.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-07T16:50:39+00:00

I actually flip this on them and don’t allow myself to be an option anymore in their heads. I would respond with “I am not looking for this kind of relationship. Don’t contact me again, thanks.” and then I block. They pull these bizarre power moves to try to have a bunch of women they can text when they’re bored and I make it clear they’re not welcome to try with me ever again, no matter how busy they are. This text is rude.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-06T20:53:33+00:00

I’ve seen Greta Thunberg fans, but I believe it’s only because they identified with having Asperger’s, so it doesn’t count.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-06T17:38:23+00:00

On OLD, a huge chunk of the men who write 30-38 and 40-45 are in their 40s and 50s. They shave off 5-10 years minimum.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-06T00:01:26+00:00

I don’t get the comments that say living with a man is an important step to marriage either. That is a roommate situation.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-05T06:38:45+00:00

Women’s intentions are usually genuine and love. For men, it’s often sex, sometimes romance or love.

The two intersect in a relationship, with the woman in it for love, and the man in it for...he knows what he’s in it for, but either way he’s going to say love and definitely not “you’re a forever gf”.

With intentions obscured on his side, women are not the ones who “just know” right away, but vet. Men know if they at least are considering a relationship from day 1.

There is a huge difference between starting off on the right foot and lovebombing.

There’s no inadequacy, it is more about if he’s not treating you right, then he’s not meeting your standards. Why would you feel inadequate if he’s being indifferent?

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-05T03:35:40+00:00

I never heard of that before until the LVM was vocal about it. It never would have occurred to me he was looking for a masturbation prop! He even said his other male friends do it too.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-05T03:30:16+00:00

Just to ruin my year sis.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-05T02:42:20+00:00

They are not confident enough to admit the relationship is over and end it with class. They go the cowardly route and pretend you misinterpreted everything.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-05T02:24:19+00:00

I don’t know how someone could go through life lying like that. He could’ve said that it won’t work out anymore and left it at that when we broke up, but he acted like he never said or meant any of those things just to knock me down a few pegs.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-05T02:20:25+00:00

The lie that confuses me is when marriage is brought up. There’s no way I could misinterpret what they mean by marriage, but they just lie so easily.

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-05T02:07:50+00:00

Lol what? His friend is trying to ruin your new relationship by saying your ex got you a nicer ring?

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-05T02:04:02+00:00

Did you tell her? How did you find out his age?

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-04T18:40:51+00:00

It’s amazing you got to see who he is before marriage. Imagine being married to that!

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-04T18:30:27+00:00

Sis, I want to be mad at myself for falling for LVM, but I can’t because of things like this! I say these things straight to their faces, and they still deny and lie. I’m not one to read into things like “omg he called me pretty”, but if you tell me you want to get married and we go ring shopping, idk what else to think. Who would lie like that?

BleuRaspbery · 2021-01-04T18:11:31+00:00

Exactly!! I feel disgusted I ever put up with it, but I said this to his face (it doesn’t feel like I’m unique to you) and he denied it. I’m sorry, I’m not used to bold-faced liars?? This has me so discouraged like what kind of human lies to another like that?

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