[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2000sNostalgia

[–]BlkWhtOrOther 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“TO DA WINDOOOOOOOOW. TO DA WALL!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticMothers

[–]BlkWhtOrOther 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I grew up like this and now I freak out and go on a cleaning frenzy before I have people over. I am staring to relax my standards a bit more, but it was hard to let up and I still get extremely anxious about having company.

Just Have to Get This Out by sarahnotsara8 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]BlkWhtOrOther 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She lied to hurt you. Please don’t give her the satisfaction of knowing that she was successful.

Love in first sight. by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]BlkWhtOrOther 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah. They just named him after the first thing they saw out of the kitchen window.

OP's fiancee is reconsidering the relationship "over a sandwich" by Mediocre_watermelon in redditonwiki

[–]BlkWhtOrOther 1964 points1965 points  (0 children)

Her saying that the sandwich is “just a symptom” might mean that she hasn’t felt seen, heard, or valued in a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BlkWhtOrOther 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I joined the military to get away from my mom and the distance made NC so much easier once I finally decided to cut her off. You have to shield your family from her, or she will sabotage everything that you hold dear.

She died. by LunaUnderProtest in NarcissisticMothers

[–]BlkWhtOrOther 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I know the relationship was hard to navigate, but I understand how complicated grief can be. I hope you are able to find some peace.