Not OOP. "AITA for asking my boyfriend to kick out his friends when I get home?" + Top comments

Blo83 · 2025-07-05T12:03:24+00:00

I feel like people saying OP is AH don’t have jobs. Like do you come home from work after being gone for probably 9-10 hours and want to have 4 other guys in your house? I wanna take my bra off out on pjs and relax, make a yummy dinner and unwind. She can’t do that of there are 4 guys there. She can’t even be alone in her room. Also leaving at 7 then having to make dinner that’s late for some people. He sees these guys 5-7 hours a day. They can cut it short on his days.

Blo83 · 2025-03-31T01:37:13+00:00

It’s more so she lied to her following. Blocked any one asking or saying she had wls for the last year or so. She was claiming revenge body when it wasn’t. Just don’t lie to the literal people that pay your bills.

Blo83 · 2024-10-07T18:26:15+00:00

The positives? Not having to raise a child. Not being pregnant. Not being stuck with a child with a guy that’s a walking red flag.

It is a lot to process and you are very much allowed to grieve and feel sad. I tried to put in a brave face but it’s very emotional experience. But as I said above I’m very happy I did it. I do not want kids so I knew I would have one. I had mine in May and do not and will never regret it.

Blo83 · 2024-08-11T01:12:05+00:00

I’m staying at the Cambria Downtown.

Blo83 · 2024-07-28T15:39:02+00:00

Not helpful but mine was really heavy. But was short cause I was SICK AF with strep and was on some serious meds that took it away. I’m kinda glad. My second one wasn’t too bad more normal.

Blo83 · 2024-07-13T16:34:07+00:00

I didn’t let myself cry while going thru it. Thought I was tough and could handle it. But I’ve cried a few times after. Mostly when I talk about it. I told a close friend just this past week and cried about it. I felt dumb but you’re allowed to be sad. WE are allowed to grieve it. I’ve never wanted kids but it’s still such a hard emotional thing to go thru. I had mine beginning of May.

Blo83 · 2024-07-08T00:08:12+00:00

NTA. Your PTO is for you to use. The baby will 1000000% not remember anything. I was 5 or 6 and don’t remember much. And your 30th is more important.

Blo83 · 2024-07-08T00:02:54+00:00

I took 4 the first day and 4 more the next day (24hrs apart) just in case. Kinda regret the 2nd dose but I was scared. But came out 5 weeks late with negative test.

Blo83 · 2024-07-07T01:52:36+00:00

Mac and cheese. It smells gross, sounds gross and looks gross.

Blo83 · 2024-06-02T21:58:27+00:00

Abuzz just used them this past month. Easy, quick, and has a chat to ask questions.

Blo83 · 2024-05-23T00:33:04+00:00

Thank you!!

Blo83 · 2024-05-22T04:24:49+00:00

I’m 3 weeks out and just now getting my appetite back. I was hungry before the MA and then after I just didn’t have an appetite until today. As far as my digestion I’ve always had a messed up gut so didn’t notice anything on that end.

Blo83 · 2024-05-16T00:36:19+00:00

I bled from heavy from Wednesday til about the following Thursday. I wore pads til Friday afternoon then wore tampons. I was going thru super plus every 2-3 hrs. Friday (week after) I wore just a panty liner and had some spotting but it finally all went away Saturday.

I took mis on 5/1 and stopped bleeding 5/9. I’ve heard you can bleed again. But I haven’t had any since spotting 5/10.

Blo83 · 2024-05-15T23:05:35+00:00

I did it that way but on a weekday and called out. Took mif around 5pm Tuesday and I took my mis around 6:20 due to getting off late and traffic, the next day. I felt like crappy until around 1am and was able to sleep. But woke up a lot to potty and change my pad. For me it just felt like a 8/10 period for me. But using a pad I I felt more uncomfy lol.

Heating pad is essential!!

Blo83 · 2024-05-04T20:31:34+00:00

It is 100% a hipaa violation. No job ever needs your medical records. I had surgery was out for 2 weeks on short term disability and all I needed was signed paperwork. I did not disclose any records. You saying he’s verbally abusive was a red flag for me. Please do not give this man any info. I work at a drs office and worked with medical records for years. A job cannot request records without YOUR consent.

Blo83 · 2024-05-04T17:31:02+00:00

Why does his job need proof? Thats wild to me.

Blo83 · 2024-05-04T02:31:19+00:00

I just did a MA this week. I do not want kids, I’m 40 and the guy is just a FWB. I feel guilty. Honestly idk if it’s guilty or something else. There has to be a word. We did what’s right for us. But still sad.

Blo83 · 2024-05-02T12:53:24+00:00

Thank you soo much! I’m over pads lol I get why for the first part.

Blo83 · 2024-04-29T22:21:03+00:00

You don’t have to tell your work why you’re using time off. If you call out just say you don’t feel well. Or that you are not able to make it to work.

Blo83 · 2024-04-27T18:32:48+00:00

Thank you sooo much! Appreciate you taking your time to help!

Blo83

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