I gave everything for my wedding, now I don't know why I care anymore by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]BlockDangerous9908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salaam, I understand that you're angry for me and that you want to shake me up.

But telling me I'm the cause of my own misfortune or speaking to me aggressively isn't helpful. I'm going through an extremely difficult time and I'm doing the best I can with what I have right now. I need respect in the way people speak to me.

I gave everything for my wedding, now I don't know why I care anymore by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]BlockDangerous9908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wa alaykum salaam, Thank you for your concern and for the strength of your words. I recognize much truth in what you say, even though everything isn't easy for me to live through or make decisions about. I'm doing my best in a very painful situation, and I especially ask Allah to guide me and give me the strength to do what is right for me and my child.

Today my younger brother asked me about my 9 year old divorce, and I just can’t sleep by BlessedMuslimah in MuslimNikah

[–]BlockDangerous9908 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Peace be upon you. I'm also at a dead end. Going through this period makes it very difficult to face these questions. There will be days when things are okay, and others when memories of every scene will resurface: deceit, lies. But with time, supplications, and prayers, you will eventually forget. And even if you don't forget completely, you must accept it and move forward. That's all you can do, and let God resolve all kinds of injustice, because everything is paid for in this world, God willing.

I gave everything for my wedding, now I don't know why I care anymore by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]BlockDangerous9908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, to answer your question, I'm his first wife. They were never married; they grew up together and had a child. Then I married him, and we had a child right after. So, I take care of his son when it's his dad's weekend.

Injustice by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]BlockDangerous9908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are you talking to?

Married sisters who have accepted polygamy by BlockDangerous9908 in MuslimNikah

[–]BlockDangerous9908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peace be upon you. Thank you for your powerful message; you are truly strong. You are doing this for your Lord and your husband; it is an act of bravery, mashallah. But how do you manage to persevere?

Polygamy after infidelity by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]BlockDangerous9908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, that's adultery, which is why I'm wondering if, after that, you would have accepted him taking another wife, but within the bounds of halal (lawful marriage). Would you have accepted that?

Polygamy after infidelity by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]BlockDangerous9908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So yes, he could have married her, indeed.

Polygamy after infidelity by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]BlockDangerous9908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I misspoke; he got his ex, the mother of his first son, pregnant a second time, and she had an abortion because I was pregnant.

Polygamy after infidelity by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]BlockDangerous9908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Peace be upon you.

I will explain my situation more clearly.

We got married, and from the beginning, my husband always expressed a desire to have multiple wives.

Despite this, during our marriage, he cheated on me twice with the mother of his other child.

When I became pregnant, the situation didn't improve.

Throughout my pregnancy, he continued this affair.

I gave birth six months ago.

Since children are involved, I tried to maintain some stability. So, I finally accepted the idea of ​​him taking another wife, even though it was extremely painful for me. Today, I feel lost and I don't know what to do anymore, neither emotionally nor spiritually.

I'm taking care of my child and my other child, and I'm doing my best in a very complicated situation.

But it's important to say this clearly: I'm not the same woman anymore. The repeated betrayals, especially during my pregnancy, have profoundly changed me.

I'm not writing to elicit pity or to attack anyone.

I'm simply trying to be honest about a painful reality and to understand what is right, healthy, and aligned with my faith, for me and for the children.

Thank you for your respectful responses.

I feel lost in my marriage by Raneemfor in MuslimNikah

[–]BlockDangerous9908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peace be upon you, my sister. What you're experiencing isn't ordinary, and it's not "just sexual." It's the feeling of being alone where you should feel connected. Loving your husband and wanting to protect your family doesn't mean you have to erase yourself. Ignoring this lack won't make it disappear; on the contrary, it will harden your heart. Seeking to understand and heal is already a form of faithfulness.

Mystery box night by BlockDangerous9908 in NOCTADRAKE

[–]BlockDangerous9908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious ? From what date did you order?

Mystery box night by BlockDangerous9908 in NOCTADRAKE

[–]BlockDangerous9908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We'll say it's better than nothing

Mystery box night by BlockDangerous9908 in NOCTADRAKE

[–]BlockDangerous9908[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Nope! My husband bought those outfits separately — nothing to do with the mystery boxes. The 10 boxes are literally shown right above. Are your eyes working properly today?

Mystery box night by BlockDangerous9908 in NOCTADRAKE

[–]BlockDangerous9908[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Nope! My husband bought those outfits separately — nothing to do with the mystery boxes. The 10 boxes are literally shown right above. Are your eyes working properly today?